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Simon Smit

and

Marli Botha

Simon Smit

and

Marli Botha

#SMITTEN

March 8, 2025

Ashanti Estate, Paarl, SA

How we met

Our story began at a casual braai in April 2019. Simon, still in his work clothes and looking quite sharp, was on his way to the bathroom when he happened to meet Marli, who was rocking her usual Friday style—jeans and a cozy sweater. We struck up a conversation, and what was supposed to be a quick hello turned into an entire evening spent together, sharing stories and laughter. Before leaving, Simon asked for Marli's phone number, and by Monday, he sent that first message. We spent the next few weeks getting to know each other better, but our official first date didn’t happen until May. During that date, Simon made it very clear that this was just the beginning—"the first of many." True to his word, Simon asked Marli to be his girlfriend six months later, and we’ve been inseparable ever since. We’re still as madly in love as we were that first night, and we’re so excited to celebrate our special day with all our friends and family.

How we got engaged

In January 2024, Marli and Simon went on a road trip through the Garden Route. After a brief stay in Jeffreys Bay, they were en route to Plettenberg Bay, where they enjoyed their first night at a cozy guesthouse. They had already planned the next day the night before, starting with a hike. But at first light, it was clear that things wouldn’t go as planned. At this point, Marli had no idea what Simon was planning, so when he suggested hiking in the gloomy weather, she wasn’t exactly thrilled. However, after some gentle persuasion, she agreed, and they set off on the Robberg Hiking Trail together. As they hiked, Simon spotted a lookout point and suggested they climb up to it. By the time they reached the scenic spot, exhausted, they took a moment to catch their breath and take in the view. A few seagulls caught Marli’s attention, and as she turned back, there was Simon, down on one knee, with a ring! Her answer, as you might guess, was a very happy YES!

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Schedule

Saturday, March 8, 2025

Ceremony 💍

2:30 pm - 3:30 pm

The dress code is strictly Black, Formal

Pre-drinks

3:30 pm - 5:00 pm

Reception

Sat, Mar 8, 2025, 5:30 pm - Sun, Mar 9, 2025, 12:00 am

Travel

Unfortunately, our venue does not have accommodation for guests. However, there are many guesthouses available in and around the Paarl area.

House Or Rental

Amberg Country Estate

Paarl, WC 7646, South Africa
 

House Or Rental

Nuwerus Lodge

Jan Van Riebeeck Drive, Paarl, WC 7646, South Africa
 

House Or Rental

Calais Wine Estate

Unnamed Road, WC, South Africa
 

House Or Rental

De Leeuwenhof Estate

Klein Drakenstein Road, Paarl, WC, South Africa
 

House Or Rental

D'olyfboom Family Estate

14 Napier, Paarl, WC 7646, South Africa
 

Wedding Party

Bianca Enslin

Maid of Honor

Marli's Sister

Telanie Breedt

Bridesmaid

Carissa Earle

Bridesmaid

Michelle Mostert

Bridesmaid

Dané Jooste

Bridesmaid

Juan Mostert

Best Man

Simon's Brother in Law

Eon Hoon

Groomsman

Jacques Earle

Groomsman

David Landsberg

Groomsman

Philip Lotter

Groomsman

FAQs

Question

What should I wear?

Answer

The dress code is strictly Black Tie, no jeans or chino's please. Men can wear a white shirt with a black blazer, if you don't want to wear a blazer, a black shirt is prefered.

Question

Are there other available accommodations other than what is listed?

Answer

Yes, there are multiple guesthouses in Paarl, which is about 10km from our venue.

Question

Can I bring my kids?

Answer

As much as we love your little ones, we will not be having children other than our close family at the wedding. We apologize for any inconvenience caused.

Question

What gifts would the bride and groom appreciate?

Answer

Your presence at our wedding is the greatest gift of all. If you wish to contribute, a monetary gift would help us start our new life together, and to enjoy the honeymoon!

Question

When is the RSVP deadline?

Answer

Please RSVP by January 31st 2025.

Question

What will the weather be like?

Answer

Welcome to Cape Town! Everybody knows you can expect 4 seasons in 1 day. March is still a warm month, but you never know when it might rain! Please ensure you have a jacket, just incase.

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