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Marisa Jill James

&

Michael Christopher Rutkoski

Marisa Jill James

&

Michael Christopher Rutkoski

#RacingToRutkoski

October 10, 2024

Aquebogue, NY

How it all started..

In the Williams' Basement

Michael and Marisa met in 2015 at the home of a childhood friend during a small get together. A year prior, Michael was trying to connect with Marisa on Facebook, but she coyly rebuffed his advances. Ten years later and they have truly accomplished so much together, crossing the finish line with their wedding day!

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Schedule

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"If you want to go fast go alone, if you want to go far go together."

Thursday, October 10, 2024

Ceremony

3:30 pm - 4:00 pm

The Vineyards at Aquebogue
978 Main Road, Riverhead, NY 11931

Please arrive promptly at 3:15pm to find a seat before the ceremony starts! The ceremony will take place outside under the arbor.

Cocktail Hour

4:00 pm - 5:30 pm

The Vineyards at Aquebogue
Riverhead, NY 11901

This will take place in the garden patio

Reception

5:30 pm - 11:00 pm

The Vineyards at Aquebogue
Riverhead, NY 11901

This will take place in the ballroom

After Party

Thu, Oct 10, 2024, 11:00 pm - Fri, Oct 11, 2024, 2:00 am

Travel

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Hotel

Hyatt Place Long Island/East End

451 East Main Street, Riverhead, NY 11901
 6312080002

Hotel block is reserved under "Rutkoski Wedding" providing a discounted rate until August 8th. Please reserve your room using the link provided.

Rental Car

Hometown Taxi

33 Hill Street, Southampton, NY 11968
 6312875200

Please note that Uber may be scarce in the Mattituck area!

Registry

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We are so excited to have you join our special day and your presence at our wedding is the best gift we could ask for. However, if we are to be honored with a present from you, a wedding card box will be at our reception.

Wedding Party

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"There are friends, there is family, and then there are friends that become family."

Bunker & Hank

Ring Bearer & Flower Child

Bunker: Is our first child. We drove to Missouri and back in two days to pick him up. Hank: Hank is spunky, sweet, clumsy, and loves his food! Hank loves Bunker so much. Bunker & Hank are complete opposites. Bunker is spicy & Hank is sweet.

Christopher & Tracy James

Father of the Bride

Steven & Jennifer Thompson

Mother of the Bride

Robert & Marilyn Rutkoski

Parents of the Groom

Jennifer Rutkoski

Maid of Honor

It all started with a froyo date! Jenny became the little sister Marisa has always wanted. Jenny is patient and kind to all animals, a growing yoga teacher, and the best date night partner! Jenny planned the best bachelorette trip to Nashville for Marisa!

Kyle Ellwood

Best Man

Michael and Kyle started racing together in 2020. They quickly became brothers. Kyle is a talented race car driver, he is on his way to claiming the all time win in the legend car division. Kyle has the ability to lighten up a stressful day with his personality. Kyle broke his rib on his first vacation with us, always leaving a funny story to tell! Kyle and Stephanie got engaged in May!

Jule Bostic

Maid of Honor

Jule and Marisa started working together at John T. Mather Memorial Hospital in 2017 and have been inseparable since. Jule is the true meaning that friends are family.

Alex Endres

Best Man

Alex is a loyal and reliable friend. From being a lovely Uncle to Bunker and Hank to cooking weekly dinners at the race shop. Alex never skips a beat when it comes to helping with any project, task, or event! His homemade desserts are unmatched! Alex and Michael enjoy going to the local lake to kayak, fish and drink beers together.

Beth Lescenski

Bridesmaid

Beth and Marisa have been friends since they were little girls. From sleepovers and birthday parties to baby showers and weddings. Beth has a beautiful eye when it comes to florals, crafts and details. Beth is the mother of two boys; CJ & Blake!

Nicholas Pontillo

Groomsman

Nick started working at the dealership in 2014 and joined the race team in 2019. Nick is not only valuable when it comes to working but he also is valuable when it comes to having a conversation from the heart. Nick is easy to talk to and always the best person to seek advice or opinions. Nick is the proud father of our "Queen" Olivia!

Barbara Pace

Bridesmaid

Barbie and Dylan started dating in 2019. Barbie is a wonderful sister-in-law. We are fortunate to have her in our life and look forward to many more shared moments and experiences. Barbie is a digital analytic consultant by career, a cat mom by choice and a steak lover by taste! Barbie and Marisa always have a good time together.

Dylan James

Groomsman

Although Dylan is the youngest of the James' siblings, his height would say otherwise. Dylan and Barbie moved to North Carolina in 2021, however he is always a phone call away. Dylan loves to play video games, drive his mustang, and spend time at home with his fur babies! Brothers and sisters may fight but we always have each others backs!

Heather Zilnicki

Bridesmaid

Heather and Marisa have been friends since they were little girls. Marisa followed Heather's footsteps by attending Radiology school. Heather's home is always a safe haven with the best home cooked meals! Heather and Marisa still bond over their bunny & baby blanket.

Anthony Williams

Groomsman

Anthony is Michael's longest friend, they met in preschool and are still best friends to this day. Regardless of how much time passes, their friendship always picks up where it was left off. Anthony lives down the road from us so we often get together for "family" dinners. The boys share their love for Coors light, speed, motors, and outdoors together. From riding dirt bikes after school together to having never ending battles about Chevrolet versus Ford. Some things don't change and for this instance it's a great thing!

Ashley Chew

Bridesmaid

Ashley worked at City MD with Marisa in 2022. She "helped" Marisa through her math classes during college. She loves to spend time with her family, play golf, enjoy days on the boat, and dance the night away! Ashley is Michael's cousin by blood but our friend by choice!

Mitchell Patern

Groomsman

Mitch started working at the dealership in 2018. Mitch and Michael bonded over racing and the love for motorsports. Mitch helped on the race team for a few years which brought the boys closer together. Mitch became close with Marisa's mother's side of the family, joining us for family holidays and Sunday dinners. Mitch does not do well when he overheats, has a big sweet tooth, and makes the best banana cream pie!

William Burns

Groomsman

Willie started working at the dealership in 2020. Willie always looked up to Michael for guidance at work with how to fix things. Willie is also part of the race team and a big help at the track on Saturday nights. Michael was the Best Man in Willie and Emma's wedding this past May!

Things To Do

Terra Vite North Fork Winery & Vineyard

Terra Vite North Fork Winery & Vineyard

250 Manor Lane, Jamesport, NY 11947
Lieb Cellars Tasting Room

Lieb Cellars Tasting Room

13050 Oregon Road, Cutchogue, NY 11935
Rose Hill Vineyards & Inn

Rose Hill Vineyards & Inn

2000 Oregon Road, Mattituck, NY 11952
Jamesport Farm Brewery

Jamesport Farm Brewery

5873 Sound Avenue, Riverhead, NY 11901
Greenport

Greenport

Greenport, NY 11944
River Walk Bar & Grille

River Walk Bar & Grille

40 Peconic Avenue, Riverhead, NY 11901
Sparkling Pointe Vineyards & Winery

Sparkling Pointe Vineyards & Winery

39750 County Road 48, Southold, NY 11971
Greenport Harbor Brewery and Restaurant

Greenport Harbor Brewery and Restaurant

42155 Main Road, Peconic, NY 11958
Long Island Aquarium

Long Island Aquarium

431 East Main Street, Riverhead, NY 11901
Sannino Vineyard

Sannino Vineyard

15975 County Road 48, Cutchogue, NY 11935
Laurel Lake Preserve

Laurel Lake Preserve

5501 New York 25, Laurel, NY 11948
Orient Beach State Park

Orient Beach State Park

40000 Main Road, Orient, NY 11957

FAQs

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If you have any other questions, that we have not listed, please feel free to reach out and ask!
Question

What do I wear?

Answer

Semi-Formal: We ask that you wear semi-formal attire such as a cocktail-length dress or dressy separates for women and a suit and tie for men.

Question

What are the wedding colors?

Answer

White, Green & Gold

Question

What time should we arrive for the Ceremony?

Answer

We ask guests to arrive at the Vineyards promptly at 3:15pm

Question

Can I bring my kids?

Answer

Although we love your little ones, we thought you’d appreciate the night off instead! We respectfully request no children. Thank you for understanding!

Question

Do I have a plus one?

Answer

Your invitation will indicate if you have a plus one!

Question

Is the wedding inside or outside?

Answer

The wedding will be inside & outside, so please dress appropriately and choose your shoes wisely or bring a change of shoes!

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