Michael and Marisa met in 2015 at the home of a childhood friend during a small get together. A year prior, Michael was trying to connect with Marisa on Facebook, but she coyly rebuffed his advances. Ten years later and they have truly accomplished so much together, crossing the finish line with their wedding day!
3:30 pm - 4:00 pm
Please arrive promptly at 3:15pm to find a seat before the ceremony starts! The ceremony will take place outside under the arbor.
4:00 pm - 5:30 pm
This will take place in the garden patio
5:30 pm - 11:00 pm
This will take place in the ballroom
Thu, Oct 10, 2024, 11:00 pm - Fri, Oct 11, 2024, 2:00 am
Hotel
Hotel block is reserved under "Rutkoski Wedding" providing a discounted rate until August 8th. Please reserve your room using the link provided.
Rental Car
Please note that Uber may be scarce in the Mattituck area!
Ring Bearer & Flower Child
Bunker: Is our first child. We drove to Missouri and back in two days to pick him up. Hank: Hank is spunky, sweet, clumsy, and loves his food! Hank loves Bunker so much. Bunker & Hank are complete opposites. Bunker is spicy & Hank is sweet.
Father of the Bride
Mother of the Bride
Parents of the Groom
Maid of Honor
It all started with a froyo date! Jenny became the little sister Marisa has always wanted. Jenny is patient and kind to all animals, a growing yoga teacher, and the best date night partner! Jenny planned the best bachelorette trip to Nashville for Marisa!
Best Man
Michael and Kyle started racing together in 2020. They quickly became brothers. Kyle is a talented race car driver, he is on his way to claiming the all time win in the legend car division. Kyle has the ability to lighten up a stressful day with his personality. Kyle broke his rib on his first vacation with us, always leaving a funny story to tell! Kyle and Stephanie got engaged in May!
Maid of Honor
Jule and Marisa started working together at John T. Mather Memorial Hospital in 2017 and have been inseparable since. Jule is the true meaning that friends are family.
Best Man
Alex is a loyal and reliable friend. From being a lovely Uncle to Bunker and Hank to cooking weekly dinners at the race shop. Alex never skips a beat when it comes to helping with any project, task, or event! His homemade desserts are unmatched! Alex and Michael enjoy going to the local lake to kayak, fish and drink beers together.
Bridesmaid
Beth and Marisa have been friends since they were little girls. From sleepovers and birthday parties to baby showers and weddings. Beth has a beautiful eye when it comes to florals, crafts and details. Beth is the mother of two boys; CJ & Blake!
Groomsman
Nick started working at the dealership in 2014 and joined the race team in 2019. Nick is not only valuable when it comes to working but he also is valuable when it comes to having a conversation from the heart. Nick is easy to talk to and always the best person to seek advice or opinions. Nick is the proud father of our "Queen" Olivia!
Bridesmaid
Barbie and Dylan started dating in 2019. Barbie is a wonderful sister-in-law. We are fortunate to have her in our life and look forward to many more shared moments and experiences. Barbie is a digital analytic consultant by career, a cat mom by choice and a steak lover by taste! Barbie and Marisa always have a good time together.
Groomsman
Although Dylan is the youngest of the James' siblings, his height would say otherwise. Dylan and Barbie moved to North Carolina in 2021, however he is always a phone call away. Dylan loves to play video games, drive his mustang, and spend time at home with his fur babies! Brothers and sisters may fight but we always have each others backs!
Bridesmaid
Heather and Marisa have been friends since they were little girls. Marisa followed Heather's footsteps by attending Radiology school. Heather's home is always a safe haven with the best home cooked meals! Heather and Marisa still bond over their bunny & baby blanket.
Groomsman
Anthony is Michael's longest friend, they met in preschool and are still best friends to this day. Regardless of how much time passes, their friendship always picks up where it was left off. Anthony lives down the road from us so we often get together for "family" dinners. The boys share their love for Coors light, speed, motors, and outdoors together. From riding dirt bikes after school together to having never ending battles about Chevrolet versus Ford. Some things don't change and for this instance it's a great thing!
Bridesmaid
Ashley worked at City MD with Marisa in 2022. She "helped" Marisa through her math classes during college. She loves to spend time with her family, play golf, enjoy days on the boat, and dance the night away! Ashley is Michael's cousin by blood but our friend by choice!
Groomsman
Mitch started working at the dealership in 2018. Mitch and Michael bonded over racing and the love for motorsports. Mitch helped on the race team for a few years which brought the boys closer together. Mitch became close with Marisa's mother's side of the family, joining us for family holidays and Sunday dinners. Mitch does not do well when he overheats, has a big sweet tooth, and makes the best banana cream pie!
Groomsman
Willie started working at the dealership in 2020. Willie always looked up to Michael for guidance at work with how to fix things. Willie is also part of the race team and a big help at the track on Saturday nights. Michael was the Best Man in Willie and Emma's wedding this past May!
Semi-Formal: We ask that you wear semi-formal attire such as a cocktail-length dress or dressy separates for women and a suit and tie for men.
White, Green & Gold
We ask guests to arrive at the Vineyards promptly at 3:15pm
Although we love your little ones, we thought you’d appreciate the night off instead! We respectfully request no children. Thank you for understanding!
Your invitation will indicate if you have a plus one!
The wedding will be inside & outside, so please dress appropriately and choose your shoes wisely or bring a change of shoes!