Rodrick Muya
Loïs Mayala
Rodrick Muya
Loïs Mayala
March 15, 2025
How we became a "We"
Our story began with a simple introductory email. Our international student advisor, aware that we were the only two Congolese students at the university at the time, introduced us through a professional, introductory email meant to foster a sense of shared community and culture. What started as a formal courtesy email, over time developed into a strong friendship and beautiful romance. As we got to know each other, it became clear how perfectly God had orchestrated our meeting. In His perfect timing, He brought us into each other’s lives when we needed it the most, even though we didn’t realize it at the time. It was as though we had always known each other; our connection felt effortless, natural, and genuine. Our differences complemented each other in ways we never imagined, making us the perfect match. Through faith, laughter, and love, our journey has brought us to this moment: standing together, ready to begin the next chapter of our lives. And now, here we are, preparing to say “I do,” surrounded by the love and support of those who mean the most to us. We’re so excited to share this special day with you as we celebrate the start of our forever!
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Wedding Schedule
Saturday, March 15, 2025
Ceremony
2:00 pm - 3:00 pm
114 N Lewis St, Monroe, WA 98272
This event will be an Unplug Ceremony
Dear Family and Friends, We are thrilled to celebrate our wedding day with you and are deeply grateful for your love and support. To help make our ceremony a truly special and meaningful experience, we kindly ask for your help creating a moment of presence and connection. We have decided to have an unplugged ceremony, so we ask that all phones and devices be silenced and put away during the ceremony. This will allow everyone to fully embrace and share in the joy of this important moment. Before the ceremony begins, we’ll have a dedicated social media moment where you’re welcome to take pictures and videos. After that, we invite you to relax and enjoy the ceremony while leaving the photography and videography to the talented professionals we’ve hired to capture every detail beautifully. Thank you for your understanding and for being part of this meaningful day. We can’t wait to celebrate with you! With love and appreciation, Rodrick & Loïs
Cocktail Hour
3:00 pm - 4:30 pm
114 N Lewis St, Monroe, WA 98272
Take this time to relax, mingle, and enjoy the celebration! Head to the bar for unlimited non-alcoholic drinks, completely free of charge. Please, participate to our video guest book activity and leave us a message! Whether you want to record something solo, grab a friend, gather a group, or all of the above, feel free to share your love, a fun memory, or just some words to make us smile. You can leave as many messages as you’d like! Take pictures, connect with other guests, and soak in the moment while we get ready for the reception!
Reception
4:45 pm - 9:45 pm
114 N Lewis St, Monroe, WA 98272
We invite you to join us for a celebratory reception. The evening will begin with a buffet-style dinner, offering a variety of dishes. We’ll continue the festivities with music and dancing. Throughout the night, there will be entertainment and activities to keep the celebration lively. We look forward to sharing this special occasion with you.
Couple Send Off
9:30 pm
114 N Lewis St, Monroe, WA 98272
After our final dance of the night, join us for a lively send-off! Light-up wands will be provided for everyone to wave as we make our exit. Let’s end the celebration on a high note together!
Wedding Dress Code
For Ladies
Shades of Gold
For Example: Bronze Gold Burnished Gold Champagne Gold Deep Gold Harvest Gold Light Gold Muted Gold Rich Gold Satin Gold Soft Gold
For Men
Shades of Brown
For Example: Bronze Brown Caramel Brown Chesnut Brown Chocolate Brown Dark Brown Espresso Brown Golden Brown Light Brown Milk Chocolate brown Mocha Brown
Keep in Mind
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There is only one dress code for the whole event. The classic formal attire with your assigned color applies to the ceremony and reception. For men: Any shade of brown is acceptable, including light, medium, and dark tones. For women: Any shade of gold is acceptable, whether soft, bright, or metallic. You are free to choose any shade within your assigned color palette and style it however you like. You do not have to wear gold or brown from head to toe. As long as the shade you pick is the dominant and visible color in your outfit, you are perfectly within the dress code.
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FAQs
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What happens if I can’t attend?
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We will miss you dearly! Please let us know as soon as possible if you are unable to attend, so we can plan accordingly.
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When should I RSVP by?
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Please RSVP by February 10, 2025. Your timely response will help us finalize all the details to make the day perfect for everyone. We truly appreciate it!
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Can bring a plus one?
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If your invitation includes a plus-one, we would love for you to bring them. If not, we kindly ask you to attend solo to help us keep the guest list manageable.
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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?
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Please plan to arrive at least 20 minutes before the ceremony begins. This will give you time to find your seat and participate in the social media moment before the ceremony starts.
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What is an unplugged ceremony?
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An unplugged ceremony is a special request for all guests to fully focus on the moment by putting away their phones, cameras, and other devices during the ceremony. This allows everyone to be present and share in the joy of the event without distractions. Our professional photography and videography team will capture every beautiful moment so you can sit back and enjoy the experience. We’ll also have a social media moment before the ceremony starts, where you’re welcome to take pictures and videos to your heart’s content. After that, we kindly ask that all devices be silenced and tucked away until the ceremony ends.
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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?
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Yes, there is ample street parking available near the venue.
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Will the ceremony and reception be indoors?
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Yes, both the ceremony and the reception will be held indoors to ensure everyone is comfortable during the winter season.
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What shades of brown and gold are acceptable?
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For men: Any shade of brown is acceptable, including light, medium, and dark tones. For women: Any shade of gold is acceptable, whether soft, bright, or metallic.
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Do I have to wear brown or gold from head to toe?
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No, you do not have to dress entirely in brown or gold. As long as your outfit clearly highlights shades of brown (for men) or gold (for women), you are welcome to style it as you like. You are also welcome to mix and match different shades of your assigned color.
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Will there be alcohol served?
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No, this will be a dry wedding. There will be plenty of delicious beverages to enjoy, but no alcohol will be served. We kindly ask that no alcohol be brought to the event.
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Are kids welcome?
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As much as we adore your little ones, this will be an adults-only celebration. We hope this will give you a chance to enjoy a relaxing evening out with us.
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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?
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Please let us know of any dietary restrictions when you RSVP, and we’ll do our best to accommodate your needs.