Leif Durley
Vanessa Lopes
Leif Durley
Vanessa Lopes
September 5, 2025
How We Met
The universe, or perhaps just a clever algorithm, brought us together through the magic of online dating! Our very first date was wonderfully spontaneous – a bit of a shock, really, for Vanessa, who usually prefers things meticulously planned. It happened during a scorching heat wave (at least by SF standards, where AC is a rare luxury), making indoor apartments utterly unbearable. Leif was already enjoying some beers with his good friend Campbell at their favorite local haunt, Woods. Vanessa, meanwhile, was just wrapping up a work happy hour. They'd been chatting on the app for a day or two, and with the sun still shining and both already out and about, they thought, "Why not meet tonight?" Maybe, just maybe, love was already in the air! Leif, ever the pragmatist, made a quick dash home to swap out his shorts (a truly rare occurrence, as anyone who knows him can attest – he lives in shorts, rain or shine!). Vanessa, embracing the adventure, hopped on the 45 bus to navigate her way over the hill. They finally met at Union Larder, a cozy wine bar. Leif scored early points by ordering a wine that, impressively, shared Vanessa's surname. And, staying perfectly on brand, Vanessa opted for a crisp still rosé. Conversation flowed effortlessly, touching on everything from shared interests and life in the city to their families and friends. Naturally, tennis came up (thanks, Leif!), which somehow led to Vanessa playfully mentioning her desire to try pickleball... True to his word, Leif followed up the very next day with a list of pickleball options, clearly determined to ignite Vanessa's passion for racquet sports from the get-go. While Vanessa's love for racquet sports might still be a work in progress, they're both absolutely thrilled to have the rest of their lives together to figure it out!
Schedule
Thursday, September 4, 2025
Welcome Event
7:00 pm - 9:00 pm
1875 Union St, San Francisco, CA 94123
Casual Attire: Anything goes, from sundresses and sandals to jeans and tees.
Before our drinks-forward fiesta, we encourage guests to explore the numerous dinner options along Union street.
Friday, September 5, 2025
Wedding Ceremony & Reception
4:30 pm - 10:00 pm
1299 Storey Ave, San Francisco, CA 94129
Semi-Formal: Tuxes and gowns are welcome, and so are suits and cocktail dresses.
Travel
Registry
Things To Do
Haight Street
Vibe: Birthplace of the 1960s counterculture, still retains a bohemian spirit. Expect colorful Victorian houses, vintage shops, and a sense of history. • A walk down Haight Street is a must. It's a great place for unique finds and soaking up the city's past. • Eat & Drink: o Zam Zam: A classic, old-school bar with a strong personality. o Cha Cha Cha: Lively Caribbean food and atmosphere. o The Alembic: Well-regarded for its craft cocktails.
North Beach
Vibe: San Francisco's "Little Italy," with a rich history and a vibrant atmosphere. Expect Italian restaurants, cafes, and a lively nightlife. • City Lights Bookstore is a landmark for literature lovers. Explore the Italian bakeries and cafes. • Eat & Drink: o Tony's Pizza Napoletana: Consistently rated among the best pizza in the world. o Caffe Trieste: A historic cafe with a strong literary connection. o The Saloon: A historic bar with live music.
Marina District
Marina District: [Vanessa’s favorite] • Vibe: Offers stunning views of the Golden Gate Bridge and the bay. It's a trendy, upscale area with a focus on outdoor activities. • The Palace of Fine Arts is a must-see for its architecture and photo opportunities. Crissy Field is great for walking or biking with bridge views. • Eat & Drink: o Balboa Café: Classic old school restaurant known for their Martinis (try a dirty or espresso tini here!). o Tacko: While the best authentic Mexican is in the Mission district- this always hits the spot. o Delarosa: Happy Hour Deals cannot be beat. Good food & drink on popular Chestnut street.
[out of the city] Sonoma
We are members at Pangloss a winery in Sonoma Square. Though you can't go wrong with any of the wineries in this area. Get ready for the best Pinot Noir and Chardonnay's (yes you will like this chard) of your life.
[out of the city] Santa Cruz
We have spent many weekends in Santa Cruz (Leif's parents have a beach home on the Westside). It is such a lovely get away from the city. Expect a lot of funk, gorgeous views and wineries/breweries galore.
FAQs
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When and where is the wedding?
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Our wedding ceremony and reception will take place on Friday, September 5th, 2025, at the Log Cabin at the Presidio (1299 Storey Ave, San Francisco, CA 94129).
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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?
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Please plan to arrive no later than 4:15 as the ceremony will start promptly at 4:30.
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What will the weather be like in San Francisco in September?
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San Francisco weather in September can be quite unpredictable! While days can be sunny, evenings often bring fog and cooler temperatures. For our ceremony and reception (4:30 pm - 10:00 pm), you can generally expect temperatures to range from the low 60s to high 50s and it can feel quite breezy. We highly recommend dressing in layers so you can be comfortable throughout the day and evening.
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What is the dress code?
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Semi-Formal: Tuxes and gowns are welcome, and so are suits and cocktail dresses. We recommend a shawl or jacket for the ladies as it can be quite chilly in the Presidio.
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Will there be a welcome reception or other events?
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Yes! Please join us for a Welcome Event on Thursday, September 4th, 2025, from 7:00 pm - 9:00 pm at Sacred Taco (1875 Union St, San Francisco, CA 94123). The dress code is Casual Attire: Anything goes, from sundresses and sandals to jeans and tees. Before our drinks-forward fiesta, we encourage guests to explore the numerous dinner options along Union Street.
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How should I get around San Francisco?
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We strongly recommend downloading popular rideshare apps like Uber and Lyft before your arrival. Taxis are also readily available. Public transportation (Muni buses, streetcars, BART) is an option for getting around the city, but rideshares are often the most convenient for visitors.
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Where should I stay?
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We have secured hotel blocks at the following hotels in the Fisherman's Wharf area, providing easy access to city attractions. See travel section for full details. We recommend using the booking links sent via email to reserve rooms (vs. calling). · Marriott Courtyard Fisherman's Wharf · Holiday Inn Express Fisherman's Wharf · Hotel Caza
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Is parking available at the venue?
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Limited parking is available at the Log Cabin at the Presidio (there will be a guard on site). We recommend utilizing rideshare services or carpooling if possible.
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Can I bring children?
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Our wedding is an adult-only event, and we kindly ask that only those specifically named on the invitation attend.
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Is there a wedding registry?
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We'll post our registry here when we're finished building it. Thank you in advance!
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I have dietary restrictions. Who should I tell?
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Please let us (Leif or Vanessa) know about any dietary restrictions or allergies by August 4th.
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Are there any areas in San Francisco that visitors should be particularly cautious of?
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Like many major cities, San Francisco has areas to avoid. While generally safe, it's advisable to be aware of your surroundings, especially in parts of the Tenderloin and around some downtown streets, particularly after dark. Stick to well-lit, populated areas (see our suggested neighborhoods!) and exercise general caution as you would in any urban environment.
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What are the best options for getting around San Francisco, especially from Fisherman's Wharf, besides public transport?
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Q1: What are the best options for getting around San Francisco, especially from Fisherman's Wharf, besides public transport? For convenient transportation beyond public transit, rideshare services like Uber and Lyft are widely available throughout San Francisco, including Fisherman's Wharf. You can easily request a ride via their apps.
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