Kasturi Shanker
Bryan Cisneros
Kasturi Shanker
Bryan Cisneros
October 12, 2025
Our Meet Cute
The fall of 2011 was when our paths crossed in the most unexpected way. We were both at Rutgers University, navigating different phases of our college lives—one of us a sophomore just arriving from Malaysia as a transfer student, the other a senior with one foot already out the door toward the next chapter. It was on DateMySchool.com that we first connected, a platform neither of us had particularly high expectations for. Little did we know it would change everything. From the moment we started talking, something just clicked. The messages turned into long conversations, and before we knew it, we had set a date to meet in person. That first date on a rainy evening will always stay with us—a movie and dinner at a dine-in theater. We laughed, we talked, and we shared a meal while watching The Twilight Saga: Breaking Dawn Part 1. By the end of the night, we knew this is more than just a fleeting connection. By spring of 2012, it was official—we were a couple. Our connection only grew stronger as we shared more of our lives with each other. One of the most memorable moments came years later when we traveled to Forks, Washington, the location where the first Twilight movie was filmed. Standing in the very places that had once lit up the screen, we couldn’t help but reflect on how far we’d come since that first movie date. Our story began with a chance online encounter, but it’s been built on years of shared laughter, adventures, and a love that continues to deepen. Together, we’ve created something even more magical than any movie could capture.
Schedule
Sunday, October 12, 2025
Ceremony & Reception
5:00 pm - 10:00 pm
1368 Prizer Rd, Pottstown, PA 19465
Formal Attire: Suits with dress shoes are recommended for men, and floor-length gowns or ankle-length dresses for women.
As we celebrate love under the golden hues of fall, please dress in formal attire suited for an outdoor setting—think layers for warmth, comfortable yet elegant shoes for grassy paths, and perhaps a stylish coat or shawl to stay cozy!
Travel
Flight
Philadelphia International Airport
For guests flying in, we recommend using Philadelphia International Airport (PHL). It’s the most convenient option for the wedding location.
Hotel
Hilton Garden Inn Exton/West Chester
We have reserved a block of rooms at this hotel. To make your reservation, call the hotel at (610) 458-8822 and mention the Shanker/Cisneros Wedding. Please book your stay early to guarantee a room in our block.
Hotel
Comfort Inn & Suites
Alternative accommodation within a 15-minute drive from the wedding venue.
Q&A
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When should I RSVP by?
Answer
Please RSVP by August 31, 2025.
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What's the wedding itinerary?
Answer
Our wedding will take place at Welkinweir Estate on October 12, 2025. The ceremony is set to commence at 5:00 PM sharp, followed by a cocktail hour and reception, which is anticipated to conclude around 10:00 PM.
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Will your wedding be indoors or outdoors?
Answer
Our wedding ceremony and reception will take place entirely outdoors, so we kindly advise against wearing stilettos or thin heels as they may be challenging on natural terrain.
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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?
Answer
We recommend arriving at the venue at least 30 minutes ahead of the ceremony start time to ensure you have enough time to take a shuttle to the ceremony space and find a seat.
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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?
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Yes, parking will be available at Welkinweir Estate, and a shuttle service will be provided to transport guests from the parking lot to the ceremony and reception venue.
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Am I allowed to bring a plus-one?
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We truly value celebrating our special day with our closest loved ones. As such, we kindly ask that only the guests listed on your invitation attend, as we are unable to accommodate additional plus-ones.
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Are kids welcome?
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Our wedding is an intimate gathering; if children are specifically mentioned on your invite, they are welcome!
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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?
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We want all our guests to feel comfortable and enjoy their meals. For this reason, none of the dishes served will contain nuts. Additionally, one of the entrée options will be vegetarian. During the cocktail hour, appetizers will also be clearly labeled, with multiple options available. If you have specific dietary needs beyond what we've outlined here, please let us know in the designated section of your digital RSVP. We're happy to ensure your experience is enjoyable!
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What type of food will be served at your wedding?
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Hors d'oeuvres will be served during cocktail hour, followed by a sit-down dinner with a selection of entrées: chicken, fish, or a vegetarian option. Kindly indicate your preferred entrée when you RSVP.
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Will there be an open bar?
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Yes, there will be an open bar for guests to enjoy throughout cocktail hour and the reception.
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Can guests take photos during your big day?
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We respectfully request that our ceremony remain "unplugged." Please refrain from taking photos or videos during this part of the day. We hope you can be fully present and share in the special moments with us. Feel free to capture memories during the reception!
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What is the weather and climate like in the area?
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October in Pottstown, PA, offers charming fall weather, with daytime highs around 63°F (17°C) and cooler evenings dropping to approximately 47°F (8°C). As our wedding will be outdoors, we kindly ask guests to dress in formal attire. We recommend layering your outfit and bringing a sophisticated coat or shawl to stay warm when the temperature dips. In the event of rain, we’ll move the celebration indoors, so no need to worry about the weather interrupting the festivities.
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Where should we bring or send our wedding gift?
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We are truly grateful for your presence at our wedding—it means the world to us! Should you wish to bless us with a gift, you are welcome to send it to our home. For your convenience, there will also be a card box available at the reception.
RSVP
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