Please RSVP by August 15th! --- For additional information check our FAQ section
Kindly respond by August 15th so we can make the appropriate arrangements. We truly appreciate your prompt reply.
We kindly ask that guests arrive 15–30 minutes before the ceremony start time to allow for parking, seating, and settling in. The ceremony will begin promptly at 4:30 pm, and out of respect for the moment and our photographer, late arrivals will be asked to wait until after the ceremony to enter. Thank you for understanding!
Yes, complimentary parking is available at the Arvest Bank parking lot, located directly across the street from the venue at 100 SE Frank Phillips Blvd, Bartlesville, OK 74003. Please plan to arrive early to allow ample time for parking and seating.
Yes — we kindly request cocktail attire. Think suits, dress pants with blazers, cocktail dresses, or dressy jumpsuits. For a better idea of the overall vibe, feel free to check out our Pinterest board for outfit inspiration. We want everyone to feel great and celebrate in style! https://pin.it/3gsHi5dhH
Due to limited space, we’re only able to accommodate guests who are named on the invitation. If you’ve been given a plus one, you’ll see that option when you RSVP. We appreciate your understanding!
While we love your little ones, our wedding will be an adults-only celebration. We hope you enjoy a night off to relax, have fun, and celebrate with us!
Your presence is the greatest gift! But if you’d like to contribute to our next chapter, we’re registered on Honeyfund. You can find the link under the Registry section on our website.
We’ll be offering an open bar for your enjoyment, and hor d'oeuvres will be served throughout the evening. There will be plenty to enjoy, so come ready to sip, snack, and celebrate!
Matron of Honor
I’m incredibly lucky to have my amazing big sister by my side. From helping me with the little things, like brushing my hair, to guiding me through life’s bigger moments, she’s always been there for me. I’ve leaned on her through so much, and I can’t imagine having anyone else standing next to me on this special day. Thank you, Dessie, for everything.
Best Man
Eli is more than just a friend — he’s family. He’s been one of my closest friends for years. From working together at multiple jobs to countless game nights (no one wants your sheep), he’s always been someone I can count on. I’m truly honored to have him standing by my side as my best man on this special day.
Mother of the Bride
My mom has always been one of my biggest supporters. She’s been there for me through every high and low, offering love, wisdom, and unwavering encouragement. Her strength, kindness, and dedication have shaped who I am, and I’m incredibly grateful to have her by my side.
Father of the Bride
My dad is a huge part of who I am today. His wisdom, guidance, and steady support have shaped my character and helped me grow into the person I am. He’s taught me the value of hard work, integrity, and always giving my best. I’m incredibly grateful for the example he’s set and the love he’s shown me throughout my life.
Father of the Groom
My dad and I have shared countless hours talking and watching sports together over the years. Whether it’s a meaningful conversation or a bit of friendly competition, he always knows how to keep things light and fun. I’m incredibly grateful for his steady presence in my life and all the laughs we’ve shared along the way.
Stepmother of the Bride
My stepmom has been a wonderful addition to my life. From the very beginning, she’s shown me nothing but kindness and love. She brings a unique energy to our family, and I’m so grateful for the bond we’ve built over the years. Her support, warmth, and sense of humor mean the world to me.
Stepfather of the Bride
Matt has been a steady and supportive presence in my life. He’s offered guidance and perspective when I’ve needed it, and I’ve learned a lot from his practical approach to life. I’m grateful for the impact he’s had and the role he’s played along the way.
Stepfather of the Groom
Dave has been there for me through thick and thin — even when he didn’t have to be. He’s always ready with an inappropriate joke and a bit of unexpected wisdom. His support and sense of humor have made a big impact on my life, and I’m lucky to have him in it.
In Loving Memory
Abby will forever hold a special place in our hearts. Her joy, laughter, and love continue to inspire us every day. As we celebrate this day, we remember her spirit, and we honor her presence in our lives, knowing she is with us in spirit.
Hotel
This hotel is across the street from the venue, we have blocked a limited number of rooms for our guests. Please follow the link to the room block!
Hotel
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