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We're Getting Married
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Joseph Lizandro

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Shenelle Whyte

Joseph Lizandro

and

Shenelle Whyte

#JOANDELLEE

August 30, 2024

White Plains, NY

How We Met

11/15/2019

We met the modern "good new fashion way" online lol on a dating website. We chatted online for a while then exchanged numbers. We spent hours on the phone and facetime, Then we finally met up in person and went on our first date. It was a Thai restaurant called spice near union square in the city (Manhattan). Our dinner date went well so we caught a movie after and we just clicked. The rest was history.

The Proposal

08/13/23

On August 13, 2023 we where spending time together I slept in late since we both where off work that day and Jo was making breakfast for us. I woke up and was walking to the bathroom to wash my face and brushed my teeth as usual, but notice a ring on my finger. This was not unusual since I am a girl that wears a lot of rings, but I take all my rings off every night before bed and I did not recognize this ring and it was on my left ring finger omg. I called out to Jo and started walking towards the kitchen and there he was on one knee with candles, red rose petals, and words that spelled out " Marry me?" behind him. I was nervous and excited and said yes instantly and then I said I need to go brush my teeth I got morning breath he said he didn't care and we both laughed lol. Then I Remember telling him years ago that I wanted a proposal like this because we saw it in a Tyler Perry movie "Diary of a Mad Black Women." I though it was so romantic and private just like how I always wanted it to be. I was so happy he remembered what I said about that proposal all those years ago. We are so excited to celebrate this next chapter in our lives with you. See you guys this summer in Whiteplains, NY

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FAQs

Question

What is the dress code?

Answer

We would like Formal, semi formal, or cocktail. Our ceremony will be outdoors and reception in doors. It's a garden ceremony so there will be grass, so I would rethink stiletto heels. I would opt for a wider heel. Heel Protectors will be provided if needed.

Question

Can I bring a guest (plus one)?

Answer

given our planned resources, we have decided to limit the number of guests. Our goal is to keep our very special day as intimate as possible, we are choosing to celebrate with only our closest family and friends. therefore we cannot accommodate any plus ones.Thank you in advance for respecting our wishes.

Question

Are kids invited?

Answer

We love your little ones—we really do, however this is an adults only affair. We want our wedding to be your night off! We respectfully request no children under 18 at our wedding celebration. We hope you understand and can still join us on our special day.

Question

Where should I Park?

Answer

There is a designated parking lot for our venue that will be available for our guest to use free of charge.

Question

Do you have a wedding registry?

Answer

Your presence at our wedding is enough of a gift, but should you wish to gift us something, we'd greatly appreciate a contribution in monetary gifts to go towards things like our dream honeymoon/house deposit/renovations. We will leave a link for this if you would like to contribute online. it will be under registry tab.

Wedding Party

Meet our family and friends who are walking down the aisle with us.

Ebony Collins

Maid of Honor

Ebony is Ellee's childhood best friend who she considers a sister. growing up they would play together. One memory is when they use to pretend to be members of the singing group 3LW and use to perform to a crowd full of nothing but walls in the hallway/living room of the house or for their younger siblings lol. no matter how far apart the move from each other they always keep in touch. sisters for life.

Johnny Campagna

Best Man

Jo's best friends of 12 years. always a good time when them two are together. He is the most Charismatic person Jo has known. He is Like a brother from another mother. He is always been there for Jo through ups and down especially when Jo's father passed away. They always keep in touch no matter how far apart they move from each other. It just makes sense for Johnny to be his best Man on his big day and of course we want him by Jo's side on our wedding day.

Gabrielle Wallace

Bridesmaid

Shenelle's younger sister. they use to argue and fight growing up, but as they got older grew closer together. Shenelle loves and adores her sister of course she is in the wedding party.

Carlos Rodriguez

Groomsman

Carlos is also a long time close friend of jo's. He is great gym partner for Jo as well.

Brianna Rose

Bridesmaid

Shenelle's not so little niece whom she loves and adore. Ellee always though Bri would be her flower girl in her wedding someday, but time fly's and now she is taller then us all lol so bridesmaid fits her better :)

Nelson Mateo

Groomsman

Jo's long time friends since high school. Nelson is a friend that keeps it real, always a good vibe, and loves animals just like Jo.

Jodi Ann Morris

Bridesmaid

Shenelle's long time friend and family she grew up with, when Jodi would visit every other summer. Jodi is like another sister to Shenelle. They use to be twinning when they where younger. Chubby little pretend twins lol.

Alain Medina

Groomsman

Jo's cousin who has always been there for Jo especially through his toughest times. Alain has been like a mentor for Jo. Of course We love having him in the wedding

Josephine Mccord

Bridesmaid

Jo's younger sister and his only sibling. She is also his best friend of course she is in the wedding.

Arkquan Mccord

Groomsman

Jo's brother in law and Friend. He is like Jo's younger big brother (lol) Jo has never had, always the life the party, and always fun to be around.

Fanny Martinez

Bridesmaid

Shenelle's long time Close friend and travel buddy when she is not traveling with Jo lol

Christopher Tejeda

Groomsman

Jo's long time friend from the neighborhood he grew up in. He is Jo's good friend that's always reliable. He is like family to Jo.

Schedule

Here's what to expect during our wedding day

Friday, August 30, 2024

Ceremony

5:30 pm - 6:00 pm

CV Rich Mansion
305 ridgeway, White Plains, NY 10605

This event is formal. The grass can be soft, so maybe rethink stilettos and opt for a wider heel (heel covers will be provided)

The ceremony is a Garden ceremony out doors, on grass.

cocktail hour

6:00 pm - 7:00 pm

This event is formal.

Cocktail hour will be in doors at the same location. cocktail hour will be with Passed Hors d'Oeuvres

Reception

7:00 pm - 10:30 pm

This event is formal.

Order of events for our reception is coming soon but the reception dinner is buffet style so bring your taste buds.

Travel

Hotel

Sonesta White Plains Downtown

66 Hale Avenue, White Plains, NY 10601
 

If you are flying in from out of town, here is a hotel in the area.

in mexico visiting another 7 wonder of the world  (chichen Itza)
Snorkeling in mexico
Us in mexico at a private cenote 2022
one of our first pics together at the  museum
In Rome Italy visiting our first 7 wonders of the world (Colosseum)
At Ellee's fav museum. The MET
Heading up to climb in the pyramids of Giza
one of our fav activities we did in Egypt ATV around the pyramids of Giza

Registry

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