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What is the dress code?

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We do have a dress code! We kindly request our guests to dress in semi-formal attire. While we want you to feel comfortable, we ask that you refrain wearing white, ivory, champagne/gold, navy blue, and burgundy colors. Our lovely couple will be donning that color, and we want them to stand out on their big day.

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What time should I arrive?

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To ensure everyone has ample time to be seated and settled, we kindly suggest arriving by 5:30pm. The ceremony is set to begin at 6:00pm, and we want to make sure everyone is ready to share in the joyous moments as the doors will be closed at 6:00pm.

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Will the ceremony & reception be held outdoors or indoors?

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While we're crossing our fingers for beautiful weather, we understand that the weather in Oklahoma can be unpredictable. In case Mother Nature has other plans, rest assured, we've got it covered! If the weather isn't ideal, we'll seamlessly transition to an indoor ceremony and reception to ensure the celebration continues in comfort and style. Our priority is to create a wonderful experience for everyone, rain or shine. We appreciate your flexibility and can't wait to celebrate with you, come what may!

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Are kids allowed?

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While we adore your children, our families with infants and young toddlers will have reserved seating in the back rows in case you need a quick exit during the ceremony.

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Do we get a plus one?

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In planning our wedding, we have made the decision to keep the guest list limited to those specifically named on the invitation or RSVP. While we would love to accommodate everyone's preferences, we hope you understand our desire to keep the celebration intimate and focused on our close friends and family. When you RSVP, your whole party will be listed.

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We are traveling! Where do we stay?

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Luckily, we have a couple of hotels near our venue! Our first one we recommend is Comfort Inn & Suites Harrah which is located at 297 S Harrah Rd, Harrah, OK 73045. Our second hotel we recommend is Best Western Plus Choctaw Inn & Suites which is located at 2651 Market Blvd, Choctaw, OK 73020. If you want to party the whole weekend and not just Saturday, I would recommend Grand Casino Hotel & Resort which is located at 777 Grand Casino Blvd, Shawnee, OK 74804!

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Open bar?

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The bride and groom will be having a dry wedding. Due to venue restrictions, alcohol is not permitted on the property. We ask our guests to please respect this rule. Please note that if a guest is found to violate the venue policies, they will unfortunately be responsible for any resulting fines or legal action. We apologize for the inconvenience.

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Can I post wedding photos on social media?

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We kindly ask that you refrain from posting pictures of the bride and groom until we've had the chance to make our own posts. We want to savor and share these moments in our own way first. If you take your own personal photos with your party, please use our personal hashtag #AlyssasCupOfJoe so we can keep a collection of photos under that hashtag to look back on forever!

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Will there be an opportunity to take photos during the ceremony?

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We're excited to have a professional photographer capture all the special moments during our ceremony. To ensure an intimate and distraction-free atmosphere, we kindly ask that you put away your phones and cameras during the ceremony. Your presence means the world to us, and we want everyone to fully enjoy and be present in the moment. Don't worry, there will be plenty of opportunities to capture memories during the reception! Feel free to snap away and share the joy with us.

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Where can I find a gift registry?

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As we embark on this new chapter of our lives together, we've decided to prioritize experiences over material possessions. If you were considering a gift, your contribution to our honeymoon fund would mean the world to us. We've set up a cash fund to help make our dream honeymoon a reality. Your love and support are the greatest gifts we could ever ask for, and there is absolutely no obligation to give a gift. You can find the registry under the "Registry" tab. We appreciate your understanding and can't wait to celebrate with you!

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Where should we bring/send our wedding gift?

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For those who choose to bring a gift, we'll have a designated placement for them at the venue. Feel free to bring your well wishes and gifts with you to the celebration. If you prefer to send a gift beforehand, you can use our Zola honeymoon fund on this website. Your presence is the greatest gift, and we're truly grateful to have you share in our special day

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What should I do if I can’t make it?

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You will be missed. As we prepare for the wedding, we kindly request that you let us know as soon as possible if you are unable to attend by using the RSVP section and responding that you cannot attend. We understand that unexpected events can happen, but by letting us know in advance, we can make necessary adjustments to our plans. On the other hand, if you are able to attend, please RSVP by 08/11/2024 so that we can provide our vendors with an accurate headcount.

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Is there parking available at the wedding venue?

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Yes, there is absolutely parking available at the venue!

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Answers to Save The Date Trivia

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1. True. April 15th, 2015. 2. True. Their first cruise was in 2016 for Joe’s senior trip. 3. False. Alyssa said “I love you” first. 4. True. Their first vacation was to Cozumel. 5. False. They have only been to five Thunder games. 6. True. For them being scared of heights, this was an ironic location. 7. True. Joe and Alyssa’s mom share the same middle name, just different spelling. 8. TRUE!

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I still have questions! What is the best way to contact you?

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Please feel free to contact Alyssa with any questions up until the week before the wedding. Joe should only be contacted as an absolute last resort (just kidding, but he’ll probably need to ask Alyssa for the answer anyway.) But before that, please double check the wedding website for FAQ’s.