John Boelter
Jackie Barefoot
John Boelter
Jackie Barefoot
October 18, 2025
How We Met
We met while working at Harris Teeter—both of us in training to become managers in different departments. Our first conversation was in the break room (though one of us doesn’t remember it—guess who!). After training, we were both placed at the same store and immediately reconnected since we already knew each other. John asked me out a few times, but I wasn’t looking for a relationship at the time, so I politely turned him down. Thankfully, he didn’t give up easily. Eventually, I agreed to grab a beer “just as friends.” But by the end of that first hangout, it was pretty clear—we were never going to be just friends.
The Proposal
After seven years together (yes, seven!), John finally worked up the nerve to propose. There were a few failed attempts along the way, but he pulled it off in the most unexpected place: the airport. I had just landed after a girls’ trip, and there he was—waiting with flowers, a ring, and a sign that read Mrs. Boelter? Of course, I said yes.
Schedule
Saturday, November 8, 2025
Post Elopement Celebration
3:00 pm - 7:00 pm
622 Maywood Ave, Raleigh, NC 27603
Dressy Casual
Registry
Gallery
Things To Do
State Farmers Market
North Carolina Museum of Art
William B. Umstead State Park
FAQs
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Are kids welcome?
Answer
We love your little ones — but this will be an adults-only celebration. We hope you enjoy a night off to relax, celebrate, and have fun with us!
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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?
Answer
Yes! There will be parking available on-site.
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Is there a dress code?
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Dressy casual. The celebration will be both indoors and outdoors, so we recommend dressing in layers and bringing a jacket in case it gets chilly. Collared shirts, sweaters, dress pants, midi dresses, or jumpsuits are all great options. Dressy boots are welcome! We kindly ask guests to avoid jeans, tank tops, or anything overly casual. If you’d wear it to a nice dinner or a semi-dressy event, you’re good to go.
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Can I bring a date?
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We’re so excited to celebrate with our closest friends and family! If your invitation includes a guest, their name (or “+1”) will be listed on the envelope or in your RSVP details
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Are you registered? Where?
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Yes! You can find all of our registry details right here on our website — just head to the “Registry” tab in the menu.