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Xander Grohman

and

Jenna Debbink

Xander Grohman

and

Jenna Debbink

June 28, 2025

Oostburg, WI

Our Story

Jenna and Xander met on August 1, 2024 at a book study. Well, Xander wasn’t there for the book study. He stopped in to say goodbye to his nephews, Richy and Declan. In fact, he had no idea there was a book study going on. Much to his surprise when he opened the door, he was met with the eyes of 6 women, including Jenna’s. He said his hellos, then made a quick beeline upstairs to his nephews. After the book study concluded, Xander, noticing Richy made a mess, rounded the corner into the kitchen to grab a towel. Jenna, putting dishes away, found this as her opportunity to corner him. “Oh hi Xander!” Xander was taken aback. A woman! Talking to him! The next 5 minutes Xander and Jenna exchanged small talk about where they lived (North Dakota, Wisconsin) and what they did for work (flipping homes, photography) Jenna noticed his sparkling blue eyes, his genuine smile, and the way he nervously touched his elbow because a woman was talking to him. Xander didn’t notice much. He was too nervous. After Jenna and Xander parted ways, Jenna did a quick Facebook search and added him on FB. That’s all that Xander needed to start up a conversation; For the next month they texted each other constantly. On August 23rd, Xander drove the 8.5 hours to take Jenna out on their first date! They closed out the Chilis because the conversation kept flowing. From that point on Jenna and Xander’s relationship grew quickly as both visited each others families, watched Phillies baseball games together, and traveled frequently between North Dakota to Wisconsin. On December 17th, 2024 Xander drove the 8.5 hours to propose to Jenna in Wisconsin! She was so surprised! she thought she was showing up for a family photoshoot, and thought Xander was still in North Dakota. When Xander showed up instead of the “family” she was speechless. After a “yes of course I’ll marry you!”, they started wedding planning immediately. Xander and Jenna are so excited to celebrate with friends and family on June 28th, 2025

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Schedule

Here's what to expect during our wedding weekend! We cannot wait to celebrate with you!

Saturday, June 28, 2025

Ceremony

3:00 pm - 3:30 pm

Bethel Orthodox Presbyterian
609 Center Avenue, Oostburg, WI 53070

Reception

5:00 pm - 10:00 pm

Garden Party Attire: Sundresses, floral prints, suits in lighter hues!

Cocktail hour begins at 5:00 pm Dinner will be served at 6:15 pm

RSVP

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Travel

Hotel

Comfort Inn & Suites Sheboygan I-43

3912 Motel Road, Sheboygan, WI 53081
 (920) 694-0099

Hotel

Watershed Hotel

838 N 15th St, Sheboygan, WI 53081
 ​920-453-0000

Hotel

AmericInn by Wyndham Sheboygan

3664 South Taylor Drive, Sheboygan, WI 53081
 +1-920-208-8130

Registry

Amazon

Wedding Party

Meet our family and friends who will be walking us down the aisle!

Angela Froh

Matron of Honor

sister of the bride

Claire Debbink

Maid of Honor

sister of the bride

Amber Pierce

Bridesmaid

sister-in-law

Emerald Grohman

Bridesmaid

sister-in-law

Rilla Serven

Bridesmaid

friend of the bride

Anya Mentch

Bridesmaid

friend of the bride

Abby Smith

Bridesmaid

friend of the bride

Kylee Siers

Bridesmaid

college friend of the bride

Eden Spangler

Bridesmaid

college friend of the bride

Chloe Strudthoff

Bridesmaid

college friend of the bride

Richard Grohman

Best Man

brother of the groom

Avery Grohman

Groomsman

brother of the groom

Zach Grohman

Groomsman

brother of the groom

Robert Grohman

Groomsman

brother of the groom

Terrell Pierce

Groomsman

brother-in-law of the groom

Joshua Grohman

Groomsman

cousin of the groom

Jamie Grohman

Groomsman

cousin of the groom

Marshall Viland

Groomsman

friend of the groom

Mitch Ronan

Groomsman

friend of the groom

Noah Moberg

Groomsman

friend of the groom

Things To Do

Deland Park

Broughton Drive, Sheboygan, WI 53081

Blast Soft Serve

406 Pennsylvania Avenue, Sheboygan, WI 53081

Kohler-Andrae State Park

1020 Beach Park Lane, Sheboygan, WI 53081

eb flo coffeehouse

340 South Pier Drive, Sheboygan, WI 53081

The Spices Restaurant & Bar Downtown

1132 North 8th Street, Sheboygan, WI 53081

Harry’s Prohibition Bistro

668 South Pier Drive, Sheboygan, WI 53081

Harry's Diner

2504 Calumet Drive, Sheboygan, WI 53083
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