3:00 pm
Modest Formal Attire: Please ensure shoulders and chest are covered for the ceremony.
Please take a moment to check the FAQ for what to expect during the Catholic Mass of Holy Matrimony.
5:30 pm
Cocktail Attire: Wear cocktail dresses, LBDs, dressy jumpsuits, and dark jackets and slacks.
We'd prefer a mostly adult celebration, but exceptions can be made, particularly for families traveling from afar - please let us know in the RSVP note.
We kindly ask that you RSVP as soon as possible to help us finalize the details for our special day. The deadline for RSVPs is May 23, 2025 (6 weeks prior to the wedding). We appreciate your prompt response and can’t wait to celebrate with you!
Our ceremony will be a Catholic nuptial Mass, which includes scripture readings, prayers, the exchange of vows, a homily, and communion. If you're not Catholic, you're warmly invited to be present and reverent. When others stand, feel free to stand; when they kneel, you may remain seated. Call-and-response prayers can be found in the missals located in your pew, but participation is optional. For communion, only practicing Catholics should come forward—others may stay seated. Please observe sacred silence in the church and refrain from conversation until you’ve exited the space.
Please plan to arrive by 2:45 PM to give yourself time to park and find a seat. The Mass will begin promptly at 3:00 PM, and we kindly ask all guests to be seated before it starts.
Doors to the venue will open at 4:30 PM for early seating and mingling. Cocktail service and hors d’oeuvres will begin at 5:00 PM, so feel free to arrive anytime after 4:30 PM.
With a little over an hour to spare, you have a few options! Feel free to head home to freshen up, grab a drink at a nearby bar, or explore the area. If you’re looking for a convenient spot, McMenamins Ringlers Bar is directly below the reception venue.
Ceremony: The church has a small parking lot, and additional metered parking spots are available in the surrounding area. Reception: There are a limited number of metered parking spots around the area; however, we recommend using the covered parking garage at the Brewery Blocks for more availability. The garage has entrances on 12th Ave. and 13th Ave. (between NW Couch and Davis Sts.). Alternatively, there are two outdoor parking lots at SW 13th and Washington St. Recommended parking garage address: 122 NW 12th Ave, Portland, OR 97209
Here's a rough outline of the evening’s events (times are approximate and subject to change): 4:30 PM – Doors Open 5:00 PM – Cocktail Hour 6:00 PM – Receiving Line 7:00PM – Dinner and Toasts 8:00 PM – First Dances and Cake Cutting 8:30 PM – 10:30 PM – Dancing and Celebration
Hotel
Just a couple blocks from the Crystal Ballroom, where we're having our reception. Please use discount code STAR to get 15% off.
Discount Code - STAR
Hotel
Located just down the street from the reception. Note: Some rooms may not have private bathrooms, so please inquire if this is important to you. For a more upscale option, we recommend the Mark Spencer Hotel or one of the other nearby hotels. Block code (not a discount code): 2507WEDDIN_001
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