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Rayna McGinley

and

James Cockerham

Rayna McGinley

and

James Cockerham

November 2, 2024

Durham, NC

Schedule

Friday, November 1, 2024

Friends & Family Event

6:00 pm - 9:00 pm

Jaguar Bolera - Raleigh
2221 Iron Works Drive, Raleigh, NC 27604

Saturday, November 2, 2024

Ceremony

6:00 pm - 6:30 pm

Museum of Life and Science, Butterfly House
433 W Murray Ave, Durham, NC 27704

Reception

6:30 pm - 9:00 pm

Museum of Life and Science
433 W Murray Ave, Durham, NC 27704

Lodging

The Wedding Website of James Cockerham and Rayna McGinley
We will be staying at the Arrowhead Inn from 10/31-11/3 and would love for you to join us! The inn is very small so please visit their website to book the room of your choice as soon as you can!

House Or Rental

Arrowhead Inn Bed and Breakfast

106 Mason Road, Durham, NC 27712
 

Hotel

Aloft Durham Downtown

345 Blackwell Street, Durham, NC 27701
 

We don’t have a room block here but have heard great things!

FAQs

Question

Is there a dress code?

Answer

Dressy casual! Choose an outfit that falls in between formal and casual. Since it’s a fall, evening wedding, you’re encouraged to wear darker hues. Think lilac, plum, gold, maroon, forest green, navy or black.

Question

Are children allowed?

Answer

Although we love your little ones, this is an adult only affair!

Question

What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

Answer

Plan to be in your seat at least 15 minutes before the ceremony begins.

Question

Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

Answer

Yes! The museum has a large parking lot to accommodate everyone.

Question

Why didn’t I get a plus one?

Answer

The intimate space of our venue has a strict maximum capacity that we had to adhere to for our ceremony and reception. We hope you can still join us for our special day but understand if this changes things for you! Keep in mind that the event on Friday, 11/1, will include additional guests to celebrate with us!

Question

I’m not feeling well. Can I still attend?

Answer

Please stay home if you are feeling unwell! We will miss you but we’ll share lots of pictures :)

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