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Shawn Miller

and

Ivan Gilkes

Shawn Miller

and

Ivan Gilkes

March 28, 2026

New York, NY
261 days261 d16 hours16 h36 minutes36 min32 seconds32 s
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Schedule

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Saturday, March 28, 2026

Ceremony

4:30 pm

Georgia Room @ The Freehand Hotel
23 Lexington Ave., 2nd Floor, New York, NY 10001

Cocktail Attire Requested

Reception to follow.

September 2019: Our trip to San Francisco when we knew things were "real". Shawn was living in Phoenix, Ivan was living in New York, so time together was coveted.
September 2020: Shawn moved to New York earlier in March, but a certain pandemic upended things. Day trips around the city were our way of "traveling".
April 2021: Ivan is a sleepy guy on the train and it's cute.
June 2021: Celebrating pride with friends.
July 2022: apparently.
February 2023: Our peace signs go international on our first trip to Mexico together.
November 2024: Meeting Alexis Mateo. Tears may or may not have been shed. Ivan has gone blond, Shawn has grown a beard.
April 2025: Experiencing one of the 300+ sunny days in Arizona at Shawn's cousin's wedding, just happy to be alive from skydiving the day prior.

FAQs

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First Gay Wedding?

Answer

A quick guide on what to expect from a gay wedding, courtesy of Key and Peele: https://youtu.be/rtgY1q0J_TQ?si=Snqie9DqLoIsbB1U

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