Not every happy ever after starts with a carriage - sometimes, it’s a public bus. I was on my way home from school when we happened to get off at the same stop. He asked for my number, and I gave it, fully planning to ignore him later (oops). But a few chats turned into a first date… and, well, that bus stop turned out to be my stop to happily ever after.
I still remember that morning like it was yesterday. I had just left my sister’s house near the Island, heading back home, lost in thought about life, the kind of quiet reflection that only Lagos traffic allows. I boarded one of those worn-out buses, squeezed myself into the back seat, and drifted into my thoughts, imagining what the future might hold. Then she walked in. She wore a short pink dress and a face cap, simple yet effortlessly captivating. I noticed her the moment she stepped in, though I pretended not to. She took the seat beside me, and before I could even say a word, she reached out, grabbed the cash from my hand, and handed me my change, the unspoken Lagos commuter language for “Let’s avoid the conductor’s drama.” I smiled quietly. She didn’t know it then, but that small act would be the first spark of something extraordinary. Moments later, she leaned against the window and fell asleep - peacefully, beautifully, as if the chaos of Lagos didn’t exist. She slept through the traffic, the shouts, and the endless jolts of the road. And somehow, just a few minutes before her stop, she woke up - A skill you must harness and nurture if you commute in Lagos regularly. Fate, it seemed, had one more surprise waiting. We both got down at the same stop. For the first time, I got a proper look at her — her clear skin glowing under the morning sun, her long legs moving with a natural grace, and that calm confidence that made her stand out in the middle of the noisy street. Something inside me refused to let the moment pass. I walked up to her, gently tapped her shoulder, and when she turned around, she gave me the brightest, most unforgettable smile I had ever seen. We talked briefly, she spoke softly and warmly, and before she left, she shared her phone number. I watched her walk away, my heart racing. I didn’t know what the future held, but I knew one thing for certain — I struck gold. And today, every time I look at her, I still remember that pink dress, that sleepy smile, and that Lagos bus ride that started our forever.
8:00 am - 10:00 am
This event is colorful black tie. Think tuxedos, polished shoes, and classic sophistication. For the ladies, channel your inner goddess. Floral gowns, fascinator hats, or an elegant cocktail dress in soft fabrics that move like magic
12:00 pm - 2:00 pm
2:00 pm - 5:00 pm
5:00 pm - 8:30 pm
Bridesmaid
Starring my Oremi Shittu, my ever present and loyal girlie.
Wedding Planner
Starring my world's best planner & sister girl who's put together this awesome event. Ara Experience to the world!
Matron of Honor
My bestie of life and for life. Is over a decade's worth of friendship a joke to you?
Best Woman
My Emili Oni Kaba. My all time, anytime and all round fave.
Bridesmaid
My show stopper and big madam spender! If OLUWANISOLA enters you must know!
Bridesmaid
My Star girl for life. Celeb la wa o.
Asoebi Babe
My Madam Producer and go-getter. Let’s get this party littt!!!
Asoebi Babe
My Madamme Bond with the biggest heart, warmest smile and jolliest energy.
Bridesmaid
My Dee baby. Old friendships are like wine, we’ve only gotten richer and sweeter with time. Clock it!
Asoebi Babe
Show me your designer and I would tell you who you are. My Cuddi babyyyyy to the world! 😅
Save the date - the good union is happening on December 20th, 2025. Check the Schedule page for all the details on timing and locations
Step into the magic of the day in our traditional colours: Green, Burnt Orange, and Mustard Yellow. Let your outfit reflect the warmth, elegance, and joy of the celebration. If you’d love to be part of our Asoebi circle, reach out to us directly to secure yours.
Due to the intimate nature of our celebration, we kindly ask that only those extended an invite to attends. If you’re unsure, please reach out, we’re happy to clarify.
Yes, there’s ample parking space available at the location & other parking areas close to the event center.
Once you confirm your attendance with the bride or groom, you’ll be given an access card ahead of the wedding. Kindly note that the venue requires this card for entry, so please make sure to have it with you on the day
We adore your little ones, but this will be an adults-only celebration so everyone can let loose and fully enjoy the party.
Please confirm your attendance by November 30, 2025 so we can plan everything with you in mind.