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Adina Gordon

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Benjamin Sadler

Adina Gordon

and

Benjamin Sadler

May 9, 2026

West Coxsackie, NY

Our Story

As many millennial romances begin, it started with a simple "like" on Hinge. Adina was away in the Smokey Mountains with her family while Ben was home in Brooklyn. After a brief exchange of messages, we agreed to meet for drinks in the neighborhood. Once exchanging numbers and a kiss at the end of the date, we both knew this was something real and special. From there, our relationship flourished through adventures, deep conversations, and lots and lots of laughter. But who said "I love you" first? We both wanted to but were both too shy. We ended up saying it together on the count of three. It was then clear that we really were on the same page and were both excited to build a life together. For the past 3.5 years, we have grown together in so many different ways as we've navigated the joys and complexities of life. We've adventured through Florida, New Orleans, Portugal, Ireland, California, and beyond. We've experienced beautiful hikes and magical New York nights. But our favorite place is at home with each other and our silly orange fur ball, Chezzy. While there's a lot of uncertainty in the world around us, we're both certain in our love and the joy we bring each other. We're each other's buddy, best friend, and partner forever. We can't wait to continue to evolve together and be by each other's side through it all.

Schedule

Friday, May 8, 2026

Welcome Dinner

7:00 pm - 10:00 pm

Dress casually. We'll be outdoors with heat lamps, but perhaps bring a light jacket?

Not required. Come when/if you can!

Saturday, May 9, 2026

Our Wedding!

3:30 pm - 10:00 pm

Garden Party Chic! Come dressed to impress, but able to frolic.

Please arrive at 3:30pm! The ceremony will start promptly at 4:00pm, followed by cocktail hour, dinner and dancing until 10:00pm. On-site bonfire and afterparty to follow.

Sunday, May 10, 2026

Farewell Brunch

10:00 am - 12:00 pm

Patrick Henry's Waterfront Tavern
48 S River St, Coxsackie, NY 12051

Literally wear whatever you want ;)

Not required, as we understand some of you may have early flights. Feel free to pop in and say goodbye! The venue shares a parking lot with the James Newbury Hotel.

RSVP

Please RSVP by April 1st. We can't wait to celebrate with you!

Please enter the first and last name of one member of your party below.
If you're responding for you and a guest (or your family), you'll be able to RSVP for your entire group on the next page.

Ex. Sarah Fortune (not The Fortune Family or Dr. & Mr. Fortune)

Travel

We recommend booking as soon as possible, as it's wedding season! We have a block of rooms reserved at the James Newbury Hotel (see below for details). If you're interested in booking a room here, please contact Gay Gordon at gordon1325@gmail.com or 561-251-7305. See below for additional recommendations. If interested in the airbnbs (at the wedding site!), please let us know and we'll get you connected.

Hotel

voco James Newbury Hudson Valley by IHG

60 South River Street, Coxsackie, NY 12051
 

($455 per night, 8min drive to Venue) *We have rooms reserved. If you'd like to book, contact Gay Gordon at gordon1325@gmail.com or 561-901-8509.

Hotel

Airstream RV (at the barn!)

386 Bronck Mill Road, West Coxsackie, NY 12192
 

($500 for 2 nights) On site!

Hotel

Holiday Inn Express & Suites West Coxsackie by IHG

12740 U.S. 9W, West Coxsackie, NY 12192
 

($355 per night, 9min drive to Venue)

Hotel

Four Points by Sheraton Albany

3 Mount Hope Way, Albany, NY 12202
 

($149 per night, 23min drive to Venue)

Hotel

Stewart House Hotel & 1883 Tavern

2 North Water Street, Athens, NY 12015
 

($538 per night, 15min drive to Venue)

Hotel

Holiday Inn Express & Suites Saugerties - Hudson Valley by IHG

2777 New York 32, Saugerties, NY 12477
 

($225 per night, 27min drive to Venue)

Hotel

Rustic Glamping Cabin (at the barn!)

386 Bronck Mill Road, West Coxsackie, NY 12192
 

($400 for 2 nights) On site, think very rustic!

Cherry blossom season
Beach Buds
A rainy lady liberty
Our first photo after getting engaged
Taking in the Carmel Valley
New Orleans Garden District

Registry

Fun Fact!

Coxsackie is located on Mahican land, and translates to "Land of the Owl's Hoot"

FAQs

Question

Are children allowed?

Answer

We respectfully ask that you leave your little ones at home.

Question

What is the dress code?

Answer

Whimsical Garden Party, Forest Fairy Music Festival, Millennial Barn Wedding vibes

Question

How did you get to be so beautiful?

Answer

Haha come on now.