8:30 pm - 10:00 pm
Smart Casual
Join us after the rehearsal dinner so we can spend some time together before the craziness of the big day! Please note: Guests must purchase their own food and beverages
5:30 pm - 11:00 pm
Coastal Cocktail
Weather-permitting, the ceremony will take place on the 11 St. Beach outside of the Flanders Hotel. Cocktail hour, dinner, and dancing will follow on the 2nd floor of the Flanders.
10:00 am - 12:00 pm
The bride and groom will be recovering with breakfast at the hotel restaurant, Emily's, located on the first floor. Please stop by to say goodbye! Please not that while you are more than welcome to sit and dine at the restaurant, guests will be responsible for covering the cost of their own meal.
Hotel
When it comes to booking rooms for our wedding, guests must CALL the front desk in order to receive the room block discount. If you book a room online, you will not be able to receive a discount. The room block will be under "Wylie/Oertle Wedding."
Travel Note
If you do not wish to stay at the Flander's, there are plenty of rental options in the area that will likely be offered at discounted rates during the off-season. Please note that transportation will NOT be provided from these locations to and from the venue. https://www.vrbo.com https://www.airbnb.com
Maid of Honor
Bridesmaid
Bridesmaid
Best Man
Groomsman
Groomsman
Walk, run, or bike along the boardwalk or go for a brisk swim! Please note that there are no life guards on the beaches during the off season.
Visit local shops and restaurants in the downtown area located on Asbury Avenue between 6th Street and 14th Street, very close to the hotel! Boardwalk & Downtown Merchant “Discount Days” - October 4th-5th, 8:00 am - 5:00 pm
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Parking is included if you are staying at the Flanders Hotel. If you are not staying, parking in $10 at the hotel and street parking is also available close by.
The Dress Code is - Coastal Cocktail (ie. Something that can transition from beach to ballroom) If you're planning on wearing a shirt and pants, a jacket is required. Flipflops will be provided for the beach ceremony. Keep in mind that depending on the weather it may be chilly during the ceremony- please consider bringing a shawl, jacket, or sweater. Please no shorts or Hawaiian shirts.
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