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We're Getting Married!

Frances Jones

&

Tomas Frederiksen

Frances Jones

&

Tomas Frederiksen

May 24, 2025

Manchester, UK
8 days8 d8 seconds8 s
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Please RSVP in full by Friday 14th March 2025. Scroll down for more information about the wedding.

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Schedule

WEDDING DAY 12pm - Wedding Ceremony 2pm- Travel to Daisy Bank Manor 2.30pm - Reception at Daisy Bank Manor 4pm - Meal & Speeches 7.30pm - Cake Cutting and Dancing 8.30pmn - Evening Snacks 12 - Carriages!

Saturday, May 24, 2025

Wedding Ceremony

12:00 pm - 2:00 pm

Friends' Meeting House
6 Mount Street, England M2 5NS, United Kingdom

The wedding will be a Quaker ceremony. If this is your first Quaker wedding, buckle up. Quaker principles of equality, non-hierarchy and silence underpin the proceedings. The chairs are arranged in a circle. Please arrive in good time to settle before the ‘meeting’ (as Quakers term them) begins. First, there is 10 minutes of silence. Then, F&T will then stand up and exchange vows. After this, the floor will be open for all who wish to speak. If you feel moved to speak, stand up, try not to speak over anyone else and leave a little time between contributions for reflection. After about an hour of speaking and silence, the meeting will draw to a close with two of the Elders shaking hands, and then all those present shaking their neighbours' hands. Everyone will be invited to sign the marriage certificate as witnesses - a tradition stemming from when the Quakers were fighting for recognition. The venue may have other events happening and requests no confetti. More details below.

Wedding Reception

Sat, May 24, 2025, 2:30 pm - Sun, May 25, 2025, 12:00 am

Please make your own way to the Reception venue. Travel options are listed in the FAQs.

Sunday, May 25, 2025

Walk & Lunch

11:00 am - 2:00 pm

It seems silly not to hangout some more when so many lovely people are gathered in one place so, in true Jones tradition, we’ll gather for a bit of fresh air and food on Sunday. We have hired a lovely, quirky space tucked away in Platt Fields Park called Platt Fields Market Garden from 11am - 2pm. (https://www.wearemud.org/gardens/plattfieldsmarketgarden). There will be outside space and a semi-indoor marquee and we will lay on sandwiches and they do (very good!) tea and coffee, drinks and cakes. The Market Garden has mud kitchens and play space for kids as well as bountiful growing beds to make green fingered hearts sing. The wider park has well paved paths, a duck pond and playgrounds aimed at younger kids and plenty of space to run around. Disregard previous advice about walking shoes - we decided a low key local option might be better after a big day / night!

FAQs

Come back and look again. We’re likely to update this as we get closer to the date so do pop back and look at this page a few weeks before the wedding.
Question

Wedding Day Schedule

Answer

12pm - Wedding Ceremony 2pm - Relocate to Daisy Bank Manor 2.30pm - Drinks at Daisy Bank Manor 4pm - Food and speeches 7.30pm - Cake cutting and dancing 8.30pm - Evening snacks 12am - Carriages!

Question

Getting There

Answer

Ceremony The Friends’ Meeting House is 20 mins walk from Piccadilly train station, 10 mins walk from Oxford Road train station and 3 mins from St. Peters Square Metrolink station and near various bus routes. The nearest parking is Great Northern (4 mins walk, M3 4EE) and Manchester Central (3 mins walk, M2 3GX). You can find a map of the venue, its surroundings and the nearest car parks here: https://meetinghousemanchester.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/Map.pdf Reception You’ll need to make your own way to Daisy Bank Manor from the Friends’ Meeting House. It is 10 mins by taxi, 20 mins on the 50 bus route. There is plenty of on street parking near Daisy Bank Manor. Sunday Platt Fields is very easy to reach by any bus down Oxford Road. The Market Garden is at the southern end of the park near a car park which can be accessed down Mabfield Road. This may fill up in which case you can usually park on one of the nearby side streets like Grangethorpe Road or Langley Road.

Question

If you're bringing your Kids...

Answer

We want this wedding to be somewhere generations come together. If your children want to join us, we’d love that and have given thought to how to make the day welcoming and fun for them. There won’t be any dedicated childcare, but there will be a fun space for kids with toys, crafts and activities and we have chosen a reception venue with its own, secured grounds so its hard for kids to run off.

Question

What about kids during the ceremony?

Answer

If you’re bringing kids, an hour can be a long time for them to stay quiet, so you might want to make a plan. This can be a book/screen and headphones, but there will also be a room set up for kids just down the hall with books, craft, duplo etc. The silence is not a strict thing, and, after that first 10 minutes, children are welcome to leave and head for the kids room at any point. Quakers are a warm and welcoming lot - we want children to feel welcome, there won’t be stern glances at squeaks, whispers etc.

Question

What is the dress code?

Answer

Celebratory! Meaning: whatever you like. Esben is currently adamant he wants to dress as a tortoise.

Question

Can I make a speech?

Answer

Danish weddings traditionally enable all to speak who wish to. You are therefore welcome to speak/sing/dance at the reception - just let Chloe (wedding planner) at hello@freebirdweddings.com know before the day so she can draw up a running order.

Question

I still don’t get this whole Quaker thing?

Answer

Need more details? Here’s a leaflet from the Quakers on marriage ceremonies: https://www.quaker.org.uk/documents/quaker-wedding

Travel

The Reception venue is 10 minutes by taxi or bus ride from the city centre with many accommodation options, Airbnbs etc., and lots of amenities and attractions. Also nearby are a bunch of smaller hotels with middling online reviews.

Hotel

Holiday Inn Express Stockport, an IHG Hotel

11 Station Road, England SK3 9JD, United Kingdom
 

Fran would love you all to know that Stockport Holiday Inn Express, 11 Station Rd, Stockport, SK3 9JD is municipally owned (by her employer) and is 10 mins to Piccadilly train station.

Hotel

Luther King House

Brighton Grove, England M14 5JP, United Kingdom
 

Simple but nice and very close by to the Reception venue, Daisy Bank Manor.

Hotel

Travelodge Manchester Upper Brook Street

227 Upper Brook Street, England M13 0HB, United Kingdom
 

This is the nearest budget-friendly chain hotel. It’s about 10 minutes walk from the Reception venue.

Registry

We don’t need gifts. Honestly. We’re in our 40s with good stable jobs. What we really want is for you to come and we recognise for many of you travelling, this is not cheap. So the gift of your presence and warmth on the day really is enough. For many, this doesn’t quite cut it. So, we have a suggested gift. The thing we most want to do is make memories with our kids by taking them on a once in a lifetime holiday in Australia. Any contributions to this will be warmly welcomed - it’s roughly 70p a mile to fly to Melbourne. If you find giving money uncomfortable (you’re in good company as Fran finds asking for it near unbearable), but you really want to give us wedding gift, go for it. You do you man. We’re not doing a wedding list though. Please find our Registry here: https://prezola.com/buy/view/231998
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