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We kindly ask that you RSVP before January 31st. We would love to have you join us, but understand if you will not be able to attend.

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Evan Trotter

and

Cayley Trotter

Evan Trotter

and

Cayley Trotter

February 16, 2025

Muley Hill Lodge, Sturgis, South Dakota

When We Met

New Years Eve, 2021

Evan and Cayley met on the dance floor just before midnight on New Years Eve. It was at the Buck n' Ball rodeo and dance in Gillette, Wyoming with Chancey Williams playing when Evan first asked Cayley to dance. Dancing together was easy and fun, and before they knew it, the song was done. A few songs later, Evan asked Cayley to dance again. The song was called "Kiss Me" and it was the last song before the midnight countdown... They didn't kiss at the count of zero, but they both thought about it and it sure felt romantic anyway! Even so, they danced the rest of the night away and, for the next six months, kept finding dances and concerts to meet up at and adventures to go on together. Their relationship wasn't too serious at that time because both knew that at the end of summer they would be moving separate directions for school and work. As Evan put it, they were just taking it "one two step at a time" and enjoying the little time they had together while it lasted.

Long Distance

900 miles apart, Summer 2022-2024

At the end of the summer, Cayley moved to Missouri for graduate school and Evan moved further west into Wyoming for a new work position. When they said goodbye in July, neither knew for sure if they would see each other again. One month later, Evan travelled to Missouri to see Cayley... and then he did it again the next month! Soon, they were taking turns driving, flying, and driving some more every few weeks. They booked the cheapest flights in the dead of night carrying nothing but a small backpack for the next two years. Whenever there was a last-minute round-trip flight deal, they jumped at it. It didn't matter the weather, they went through it to be together.

Making it Work

Back to where it started, Summer 2024

When they were together, time went by too fast. When they were apart, time dragged on. The almost two years of long distance went by achingly slow, yet it was over before they knew it. The summer after graduation, after many months of searching, both found jobs in the town they first met - Gillette, Wyoming. Neither had been in a relationship this long before and, despite the inconvenience of it all, it had somehow seemed the easy decision to choose each other. Then, at the end of June, they took a trip to go camping in Glacier National Park. It was here where Evan took the chance to propose to Cayley - alone at "Paradise Point" on the beach of a perfectly peaceful lake at sunset. Like their relationship as a whole, it turned out far better than either expected or could have planned.

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Schedule

3:00 p.m. Ceremony Dinner & Reception to Follow 10:00 p.m. Send Off Music by Dakota Country

Sunday, February 16, 2025

Wedding and Reception

3:00 pm - 10:00 pm

Muley Hill Lodge
Sturgis, SD 57785

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Guests of Honor

We would like to recognize our parents: Ed & Tracy Trotter and Kirt & Lisa Schmitt Dear Parents, You have done far more for us than we may ever realize. We will look to you both as couples to emulate in many ways. We love you! - Cayley & Evan

Lodging in Deadwood

Please note: The venue is closer to Deadwood, SD than Sturgis, SD. Downtown Deadwood is a short five minute drive away. There is an abundance of lodging options available in and around Deadwood. A few hotels that we recommend include: Four Points by Sheraton Deadwood Comfort Inn & Suites Deadwood Springhill Suites by Marriott Deadwood Double Tree by Hilton at Cadillac Jack's Tru by Hilton Deadwood The Lodge at Deadwood Silverado Franklin Historic Hotel Holiday Inn Resort Deadwood Mountain Grand Aside from hotels, we encourage you to browse AirBnB, Vrbo, and other private lodging options in the area.

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