We met at the University of Maine during our Freshman year spring semester. Our first date was at Las Palapas, a casual Mexican restaurant in Bangor, ME. Dillon picked Megan up from her dorm room around 7 PM. Little did he know Megan and Sara had just spent hours figuring out what Megan was going to wear! Megan didn't know that Dillon was worried that he was wearing all blue, because on the way out the door Jared asked him if he was seriously going to wear a "bloutfit" on the first date! Turns out we both thought each other looked great and nobody needed to stress. Dillon made a custom playlist for the ride to Las Palapas with love songs, and called it "D8"! Sometimes we still listen to it. Megan also remembers that when we were stopped at a red light, Dillon took the opportunity to let her know he was red-green colorblind. She thought the timing of that was really funny, and was impressed with his driving skills despite that! When we got to the restaurant we made an agreement to order whatever we wanted and not to worry about making a mess with our food haha! Megan remembers thinking Dillon was very outgoing, funny, and felt that he was a gentleman from the start. Dillon thought Megan looked really cute and loved that she was easy to talk to. Dillon was chivalrous and opened every door for Megan, and he paid for the whole date. However, we weren't sure how to pay the bill because it seemed the servers wanted us to pay at the hostess stand, but other people were getting their bills at the table. When Dillon asked Megan how we should pay, she didn't quite hear him and because she was nervous she just laughed! We had a great date and at the end of it, we were excited to see each other again soon.
Flight
This airport is about 15 minutes away from the wedding venue and close to many stores, including the Maine Mall. Also close by are cheaper hotel options and chain restaurants we all know and love.
Hotel
This is the closest hotel to the wedding venue! There is a restaurant on-site and it is located next to a Japanese restaurant and another brewery. It is also within walking distance to Portland's historic Old Port district.
Hotel
This is the hotel where the majority of the Ashe family will be staying. It's located in the heart of the Old Port and close to many places to eat, grab a drink, or shop! This hotel has an indoor pool, hot tub and fitness center. Guests can easily book a ride through their preferred rideshare app to get to the wedding venue.
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This is an upbeat Irish bar located close to the Hilton Garden Inn. They serve traditional pub food and beverages, and it's a great place to watch a game or hang out with friends. The second floor showcases a beautiful view of Portland's waterfront.
Arcadia is an upbeat fun barcade with craft cocktails, mocktails, pizza, and many vintage arcade games! A great place to spend a few hours with your friends!
For classic lighthouse views and photos, please check out the Portland Head Light in Cape Elizabeth, Maine!
If you're looking for lobster, look no further than Highroller Lobster Company! They have traditional lobster dinners, lobster rolls, fried seafood, seafood towers and a raw bar all for your enjoyment. Please note the wait times can be long, so plan ahead!
Maps is one of our favorite bars. It's a fun place to grab an app and a few beers with friends. They have great happy hour deals, and of course a great collection of maps adorning the walls. They only play vinyls - no electronic music!
Mimosa flights anyone? Step into this all day breakfast bar to get the party started! Located close to the Hilton Garden Inn, Friendly Toast has everything you need to start your day right! Please be sure to add your name to the virtual waitlist as their wait times can be long.
If you're looking for the ultimate seafood experience, Scales is the place for you! If you go, Dillon suggests that you to order the scallops and the cloverleaf rolls. It's his favorite!
Geno's is an iconic dive bar in Portland, Maine with goth decorations and live shows many days of the week! It caters to heavy metal lovers and the shows are always a blast. They also host community events and dance parties. If there is no show, it's a great place to play pool with your friends!
We are registered through Zola.com. You can find the registry tab on this website.
Please RSVP by May 2026. We can’t wait to see you on the big day!
The dress code is semi-formal. Guests may wear cocktail or midi dresses, jumpsuits, long dresses, or suits or dress slacks with a blazer. Think elegant, comfortable, and celebration-ready! Make sure to wear some dancing shoes!
There will be limited street parking at the wedding venue. If you’re planning on driving, please try to carpool with other guests. You may need to park farther away and walk to the venue. You may drop people off out in front of the venue but there is no parking there. It would be best to take an Uber or Lyft if you are traveling from a local hotel, or coming from Portland, Westbrook or South Portland.
As much as we love your little ones, our wedding will be an adults only celebration as the venue is a 21+ establishment. Thank you for understanding!
Please arrive at Oxbow at 4 PM.
On November 6 we will be having a rehearsal dinner. Only family and the wedding party are invited to attend, and you will have gotten an invitation to both events in the mail.
In order to keep our celebration intimate and within the venue space limitations, plus-ones are only included when noted on the invitation.