Joshua DeSain
Madeleine Wilsey
Joshua DeSain
Madeleine Wilsey
September 19, 2026
Wedding Party
Sophie Wilsey
Maid of Honor
Madeleine’s sister and lifelong bestie by choice. Honestly, twenty years ago these two wouldn’t be able to stand next to each other for five minutes without causing a little chaos let alone an entire wedding ceremony—safe to say they have come a long way. Sophie adds bold, confident, free-spirited energy to complement Maddie’s compassionate and adventurous spirit. Together, they’re nonstop fun. You’ll find Sophie owning the dance floor—right after making sure everyone has snapped THE perfect Instagram shot. Need a hype girl? She's it!
Brandon DeSain
Best Man
Joshua's brother and companion since day one. While Josh might grab the spotlight, Brandon’s the calm, steady guy making sure the good vibes are flowing. Whether they’re hitting Wayne Hills golf course, hanging out on the rooftop at Captain Jack’s, or throwing bags at Stone 8, you’ll rarely catch one without the other. Brandon’s always down for a good time, making sure everyone’s laughing, vibing, and having an unforgettable night.
Schedule
Friday, September 18, 2026
Welcome Reception
7:00 pm - 9:00 pm
133 Evergreen Avenue, East Lansing, MI 48823
There will be light bites in addition to beer and wine. Can't wait to kick off the weekend festivities!
Saturday, September 19, 2026
Church Ceremony
3:30 pm - 4:30 pm
310 North Crum Street, Laingsburg, MI 48848
After Party
Sat, Sep 19, 2026, 11:45 pm - Sun, Sep 20, 2026, 2:00 am
327 Abbot Road, East Lansing, MI 48823
RSVP
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Travel
Hotel
Graduate by Hilton East Lansing
Our Wedding HQ! This hotel is THE heart of East Lansing—steps away from local bars, restaurants, and (most importantly) the Welcome Party! It’s the perfect home base for the weekend, and where all wedding day transportation will begin and end. Stay close, stay social, and stay in the middle of all the fun!
Hotel
Marriott East Lansing at University Place
Steps from all the East Lansing buzz, this hotel is perfect for keeping the weekend vibes going. It’s an easy 10-minute walk to the Graduate (our wedding transportation hub) and close to all the restaurants, bars, and social spots you’ll want to explore. Another ideal spot if you want to be right in the middle of the action! Book by Friday, August 28, 2026 to access event pricing.
Hotel
Sleepy Hollow State Park
Got wheels and love the outdoors? This spot is perfect for turning the wedding into a mini getaway. Just a 10-minute drive from the ceremony and reception (and 30 minutes from the Welcome Party), Sleepy Hollow State Park offers trails, a beach, and plenty of fresh Michigan air. Make it a long weekend, slow down off the beaten path, and soak in nature before the celebrations kick off!
Flight
Detroit (DTW)
Detroit Metro (DTW) is the go-to airport for most guests—it’s a Delta hub with plenty of direct flights from cities like Rochester, Chicago, and Atlanta. Once you land, grab a rental car or car service to cruise about 1 hour and 15 minutes to our hotel home base in East Lansing.
Flight
Lansing (LAN)
Prefer to skip the car rental? Lansing’s airport (LAN) is a super convenient option—just 20 minutes from our hotel by Uber or Lyft. It’s smaller and easier to navigate, so you can get from plane to party seamlessly!
Registry
FAQs
Question
What is the dress code?
Answer
Both events are semi-formal, so think polished but comfortable. For the ceremony, we kindly ask that guests follow church tradition and bring something to cover shoulders. No need to keep it on for the reception! Since the reception will be outdoors on a mix of grass and concrete, with Michigan weather doing its thing, we recommend bringing a layer and a second pair of shoes.
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Can I bring my kids?
Answer
We adore your little ones, but this celebration is just for the grown-ups. We want you to be able to relax, sip, dance, and celebrate with us stress-free. Thank you so much for understanding and for making arrangements—we know it’s no small ask, and we truly appreciate it.
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Will there be parking available?
Answer
We’d love for guests to ride the provided transportation to and from the venues to keep the party moving together. But if driving is more your style, that works too! There will be plenty of parking at both spots. Saint Isidore Church has two lots plus nearby street parking, and the farm will have parking along the left side of the driveway. Just a heads-up: parking at the farm will be on grass, so plan your shoes accordingly!
Question
Do I have to stay at the hotel to take the bus?
Answer
No, the buses are for everyone, no matter where you’re staying. Pick up and drop off will be at the Graduate Hotel, so if you’re riding with us, plan to be there by 2:30 pm. The buses will not make multiple stops for pick up or drop off.
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Can I use Uber or Lyft?
Answer
Yes! Ride-share options like Uber and Lyft are available to get to the ceremony or reception. The tricky part is finding a driver late at night after the reception, which can be hit or miss. To make things easy, we’ve arranged buses to take everyone back to the Graduate Hotel once the party wraps up.
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When and where do I RSVP?
Answer
Please RSVP on our website by 08/22/2026. You are welcome (and encouraged) to RSVP prior to this date!
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What if I can only attend some of the events?
Answer
We completely understand and ask that you RSVP to "yes" to all the events you can make and "no" to all the events you cannot attend. Please note that some events do not require an RSVP, such as the cocktail hour and after party.
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What if I can't make it?
Answer
You will be missed, but we completely understand. Please RSVP "no" as soon as possible so we can plan accordingly.
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Will there be an open bar?
Answer
Yes, let the fun begin and go all night!
Question
When does the reception end? Is there an after party?
Answer
The reception will wind down at 11:00 PM, but the fun doesn’t have to stop there. Buses will take everyone back to the Graduate Hotel, and for those who want to keep the celebration going, we’ll be heading to Dublin Square (5-minute walk from drop-off). Totally optional, but we’d love to see you there!
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Do you have a registry?
Answer
Yes! While gifts are not expected, we have listed some items and ideas that will help us begin our life together. Our registry can be found on our website by accessing the registry tab from the menu button.