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Meet Us Under the Oak Tree
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David Pauker

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Meridith Miller

David Pauker

and

Meridith Miller

January 20, 2024

Los Alamos, CA
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Schedule

"One cannot think well, love well, sleep well, if one has not dined well." - Virginia Woolf First of all, thank you everyone for making the trip to be with us when we get married! It means more than you know, and we're so excited to have this group of people with us in one place; to enjoy good food, good drinks and most importantly to support us on this very special occasion.

Friday, January 19, 2024

Check-in at the Skyview!

3:00 pm

Skyview Motel
Los Alamos, CA 93440

The Taco Bar and Margarita Mixer

5:30 pm - 9:00 pm

Cocktail vibes

We couldn't think of a better way to kick-off the weekend than with a welcome reception including tasty tacos, margaritas, music, a few speeches and an opportunity for everyone to meet! Afterwards, we'll hang at the hotel or can pop down to the local dive bar for whoever wants to keep the party going...

Saturday, January 20, 2024

The Ceremony

3:30 pm - 4:30 pm

Wedding vibes - but not black tie!

The Ceremony is at Stolpman Vineyards under an old Oak Tree, and is quite literally in the middle of the vineyard. The ground will be a little dusty, but we're working on some ground cover, so please stay tuned on shoe wear. Why Stolpman? The Stolpman wines have been favorites at Wine at Five, and after a trip to their tasting room in Los Olivos in April and a tasting with young and very talented wine maker Pete Stolpman in Rye in May, we got to thinking once Dave finally popped the question in June – maybe we should get married in Santa Barbara. Sure enough, Mer asked Pete if they had a good spot in the vineyard for a wedding, and his answer was, "Yes! Under 700 year old Oak Tree." (Or so the legend goes). Note: Transportation will be provided from Skyview to the vineyard and from the vineyard to the Bells.

The Dinner

6:00 pm - 9:30 pm

We stumbled upon this little gem when Dave took Mer on a surprise 40th birthday trip to Los Olivos....and wow, what a gem. Bell's is a low-key Michelin starred restaurant serving California-French cuisine and featuring locally sourced ingredients and wines (of course)! The meal is prix-fix style, but we'll be taking dietary restrictions closer to the Big Day.

The After Party

9:30 pm

Travel

"If you ain't first, you're last." -Reese Bobby

Travel Note

Flight Options and Getting to Los Alamos

First, you'll need to get yourself to Santa Barbara! Option 1: You can fly into Santa Barbara via connections in Denver, San Francisco, or Los Angeles (sorry Delta people, there no flights into SBA for you to go along with your recently devalued status – Delta don't care). Option 2: If you prefer the scenic route, fly into LAX and take a lovely drive up the PCH – about two and a half hours. From Santa Barbara, you'll drive over the "hill," about 45 min. to get to Los Alamos. Sure, the 101 will get you there safe and sound, but if you like blind curves, steep grades, and hot breaks – but also love amazing views – we suggest taking the San Marcos Pass Road (154) out of Santa Barbara (daytime only). That's how we go.

Hotel

Skyview Los Alamos

9150 US-101, Los Alamos, CA 93440
 

Please use the link below to book under our room block if you haven't already! We have 21 of the 33 rooms here, so we only have to partly behave ourselves. ;)

Discount Code - MERANDDAVE

Registry

We'll post our registry here when we're finished building it. Thank you in advance!

Things To Do

Los Alamos is a bona-fide a "one-horse" town, and it is most certainly a step back in time! While it's usually pretty sleepy during the weekdays, the shops, restaurants and tasting rooms are all alive and hoppin' on the weekends. Bell Street is the only street in town, and it's where you'll find tasting rooms, coffee, a couple shops and restaurants. It's a few minutes drive from Skyview. Depending on when you arrive, there are also several tasting rooms and cute lunch spots in Los Olivos, which is about 15 min down the road from Skyview. If you fancy an upscale vibe, then Mattei's Tavern is the place to go for a lunch and/or coffee/cocktail. Dave's Tasting Room Pro tips: A Tribute to Grace Wine Co. in Los Alamos and Stolpman, Tensley, and Liquid Farm in Los Olivos.

FAQs

If you have any burning questions, please text Dave or Mer. We'll update here as they come in.
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