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What time should we arrive, and is there parking at the venue?

Answer

Our ceremony will begin promptly at 4:00pm, so we ask guests to plan on arriving between 3:30–3:45pm to allow plenty of time to park, get settled, and find a seat. The venue has ample onsite parking—just enter the address into your preferred maps app, and it will guide you to the front gate where signs will direct you to the parking area.

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Will you be getting a marriage certificate?

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We will not be getting a legal marriage certificate, as Mary is already legally married to Randy. While the law doesn’t currently recognize more than one marriage, that doesn’t change the depth of our love or the meaning of this celebration. For us, this wedding is about honoring our commitment, our chosen family, and the life we’re building together. We know that polyamory may be new to some of our guests, and we welcome you with open hearts and open minds. Our relationship is built on love, honesty, and mutual respect—and we’re so grateful to share this moment with people who support us. If you’re curious to learn more about polyamory or the idea of chosen family, we invite you to explore this beginner-friendly guide: https://findpoly.com/blog/polyamory-101-a-beginners-guide-to-ethical-non-monogamy/. This day is a celebration of connection in all its beautiful forms, and we’re thrilled to have you be part of it.

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Is there transportation to and from the hotels to the wedding?

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We won’t be providing group transportation but getting to and from the venue is easy! Rideshare services like Uber and Lyft are readily available in the area and are a great option for convenience and flexibility if you are not renting a vehicle. We recommend coordinating with fellow guests if you'd like to share a ride!

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Can I bring a date?

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We’re so excited to celebrate with all of our favorite people! If your invitation includes a plus one, their name (or “and Guest”) will be listed on the envelope or online RSVP. If not, we kindly ask that you attend solo—we wish we could invite everyone, but we’re keeping things intimate. Thank you for understanding!

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Are kids welcome?

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Yes! We’ve invited the little ones in our families to join the celebration, and we can’t wait to see them there. If your children are included on your invitation, they’re absolutely welcome! Otherwise, we kindly ask that you enjoy a night off and celebrate with us kid-free. Thank you for understanding as we create a joyful day for guests of all ages!

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Can I take pictures during the ceremony?

Answer

We kindly ask that you keep phones and cameras tucked away during the ceremony. We’ve invited our wonderful friend & photographer Britannie to capture all of the special moments, and we’d love for you to be fully present with us. Help us create an unplugged, heartfelt experience—we promise to share the beautiful photos afterward!

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Will the wedding be held rain or shine?

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Yes! While we’re hoping for beautiful spring weather, we do have a backup plan. Any outdoor portions of the day—like the ceremony—can be moved indoors if needed, so the celebration will go on rain or shine. Come ready to celebrate, no matter what the skies bring!

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What should I pack? What’s the weather like in May?

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May in Salt Lake City is usually lovely, with daytime highs in the 60s to 70s °F (15–25 °C) and cooler evenings. That said, spring can be a little unpredictable! We recommend packing: - A light jacket or wrap for the evening - Comfortable shoes for walking on grass or gravel - Sunglasses and sunscreen for sunny moments - An umbrella or raincoat, just in case