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Ryan Patterson

and

Alexandra Coyle

Ryan Patterson

and

Alexandra Coyle

October 10, 2025

Philadelphia, PA
109 days109 d17 hours17 h50 minutes50 min24 seconds24 s

How We Met

We first met on January 5th, 2020. Ryan approached Allie at a bar and she basically told him to kick rocks. But the next day Ryan persevered and friended Allie on Facebook which led to 8 months of back and forth talking on all platforms before Ryan had the courage to ask Allie to hang out again. She happily accepted and after they went out only three times, it was actually Allie who asked to make things official!

The Proposal

The proposal happened in Wildwood on the beach during a family portrait session with Allie's family. Allie had wanted family portraits for their new home and booked a session for her whole family to join. Ryan had already asked Allie's parents for their blessing in May of that year and knew Allie always wanted her family to be there for her engagement, so this presented the perfect opportunity. However, there were definitely some hiccups leading up to the question. Ryan was a bag of nerves the day before and day of the proposal it was a shock Allie didn't catch on. Rather she thought he was just "being weird" and "getting on her nerves." Allie's brother also was dedicated to keeping Allie off the scent and made her almost cancel the session because of his complaints of not wanting to go. Finally walking up to the beach a nearby family yelled out "is this an engagement?" To which Allie responded "wouldn't that be nice." To say she was oblivious is an understatement. Once we got to the beach and a few pictures had been taken, Ryan saw his opportunity. He was already in a kneeling position and once Allie stood up to turn around he popped the question. It took a solid minute for him to get his yes because Allie couldn't grasp what was happening. It was the best moment of their lives. They spent the rest of the night celebrating with some family and friends that Ryan had invited down to be with them.

Schedule

Here's what to expect on our wedding day. We can't wait to celebrate with you!

Friday, October 10, 2025

Ceremony

5:00 pm - 6:00 pm

Philadelphia Ballroom
2014 Hornig Road, Philadelphia, PA 19116

Our ceremony will be taking place outdoors in the grass. Consider dressing for the current weather conditions.

Cocktail Hour

6:00 pm - 7:00 pm

Reception

7:00 pm - 11:00 pm

Black-Tie Optional: Tuxes and gowns are preferred, but not required.

Travel

Hotel

Radisson Hotel Philadelphia Northeast

2400 Old Lincoln Highway, Trevose, PA 19053
 

We have reserved a block of rooms for our traveling guests. To make reservations: Call 1 800 333 3333 and mention the Coyle- Patterson Wedding or visit the website by clicking "View" below. All reservations must be reserved by September 11th, 2025. Don't forget to use our discount code!

Discount Code - 0Y08W3

Wedding Party

Samantha Mola

Maid of Honor

Francis Gavaghan

Best Man

Danielle Burke

Bridesmaid

Catrina Coyle

Bridesmaid

Kasey Coyle

Bridesmaid

Jaclyn Fulmer

Bridesmaid

Celia Hess

Bridesmaid

Joanna Kozole

Bridesmaid

Colleen Potts

Bridesmaid

Lauren Werez

Bridesmaid

Valerie Werner

Bridesmaid

Kyle Bunnell

Groomsman

Ron Carrero

Groomsman

Michael Colon

Groomsman

Sean Coyle

Groomsman

Terrence Devlin

Groomsman

Michael Mola

Groomsman

Jim O’Neil

Groomsman

Owen Radtke

Groomsman

Colin Smith

Groomsman

FAQs

Question

When should I RSVP by?

Answer

August 25th, 2025.

Question

Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

Answer

Yes! Our ceremony/reception has free private parking.

Question

Is there a dress code?

Answer

Yes! Black-Tie Optional.

Question

I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

Answer

Please note any allergies on your RSVP! If you already sent your RSVP and forgot please inform Ryan or Allie ASAP.

Question

Are you registered? Where?

Answer

You can find our registry here: https://www.zola.com/registry/coylepattersonwedding

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