I met Chris when I was 21 and trying to navigate the vibrant yet challenging world of my early twenties. I was trying to get through school, and work side jobs. He was a charming 25-year-old at the time who happened to visit my side job. Thus, our story began in the Snug Harbor bar, on my shifts. He would come in on Wednesdays, and his arrival was always a highlight of my shift, bringing a little spark to my routine. Before long, I found myself eagerly anticipating his visits; his absence one night stirred something in me, and I realized I was purposely looking for him. Our first date was at the Light Horse Tavern in Jersey City. It was just like a first date set scene in a movie. The lights were dim, candles were flickering on all the tables. We opted to sit at the beautiful rustic bar. The laughter flowed as freely as the conversation, and maybe one too many Maine Lunches. Chris at one point just stopped all conversation and kissed me in front of everyone. Like I said, movie scene. From that moment forward, we became inseparable, carving out our little world filled with shared dreams and memories. Then came the unprecedented times of the pandemic, which, while chaotic for many, unfolded into a transformative experience for us. We quarantined together, finding solace in one another’s company. Our days were filled with exploration and adventure as we took invigorating three-mile hikes through scenic trails, or just around Kearny. On occasion, we would make the trek into New York City to visit beloved breweries like Other Half and Hudson Valley, where we would excitedly sift through craft beers to stock our cooler for cozy nights at home. The evenings were rich with laughter and creativity as we indulged in our shared love for TV, binging on everything from classic films to the latest releases. Ozark was our quarantine show. Even amidst the global turmoil, our love thrived and deepened, weaving a tapestry of unforgettable moments. However, life took a dramatic turn when I faced the daunting news of a cancer diagnosis. It was an unimaginable chapter in our lives, but Chris remained my unwavering rock. He was there through every fearful moment, every tear, and every ounce of uncertainty. From the very beginning, he chose to stand by me, walking alongside me as we navigated this intense journey together. With resilience and hope, I gradually healed, and we took the significant step of moving in together. This transition marked the beginning of a new ERA in our relationship, one filled with even more shared experiences and growth. Looking back, these five years have been nothing short of phenomenal—full of love, laughter, and unforgettable lessons. We’ve survived home renovation, traveled around the world, and embarked on fulfilling career paths that allow us to flourish. Now, standing on the brink of our next adventure, we are both excited and ready to embrace a new title in our relationship, affirming our deep bond and commitment to one another. Each day is not just a step forward but a celebration of the love we have built and continue to nurture together. WE ARE OFFICIALLY IN THE FIANCE ERA.