We're getting married in our favorite city and we cannot wait to celebrate with you!
Charis first spotted Russell at a high school house party, where he was casually rocking a Hawaiian shirt with a large python draped around his neck. Naturally, she thought, Huh, this guy is pretty cool—and wonderfully weird. A few years later, on the Fourth of July in a shared friend’s Brooklyn backyard (shoutout Niamh!), their paths crossed again. That night, as they talked and laughed under the glow of sparklers, it became clear that something special was unfolding. Of course, their “chance” reunion wasn’t entirely left to fate—some very determined friends were pulling the strings behind the scenes. Call it matchmaking, call it destiny—but we like to think of it as the moment our story truly began. For the rest of that summer, and the many that followed, our love grew in a way that felt both effortless and deeply meaningful. We didn’t always know where life would take us, but one thing was certain: whatever this was, it was worth holding onto—through every adventure, twist, and turn to come. And here we are! Almost ten years to the day from that memorable summer night, finally making it official, throwing a big celebration, and embarking on a lifetime of love, laughter, and probably debating where to order takeout and whose turn it is to walk Arlo.
5:00 pm - 6:00 pm
Summer Cocktail Attire: It's summer time in New York City! Use this as a chance to dress up. Bright colors encouraged. Floor length gowns and tuxedos are not necessary.
Our ceremony will be held in the historical garden courtyard of Union Theological Seminary. Please enter via the entrance on 3041 Broadway and you will be directed to the quad from there!
6:00 pm - 7:00 pm
Please join us for light bites and beverages in James Chapel post-ceremony to commence the evening celebrations!
Sat, Jun 28, 2025, 11:15 pm - Sun, Jun 29, 2025, 3:00 am
Come dance the night away with us! The celebration doesn’t end after the reception—join us downtown for an unforgettable after-party filled with drinks, dancing, music, and great company :)
As much as we love your little ones, we will not be including them in the event. However, we recognize that some of you will be traveling with your kids, so please let us know if you need any help finding childcare. Please reach out if you have questions!
The weather in June in NYC will likely be hot with a milder temp in the evening! Rain is always a possibility (although hopefully unlikely!!) so keep an eye on the weather, just in case.
We recommend that you take public transit or Uber/Lyft/a taxi to events. Driving and parking in NYC is not recommended.
Colorful cocktail - Think bright summer colors, fun patterns, or anything that brings a lively vibe: colorful shirts, ties, or jackets and vibrant or patterned dresses or jumpsuits. Have fun with it!
All wedding events on Saturday June 28th will be held at Union Theological Seminary.
More to come!
Please reach out to Charis and Russell if you have any questions.
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