Brent DeBay
Amber Barry
Brent DeBay
Amber Barry
September 26, 2026
We've Known Each Other Since... Forever
You could say our story has been about 40 years in the making. Not the “we met once as kids and lost touch for decades” kind of story. We’ve actually been in each other’s lives that whole time. The kind of lifelong friendship that just… is. For decades, that’s all it was. Just friends. Then Amber sold her house, traded four walls for four wheels, and bought a camper. Brent started helping out, and one project turned into two, then five, and before we knew it, we were spending a lot of time together. We figured a trip together would be fun. A “friends trip,” we said. From Wisconsin to New Hampshire in the Airstream. Turns out, it wasn’t just a friends trip. By the time we got back home, we were officially dating. Since then, we’ve had our share of epic adventures, from Alaska to the Florida Keys, and now we’re onto the biggest one yet. We can’t wait to celebrate with you!
Schedule
Saturday, September 26, 2026
The Party
4:00 pm - 9:00 pm
Nice casual attire. No need to dress up too much, just come looking like yourself on a good day.
Travel
Hotel
Holiday Inn Salem (I-93 at Exit 2) by IHG
Discounted rates available!
Discount Code - DBW
Travel Note
Other Accommodations
Hampstead, NH Stillmeadow Bed & Breakfast Average: $200–$300/night Drive time: 5 minutes (2.1 miles) Atkinson, NH Atkinson Resort & Country Club Average: $220–$350/night Drive time: 7 minutes (4.4 miles) Salem, NH The Artisan at Tuscan Village (Marriott) Average: $250–$400/night Drive time: 15 minutes (8.0 miles) Holiday Inn Salem Average: $150–$220/night Drive time: 15 minutes (8.2 miles) HOTEL DISCOUNT AVAILABLE La Quinta Inn & Suites Salem Average: $120–$180/night Drive time: 15 minutes (8.2 miles) Haverhill, MA Hampton Inn Haverhill Average: $160–$260/night Drive time: 16 minutes (8.4 miles) TownePlace Suites Haverhill Average: $170–$300/night Drive time: 15–17 minutes (8.2 miles) Airbnb Options Average: $150–$500/night Hampstead / Atkinson Drive time: 5–10 minutes Big Island Pond Drive time: 5–10 minutes Salem, NH Drive time: ~15 minutes
Flight
Nearby Airports
Manchester-Boston Regional Airport (MHT) Drive time: 25-30 minutes Boston Logan International Airport (BOS) Drive time: 45–70 minutes
Registry
We'll post our registry here when we're finished building it. Thank you in advance!
FAQs
Question
What is the dress code?
Answer
This is a casual backyard wedding, so think nice, comfortable, and ready to hang out. Garden party vibes are perfect. Important note: No heels. Seriously. We love you, and we don’t want you sinking into the grass. Flats, sandals, wedges, boots, or even dressy sneakers are all great choices.
Question
What should I expect for the vibe?
Answer
This is a casual experience! Think really good party, not a formal event. Come ready to eat, drink, hang out, and stay awhile.
Question
Will the event be outdoors?
Answer
Yes. Everything will take place outdoors with an enclosed tent. Plan for fresh air and dress for the weather.
Question
What kind of food will be served?
Answer
If you’re anything like us, you’re already thinking about the food. We’ve got a pizza food truck, along with apps, salads, and a few other things to round it out. Come hungry, we’ve got you covered.
Question
What kind of drinks will be available?
Answer
Beer, wine, hard seltzers, and non-alcoholic options will all be available throughout the evening.
Question
Are kids invited?
Answer
We love your kids, but we’re keeping the headcount down to stay on the neighbors’ good side. This will be an adults-only evening.
Question
Is there parking available?
Answer
Yes. More details to come!
Question
What happens after dark?
Answer
We’ll have a bonfire going once the sun goes down, so feel free to stick around and hang out!
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