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May 25, 2019
Lafayette, IN

Brenda & Vince

Its finally happening...

Vince

Gochenour

and

Brenda

Oaks-Parker

May 25, 2019

Lafayette, IN

How we met...and how the story unfolds...

Gotta Love kids

Brenda’s daughter dated a young man that worked with Vince. At that time both Vince and Brenda were married and knew nothing about each other. Several years later 2014 to exact, that same young man gave Vince, Brenda’s number...first communication didn’t last but a couple months . About six months later the communication started again, a lot had happened in those six months, so Brenda wanted to move very very slow, on September 29, 2015 was the first time we had seen each other since late 2014. From that day on we built an amazing realtionship, lots of learning to give and take and allow time for children and family. Our time together was always an adventure. In August 2016 Vince took Brenda took look at a house for he and the “boys” to rent, when they were leaving Vince asked Brenda to move in with him, she of course said YES!!! Even though we had some bumps, some bigger than others, we have kept moving right along with each other by our side. By the end of 2017 both Vinces boys lived with us, and that took some getting use to. In November 2018 came really big changes, Vince went to work for DCT Motor sports/Poisel Const. and Brenda went full time at the CASA office.

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