We first met while we were students at UCSB, through a mutual friend who was Alex’s coworker and Blayre’s neighbor. After a fun night of getting to know each other, we started jokingly calling each other husband and wife. At the time it was just a silly inside joke that we never thought would actually turn into real life. After college, life took us in different directions. Blayre moved back home and Alex stayed in Santa Barbara. For a couple of years, we’d only see each other occasionally at group hangouts with friends. But during one of those get-togethers, we ended up spending most of the night talking and realized there was definitely something more there. It didn’t take long before we both knew it wasn’t just friendship anymore. Since then, we’ve built a life full of laughs, adventures, and so many great memories with a lot of you. We’re so excited for this next chapter and can’t wait for what’s ahead.
4:30 pm - 11:00 pm
Formal: Tuxes and gowns are welcome, and so are suits and cocktail dresses. We encourage bright and colorful attire!
Children are welcome to stay at the resort, but please note that our wedding ceremony and reception will be an adults-only event. For families with young guests, we recommend contacting the resort directly to inquire about the available child-care services they provide. Thank you for your understanding, and we look forward to celebrating with you!
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The ceremony and reception will take place at this all-inclusive resort, and we've reserved a block of rooms for our guests. To book your room for the weekend, please use the link provided below. While we've tried to secure as many rooms as possible, availability in the block may be limited. We encourage you to reserve your room as soon as possible to ensure you have a discounted rate. If you have any questions, please contact our travel coordinator at 1-877-737-0177 (option 2) or email guests@paradiseweddings.com. https://l.paradiseweddings.com/blayre-and-alex Passcode: 0214
We recommend booking your room as early as possible to ensure availability, especially during peak travel seasons. The sooner you reserve, the better the chance of securing a room within our room block and at the best rates.
Please scroll up to the Location and Booking page of our wedding website to reserve your room. If you have any trouble or specific requests, feel free to contact our travel coordinator, Abraham, directly at 1-877-737-0177 (option 2) or email her at guests@paradiseweddings.com.
Yes! We’ve arranged a room block at a discounted rate for our wedding guests. Please make sure to book through the provided link to receive the special rate. If you need help, our travel coordinator is available to assist.
There is a 3-night minimum stay at the resort. You will be able to choose whichever days and however long you would like to stay. Please see the Schedule page for the outline of events.
Yes, Sunset Beach Golf & Spa Resort is an all-inclusive resort, meaning meals, drinks (alcoholic and non-alcoholic), and certain activities are included in the rate. However, please check the details of the resort's all-inclusive plan for any exclusions or upgrades.
No, we can only accommodate the people on our guest list. Please make sure to RSVP for yourself. If you have any questions or need assistance, feel free to contact us.
While children are welcome to attend the resort, the wedding ceremony and reception will be adult-focused. We suggest checking with the resort for specific child-friendly activities available at the property.
In February, Cabo typically experiences mild and pleasant weather, with daytime temperatures ranging from the mid-70s to low 80s°F (24-28°C). Evenings can be cooler, with temperatures dropping to the mid-50s to low 60s°F (13-16°C), so we recommend packing layers, including a light jacket or sweater for the evenings. Be sure to also bring sunscreen and lightweight clothing for daytime activities.
Yes! Sunset Beach Golf & Spa Resort offers a variety of activities, including a world-class golf course, spa services, water sports, and more. We also recommend taking part in resort excursions or exploring the local area (such as Cabo’s beaches, shopping, and outdoor adventures). Check with the concierge for more details and to book activities in advance.
The ceremony will take place outdoors, with a beautiful view of the ocean and surrounding landscapes. In the case of inclement weather, the ceremony will move indoors to a designated location.
Any room cancelation: From the time of booking to October 9, 2025, deposits are refundable. From October 10, 2025, to November 25, 2025, deposits are non-refundable. Resorts charge fees for reducing number of nights or guests. From November 26, 2025, to Travel Date, room cancelations are non-refundable. If you need help or need to make changes to your reservation, please reach out to our travel coordinator, 1-877-737-0177 (option 2) or email guests@paradiseweddings.com.
Yes! We are planning a welcome event (February 12, 2026) for all our guests to meet and mingle before the wedding. Additional information will be provided soon!
If you have any questions about the wedding day, the resort, or need any help with your travel plans, don’t hesitate to reach out to us directly or contact our travel coordinator at 1-877-737-0177 (option 2) directly.
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