Looking forward to celebrating with you!
Matthew Betham
Aubrey Pack
Matthew Betham
Aubrey Pack
December 19, 2026
Schedule
Saturday, December 19, 2026
Wedding
2:00 pm - 11:00 pm
3105 River Rd, South Boston, VA 24592
All Black, Formal Attire
We can’t wait to celebrate with you!!
Travel
Hotel
The Berry Hill Resort & Conference Center
Guests are welcome to stay on the property for approximately $140 per night. If you are interested, please let us know a few months in advance so accommodations can be planned accordingly.
Registry
Amazon Registry!
Venmo for The Bethams!
Wedding Party
Gallery
Things To Do
The Berry Hill Resort & Conference Center
Venue & Resort Information: Our wedding will take place at The Berry Hill Resort & Conference Center, a historic resort set on over 700 acres of beautiful countryside in South Boston, Virginia. The property is known for its timeless Southern charm, elegant Greek Revival architecture, tree-lined entrance, and scenic views, making it the perfect setting for a classic yet fun wedding weekend. Guests staying at the resort will have access to a variety of amenities and activities throughout the property, including: -Indoor pool and saunas -Fitness center -Tennis courts -Hiking and walking trails -Historic tours of the estate -Spa and wellness services -Multiple dining options and tavern-style dining -Beautiful verandas and outdoor spaces throughout the estate The resort features over 90 guest rooms with hardwood floors, handcrafted beds, luxury bathrooms, and views overlooking the estate grounds. Guests are welcome to stay on the property for approximately $140 per night.
FAQs
Question
What is the dress code?
Answer
We kindly request that all guests wear formal, all-black attire to celebrate with us. This includes floor-length gowns, cocktail dresses, or formal jumpsuits for women, and suits or tuxedos for men—all in black. White under shirts allowed.
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Are children under 16 allowed?
Answer
While we love your little ones, our wedding will be an adults-only event. We appreciate your understanding and hope this allows everyone to relax and fully enjoy the evening with us.
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What's for dinner?
Answer
Dinner will be a plated meal with a choice of: -Steak with Mushroom Sauce -Chicken with White Sauce Both are accompanied with servings of roasted potatoes and brussel sprouts. *Please let us know your main entree selection prior to the wedding day so final catering arrangements can be made. Thank you!
Question
What is your phone policy?
Answer
We kindly encourage guests to put away phones and devices during the ceremony so everyone can be fully present in the moment with us.
Question
What time should we be there?
Answer
We'd love to have you arrive by 2:45 so we can get everyone seated comfortably before we begin the ceremony at 3:00!
Question
Will there be alcohol?
Answer
We're delighted to offer champagne and wine throughout the celebration, and a cash bar will also be available at the venue for guests who'd like to purchase additional beverages of their choice!
Question
Can I bring a plus one?
Answer
To ensure we can accommodate all our beloved guests, only those explicitly named on your invitation are included. Thank you for understanding!
Question
How should I RSVP?
Answer
Please mail back the RSVP card you will receive with the invitations by October 1st so we can plan accordingly!