We like to say our relationship went from “low-key” to “let’s get married in a castle.” We’ve been officially together since September 2018, but by the time everyone figured it out, we were already deep into building something real. Between three kids, endless schedules, and blending two families into one, we somehow created a life that’s equal parts loud, loving, and slightly unhinged. In July 2023, while in Italy (because subtlety has never been our strength), Josh proposed. Amber cried. The kids approved. A group chat exploded. What started quietly turned into a full-blown adventure — the kind with passports, big dreams, and now… a castle. If we’re going to do forever, we’re doing it our way. Wouldn’t have it any other way.
5:30 pm - 6:00 pm
6:00 pm - 6:30 pm
Cocktail Attire: Wear cocktail dresses, little black dresses, dressy jumpsuits, and jackets and slacks.
You are welcome to be as dressed up as much you'd like, but no jeans and t shirts, please!
6:30 pm - 7:15 pm
Have a drink, sign the guest book, and mingle while we're off taking pictures. :)
7:15 pm - 11:00 pm
Cocktail Attire: Wear cocktail dresses, LBDs, dressy jumpsuits, and jackets and slacks.
You are welcome to be as dressed up as you'd like, but no jeans and t shirts, please!
Hotel
We have a group block at the Fairfield. The rate is $199 and it is good until June 1. Click "VIEW" below to book. --------- Odom Wedding Start Date: Thursday, June 18, 2026 End Date: Sunday, June 21, 2026 Hotel(s) offering your special group rate: Fairfield by Marriott Inn & Suites Birmingham Pelham for 199.00 USD per night - Last Day to Book : Monday, June 01, 2026
Hotel
We do have a block at this hotel, but the rates showing online are currently cheaper. If you can get this hotel for less than $170 for a king or $160 for a double, do NOT use our block. Link coming soon.
Hotel
This is the next closest location to Sylacauga. It is 31 minutes from the venue and 38 minutes to Sylacauga. It is a brand new property. We do not have a rate for this hotel, nor will there be a shuttle.
Bride
Amber thrives on vision, playlists, and just enough chaos to keep things interesting. She believes every detail matters, every lyric means something, and if you’re going to celebrate — you might as well go all in.
Groom
Josh approaches life laid back and confident, particularly when it comes to sports opinions. He brings steady energy, dry humor, and has long since accepted that music decisions are not his department.
Maid of Honor
Charlotte steps into her role as Maid of Honor with grace, confidence, and the quiet understanding that she is clearly the most responsible person up here. She’s here to hold the bouquet, fix anything that goes wrong, and subtly keep the rest of us in line.
Best Man
Colton accepted the title of Best Man after confirming there would be no choreographed dances and minimal public emotion. He brings calm energy, sharp style, and the comforting knowledge that someone up here is taking this very seriously.
Best Man
Caden proudly accepted the role of Best Man without asking a single follow-up question. He’s here for the spotlight, the snacks, and the opportunity to give a speech that may or may not have been approved in advance.
Bridesmaid
Kaitlynn may seem like the serious one, but don’t be fooled — she’s just observing, collecting material, and absolutely judging us in high definition. Between her love of anime and drawing, she’s likely already redesigned this wedding in her head.
Bridesmaid
Marilynn brings spunk, unexpected one-liners, and just enough delightful weirdness to keep things interesting. She may not take much seriously, but she absolutely understood the assignment — mostly.
Groomsman
Benjamin accepted the role of Groomsman with full goofball energy and zero intention of acting serious. He’s here for the celebration, the snacks, and the strong possibility of photobombing at least one formal picture.
Father of the Bride
Robert built his life on hard work, providing for his family, and having strong opinions — most of which he’ll tell you are right. As Father of the Bride, he brings the same humor, steadiness, and confidence he brings to everything else.
Mother of the Bride
Kathy has always been more than a mom — she’s been a best friend, daily conversation, and the person who already knows the full story before anyone else does. With her humor, honesty, and constant presence, she’s been right there for every chapter — usually mid-conversation.
Father of the Groom
Cary has spent most of his life on a baseball field — coaching, calling plays, and treating youth baseball like a full-time mission. Now retired, he may not be running drills anymore, but he still knows how to keep things moving and call it like he sees it.
Mother of the Groom
Tammy hosts her own radio show and has never met a song she didn’t have an opinion about. A true music junkie with a microphone and a platform, she brings personality, volume control (sometimes), and a soundtrack to everything she does.
Officiant
Warren leads his congregation, leads the Auburn fan base (in spirit), and probably believes he could lead the SEC if asked. An avid fisherman and even more avid Tiger, he brings steady faith, steady humor — and as one of our closest friends — exactly the kind of perspective we trust to marry us.
Children's museum
Outdoor shopping mall - some high end.
Shopping mall
Historic caverns, kiddie rides and games, good for 10 and under.
Yes, dinner will be a buffet.
Cocktail attire - dressy, but no tuxes or formal gowns, unless you just want to...
Yes, be sure to select your interest on the RSVP.
We are blessed enough to not need gifts. We will have optional his and hers charity choices for those interested.
Yes!
Yes, parking is available on-site.
Sterling Castle in Shelby, Alabama.
The ceremony and cocktail hour will take place outdoors and the reception will take place indoors.
The ceremony will begin promptly at 6pm. Arrive any time after 5pm
Yes, we will have a full bar.
No, we are not dedicating sides to either family, sit where ever your heart desires - except for reserved seats.
TBD
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