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Amanda Matthews

and

Bob Kacergis

Amanda Matthews

and

Bob Kacergis

September 26, 2026

Stone Harbor, NJ

Schedule

Welcome to Our Wedding Website! We’re so excited to celebrate our big day with all of you! Here you’ll find everything you need to know—event details, travel info, RSVP, and more. We can’t wait to share this special weekend with our favorite people.

Friday, September 25, 2026

Welcome Party

6:00 pm - 10:00 pm

Join us for a 60s Beach Club-themed Welcome Party filled with fun, sunshine vibes, and good company. Dress in your best beach club casual - think bright colors, breezy fits, and retro flair. Hawaiian and camp shirts are highly encouraged.

Saturday, September 26, 2026

Ceremony

4:30 pm - 5:00 pm

The Reeds at Shelter Haven - Bayfront Lawn
9601 3rd Ave, Stone Harbor, NJ 08247

We are excited to celebrate in style with you! Attire for the wedding is formal. Gentlemen are encouraged to wear suits, while ladies can opt for elegant gowns. To make the evening more special, we kindly ask that guests wear blue in any shade you love, from soft blue to deep navy. Please see the link for additional guidance on the blue dress code. https://tinyurl.com/mkbmt5pw Please check the Website FAQ for more details!

Reception

5:00 pm - 10:00 pm

The Reeds at Shelter Haven - Sweet Grass Ballroom & Veranda
9601 3rd Ave, Stone Harbor, NJ 08247

Right after the ceremony, join us for cocktail hour, dinner, and dancing. Please check the Website FAQ for more details!

After Party

Sat, Sep 26, 2026, 10:00 pm - Sun, Sep 27, 2026, 1:00 am

The Crew Room at Stone Harbor Pizza
315 96th St, Stone Harbor, NJ 08247

Let the fun continue with light bites and cash bar. Right next door to the reception

Places to Stay

Below are several hotels downtown in Stone Harbor. All are 3 blocks or less from the venue For guests looking to stay together or split costs, group rentals through Airbnb, VRBO, or Full House Rentals are a great option. These homes offer flexibility in length of stay, the ability to prorate costs, and a chance to enjoy a shared space with friends or family. Many local realtors are familiar with weddings at The Reeds and can help you find the perfect fit. Consider reaching out to Diller Fisher Realtors, Long & Foster, or Lou Purdy Real Estate for personalized assistance.

Hotel

The Reeds at Shelter Haven

9601 3rd Avenue, Stone Harbor, NJ 08247
 6093680100

Our rooms block is full at the Reeds. Only a few non may be available. To book, please call the reservation office directly at (609) 368-0100/ Rooms can be booked for one or two nights, and the special rate is available from now until June 26, 2026—so be sure to book early!

Hotel

Lark Motel

9800 2nd Avenue, Stone Harbor, NJ 08247
 (609) 368-2500

Just a short 2-block walk from The Reeds, The Lark offers a comfortable stay in the heart of Stone Harbor. Reservations open on January 1 and must be made via email.

Hotel

Seaward Motel

9720 2nd Avenue, Stone Harbor, NJ 08247
 609) 368-5900

A classic Stone Harbor spot just two blocks from The Reeds, Seaward’s Motel offers a convenient option for your stay. Reservations open September 25, 2025—call directly. Allows one-night stays

Hotel

Colonial Lodge

93rd Street, Stone Harbor, NJ 08247
 (609) 368-2202

A charming, cozy option just two blocks from The Reeds, Colonial Lodge offers classic beach-town hospitality. Reservations open on September 25, 2025—call directly to reserve. Allows 1-night stays

Hotel

The Stone Harbor Inn

9700 2nd Avenue, Stone Harbor, NJ 08247
 (609) 368-1141

Located just 1 block from The Reeds, the Stone Harbor Inn offers clean, comfortable accommodations in a prime location. Bookings open September 25, 2025—call early to secure your spot. 2-night minimum stay.

Hotel

Dunes Motel

9801 2nd Avenue, Stone Harbor, NJ 08247
 (609) 368-4121

Directly across the street from The Reeds, the Dunes Motel is a convenient and simple stay for guests looking to be just steps from the action. Reservations open September 2025. 2-night minimum stay

FAQs

Question

What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

Answer

Please arrive at 4pm to ensure we begin on time.

Question

Is there a dress code?

Answer

Yes, Formal attire requested. Guests are kindly encouraged to wear shades of blue. See this link for details on the dress code: https://tinyurl.com/mkbmt5pw NOTE - copy and paste the link in your browser

Question

Are children welcome?

Answer

Although we love your little ones, we have decided to make our wedding an adults-only celebration.

Question

Can I bring a date?

Answer

If your invitation says you can bring a guest, please do—we’d love to have them join the celebration!

Question

Where do I RSVP?

Answer

RSVP details will be included with your invitation in 2026, and you’ll be able to respond right here on our website. If you don’t see the RSVP page yet, no worries—it just means we haven’t opened it up yet. Stay tuned!

Question

Can I take photos during the ceremony?

Answer

We kindly ask that you please enjoy the ceremony without taking photos—our amazing professional photographers will capture every special moment. But once the ceremony is over, feel free to snap away all evening! We’ll share details at the reception on how you can upload your photos to our Wedding Photo Album.

Question

Do you have any hotel recommendations?

Answer

Absolutely! Please see the Places to Stay page of the website!

Question

Is there transportation to and from the hotels to the ceremony?

Answer

While we won’t be providing transportation, all of our recommended hotels are just a short, easy walk—within two blocks of the wedding—so getting to and from the venue is super convenient!

Registry

Our Honeymoon Fund
Our featured fund
Cash fund
Our Honeymoon Fund

Contribute what you wish

The Andre Collective
Our featured fund
The Andre Collective is a Philadelphia-based nonprofit event organization leveraging celebrations to provide employment and therapy to female survivors of intimate partner violence and human trafficking. https://www.andreecollective.org
Cash fund
The Andre Collective

Contribute what you wish

Our New Kitten
Group gift
Cat Bob
Cash fund
Our New Kitten

Contribute what you wish

Sinna Wine Glasses, Set of 4
 
Sinna Wine Glasses, Set of 4
$72

Still needs 2

Airbnb Gift Card
Purchased
Airbnb
Airbnb Gift Card
$100
Donation to Defending Reproductive Justice
Purchased
GlobalGiving
Donation to Defending Reproductive Justice
$500
Old Havana Dinner Plates, Set of 4
Purchased
 
Old Havana Dinner Plates, Set of 4
$72
Artisan Stand Mixer, 5 Qt
Purchased
KitchenAid
Artisan Stand Mixer, 5 Qt
$499.99