On April 5th, 2019, Ashton and Mackenzie crossed paths for the first time. Among mutual friends at a Wendy’s in Lenexa, Ashton approached Mackenzie, offering her some chicken nuggets. She politely declined, dumbfounded that this handsome man picked her out of the crowd. They mingled and parted ways, still remaining friends. Three years later with Ashton being in the United States Navy, he returned home after deployment for a brief stay. Mackenzie, along with Ashton, had been invited to go to a party with mutual friends, unknowingly setting the course of their relationship. Upon meeting up with their group to go to said party, Ashton noticed Mackenzie first when entering the room. He nudged his friend Jackson, a mutual friend of the two, asking “Who’s that girl?”, to which Jack replied “That’s Mackenzie, you don’t remember her?”. Fast forward a bit, the two arrived at the party with everybody else. They all entered this small home in Leavenworth and were directed to the basement. The basement, filled to the brim with people packed like sardines, was loud and hectic. Ashton stood closely behind Mackenzie, and told her that if she needed anything or was bothered by anyone, that he would be right there. The two of them stayed close to each other the entire night. The next day, Ashton was returning to the Navy. Mackenzie made the bold decision to text Ashton a paragraph, making the first move. Three days later, the two were talking, getting to know each other, and spending hours upon hours on the phone. On March 27th, 2022, Ashton asked Mackenzie to be his girlfriend, merely 3 hours before going on a week long underway (for non-fluent military speakers, that means out at sea for a week with no contact other than emails). Emailing back and forth every chance they got, furthering their connection and growing their relationship. Mackenzie and Ashton were long distance for a total of almost nine months. Mackenzie flew Ashton out to her almost every other weekend, as much as they could, in addition to having him come home for a three week leave in June of 2022 to spend time together, for the first time as a couple. Ashton served his time well and got out of the US Navy in November of 2022. Mackenzie flew out to San Diego, where Ashton was stationed, to spend his last week in the United States Military with him and celebrate his accomplishment in addition to her birthday. The two came home, and immediately went back to their day to day life, working hard for their future together. On January 1st, 2023, New Year’s Day, Ashton prepared to ask his then girlfriend, to spend the rest of her life loving him. Beneath the twinkling lights of Mackenzie’s parents’ back deck, Ashton got down on one knee and asked Mackenzie to marry him, and the rest is history! We are SO blessed and excited to be sharing our wonderful day with you all! 10/27/2024 #GoingGriffith
4:30 pm - 10:30 pm
Semi-Formal: Tuxes and gowns are welcome, and so are suits and cocktail dresses.
There will be a charcuterie grazing table for guests in addition to drinks during the cocktail hour, immediately following the ceremony!
Bride
Groom
Maid of Honor
Bride’s Youngest Sister
Best Man
Bride’s Younger Brother
Bridesmaid
Friend of the Bride
Groomsman
Friend of the Groom
Matron of Honor
Bride’s Oldest Sister
Groomsman
Bride’s Brother in Law
Bridesmaid
Groom’s Step Sister
Groomsman
Friend of the Groom
Bridesmaid
Friend of the Bride
Groomsman
Godfather & Friend of the Groom
Bridesmaid
Friend of the Bride
Groomsman
Groom’s Godson
Bridesmaid
Friend of the Bride
Groomsman
Friend of the Groom
Bridesmaid
Friend of the Bride
Groomsman
Friend of the Groom
Flower Girl
Flower Girl
Groom’s Goddaughter
Ring Bearer
Groom’s Younger Cousin
Ring Bearer
Groom’s Younger Cousin
Father of the Bride
& Officiant
Mother of the Bride
Father of the Groom
Mother of the Groom
At least a month in advance, please! You may use the RSVP link at the bottom of the page, send in your RSVP card as soon as you receive it, or both!
Please arrive by 4:00 at the latest to allow time for seating prior to the ceremony!
Please stick to Semi Formal attire! If you'd like to dress according to the wedding theme, please feel free to! Warm tones, oranges, pinks, neutrals are the way to go! Please keep in mind, no white or red dresses will be allowed at the ceremony ;)
Absolutely! We have accounted for all kiddos in your immediate family when sending out invitations. The more the merrier, just be sure to RSVP for each of you! Please be advised, as disclosed in the “Things to Remember” tab, the reception turns more “adult friendly” after 8:30/9pm!
If you did not receive a plus one and are looking to change that, please contact the Bride or Groom! We cannot promise that you'll be allowed a guest due to our volume of invited guests, but after RSVPs we'll see what we can do!
Yes! There are three large lots onsite to park your vehicle. We do not offer a shuttle or transportation, but Lyft & Uber are very prevelant in our area!
Your presence at our wedding is the greatest gift we could ask for! If you would like to honor us with a gift, our registry is set up to deliver to our home address! There will also be a card box/gift table at the reception!
Please enter the first and last name of one member of your party below.
If you're responding for you and a guest (or your family), you'll be able to RSVP for your entire group on the next page.