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Whats up with the Tarot theming in your wedding?

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We understand that tarot can be unfamiliar or even concerning, especially for those coming from a traditional Christian/religious background. So we want to take a moment to gently clarify what tarot means to us, and why it’s present in our wedding. Tarot is not about fortune-telling, witchcraft, or calling on spirits. For us, it’s a tool for reflection, intention, and meaningful conversation. Each card represents a universal theme—like trust, transformation, grief, hope, partnership, or new beginnings. Just like scripture uses parables and symbols to speak to the soul, tarot uses imagery to invite insight, pause, and deeper connection. The truth is, tarot has roots in 15th-century Christian Europe. Many early decks were filled with Christian symbolism and were originally used as tools for storytelling, moral reflection, and even spiritual contemplation. The cards themselves are not magical or dangerous—they’re paper. What matters is the intention behind them. In our relationship, tarot has been a way for us to slow down and reflect together. It’s helped us ask each other meaningful questions, process life’s changes, and align with our values. It has guided many honest, healing conversations that have made our love stronger. We know this language may be different than what you’re used to—but we want to assure you: there’s no darkness here. Just love, growth, and two people honoring the tools that helped them find each other. You’re welcome here. Your beliefs are welcome here. We just ask the same in return—with love and understanding.

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Do you have a gift registry or wish-list?

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We’re not doing a traditional registry — we’ve already built a home together and don’t need much in the way of household items. If you feel called to give a gift, financial support would mean the most to us at this time. You’re welcome to contribute with cash or via Venmo [@Alice-Taylor-25], and anything gifted may help us fund future plans — especially a honeymoon, which we don’t currently have a budget for. That said, if there’s something that personally speaks to you, we’ll cherish any thoughtful gift you choose to give. Your presence truly is the greatest gift of all.

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Will there be parking?

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Yes! Please see the Travel page for details on parking and how to get to the different venues- but there is free parking options and handicap accessibility at all venues.

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Are photos allowed during the Event?

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Yes! We didn’t hire a professional photographer. We have some volunteers to take some group photos and couple photos, but we would love it if you took pictures and videos during the events and share it all with us. We will have a method to easily share all your content!

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What is a handfasting ceremony?

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Commonly couples do some kind of ritual at their wedding- like pouring sands or lighting a candle together to symbolize visually their union and two becoming one. Handfasting is an ancient ritual where a couple’s hands are gently bound together with cords or ribbons to symbolize their union — it’s actually where the phrase “tying the knot” comes from! Since we’ll be exchanging our vows privately earlier in the day, we chose to include this ritual as a meaningful way to share our commitment with our family and community. It’s a spiritual and symbolic moment that reflects the intentions we’re setting for our marriage. The ceremony will be short and sweet — around 10 to 15 minutes. It’s symbolic and heartfelt, but not overly long or formal. Handfasting is rooted in old traditions but isn’t tied to any one religion. For us, it’s a spiritual and personal ritual that represents love, intention, and connection — values we hold dear regardless of belief system.

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Food, Drinks + Menu

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Yes there will be food! The reception is centered around the hand-fast ceremony and then a feast! I am aware that there is some allergies and sensitivities in our group and am taking that into consideration for our menu. Menu is subject to change somewhat but as of now here is our menu for reception dinner: ✨BBQ chicken ✨Baked dill carrots ✨Oven roasted baby potatoes with herbs ✨Salad ✨Charcuterie board- with imported options from Sabin’s parents in Italy 🇮🇹 There will be some alcohol options available at the events, but also plenty of non alcoholic options as well. * Theres an additional Tri tip option that may or may not be available, we are still on the fence about that option, but the chicken is 100% - and suuuuuper good!

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Are kids invited?

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Yes! While most of the kids in our family are already grown, little ones are absolutely welcome. We just ask that, during our handfasting ceremony — which is a quiet and meaningful moment for us — any disruptions be gently stepped away from. There’s lots of outdoor space and a comfortable indoor sitting area if anyone needs a break.

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Plus ones + RSVP

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Because we’re keeping our wedding small and meaningful, we’re only inviting close family and a few select friends. We won’t be including plus ones beyond those specifically invited. We truly appreciate your understanding — and if you haven’t already, please RSVP (and mention which events you’re attending) as soon as you can so we can plan accordingly!

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Theme + Dresscode

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There’s no dress code! We expect the beginning of October to give us clear skies, but more on the chilly side - so I’d recommend layers and comfort. We have a Celestial, Tarot, moon and stars type theme. Colors are dark purples and blues, black and gold ✨🌖🌌🕯️ We want to take lots of pictures so wear something you feel good in for pics!