Ivy Chiu
Adam Bilchik
Ivy Chiu
Adam Bilchik
October 4, 2026
The Rock We Still Can’t Find
We met during the fall of 2020 — at the height of COVID, when every restaurant in New York was closed and meeting someone new felt like a small miracle. Somehow, amidst all that uncertainty, we found each other on Hinge. Our first date was in K-Town. Ivy walked from the east side, Adam from the west, and we met somewhere in the middle on 32nd Street — surrounded by the midday bustle, the mix of sizzling aromas drifting from open kitchen doors, and that uniquely chaotic New York energy that somehow feels alive and welcoming all at once. We grabbed takeout from BB.Q Chicken, and Ivy brought a couple of Sierra Nevada IPAs (her first ever — chosen for the cute little truck on the label). We carried our picnic up to Central Park and found a rock that became “our spot.” We ate chicken, drank beer, and talked for hours — a simple afternoon that somehow felt timeless. To this day, we’ve never been able to find that rock again. We’ve tried! Somehow, it feels fitting that it stays hidden — like a secret marker of where everything began. Ours has always been a “slow brew” kind of love. No rush, no pressure — just curiosity, laughter, and trust unfolding naturally. From that first walk through Manhattan to five years of growing, learning, and building a life together, we’ve found our rhythm in the small things that make it all feel like home. Now, six years later, we’ll be celebrating our wedding on October 4th, 2026 — the same day we met — closing the circle where it all began.
Schedule
Saturday, October 3, 2026
Brunch Rehearsal
1:00 pm - 4:00 pm
16 Brighton Road North, Manhasset, NY 11030
Come As You Are
The rehearsal will take place at 1:00 PM at the Chiu Residence for the wedding party and those participating in the ceremony. Beginning at 2:00 PM, all invited guests are welcome to join us for a homemade lunch prepared by Adam and Ivy as we gather with family and friends to celebrate before the wedding day.
Sunday, October 4, 2026
Guest Arrival
4:00 pm - 4:30 pm
851 Main St, New York, NY 10044
Black Tie Suggested
Doors open at 4:00 PM at The Sanctuary on Roosevelt Island. We recommend arriving a few minutes early to enjoy the waterfront views and find your seat before the ceremony begins.
Ceremony
4:30 pm - 5:00 pm
851 Main St, New York, NY 10044
Black Tie Suggested
Our Catholic wedding ceremony begins at 4:30 PM inside The Sanctuary. This will be a seated indoor ceremony.
Cocktail Hour
5:00 pm - 6:00 pm
851 Main St, New York, NY 10044
Black Tie Suggested
Immediately following the ceremony, join us from 5:00–6:00 PM for cocktails and hors d’oeuvres inside The Sanctuary and out on the patio. Enjoy live music, light bites, and sunset views of the East River.
Dinner & Reception
6:00 pm - 10:00 pm
851 Main St, New York, NY 10044
Black Tie Suggested
Dinner will be served at 6:00 PM under the tented pavilion, followed by toasts, dancing, and dessert.
After Party
Sun, Oct 4, 2026, 10:30 pm - Mon, Oct 5, 2026, 12:00 am
425 Main Street, New York, NY 10044
Come As You Are
Not ready to call it a night? Join us after the reception at Grannie Annie's for drinks and a relaxed late-night hang. Just hop on the free Red Bus and come celebrate a little longer with us!
Travel & Hotel Accommodations
Hotel
Residence Inn by Marriott New York Queens
Hotel
The Benjamin Royal Sonesta New York
Hotel
The Lombardy
Hotel
Courtyard by Marriott New York Manhattan/Midtown East
Hotel
Z Hotel New York
Hotel
Graduate by Hilton New York
Registry
Wedding Party
Daniel Lamas
Best Man
Migz Rieta
Groomsman
AJ
Groomsman
Jason Chiu
Groomsman
Chris Rybicki
Groomsman
Cory McComas
Groomsman
Esther Lou
Matron of Honor
Anna Poulimas
Bridesmaid
Anna Kuo
Bridesmaid
Iris Cheng
Bridesmaid
Annie Yang
Bridesmaid
Judy He
Bridesmaid
Bill Bilchik
Father of the Groom
Donna Bilchik
Mother of the Groom
Jeff Chiu
Father of the Bride
Grace Chiu
Mother of the Bride
Addison Rybicki
Flower Girl
Rose Ioannone
Flower Girl
Mordechai Robinson
Ring Bearer
Fr. Cyril Stola
Officiant
Ivy Chiu
Bride
Adam Bilchik
Groom
Gallery
Things To Do on Roosevelt Island
Roosevelt Island Tramway - Island station
Four Freedoms Park
Roosevelt Island Lighthouse
Smallpox Memorial Hospital
Granny Annie's Bar & Kitchen
NISI BISTRO
Cafe Aviva
Starbucks
Wholesome Factory
FAQs
Question
When and where is the wedding?
Answer
Our ceremony and reception will be held on October 4, 2026, at The Sanctuary on Roosevelt Island, NYC. [📍 Directions & Map](https://maps.google.com/?q=851+Main+St,+Roosevelt+Island,+NY+10044)
Question
What time should we arrive?
Answer
The ceremony begins at 4:00 PM. Please arrive 20–30 minutes early to find your seat.
Question
What’s the dress code?
Answer
Our wedding is Black Tie Optional. Tuxedos are welcome, but a dark suit and tie is also appropriate. Formal dresses or gowns are encouraged.
Question
Are kids welcome?
Answer
We love your little ones! To keep our celebration intimate, children are invited only if they are part of our close family or the wedding party. We appreciate your understanding.
Question
Will the ceremony and reception be indoors or outdoors?
Answer
The ceremony will take place indoors at The Sanctuary, followed by a reception in the main hall and outdoor terrace.
Question
Is there parking at the venue?
Answer
Yes! The Sanctuary has its own parking lot available for guests, free of charge.
Question
Can I take photos or video during the wedding?
Answer
Yes! Photos and videos are welcome during our celebration. Please no flash during the ceremony. We’d love for you to share your memories with us — you can upload them using the QR code provided at the wedding.
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What if I have food allergies or dietary restrictions?
Answer
Please let us know when you RSVP if you have any allergies or dietary needs. We’ll be sure to share them with the caterer so everyone can enjoy the meal safely.
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