Text Preston or Court if you have any questions:)
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Preston Abend
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November 1, 2025
RSVP
Please enter the first and last name of one member of your party below.
If you're responding for you and a guest (or your family), you'll be able to RSVP for your entire group on the next page.
Schedule
Friday, October 31, 2025
Welcome Party
7:00 pm - 9:00 pm
1216 Prospect Street, San Diego, CA 92037
Hawaiian Cocktail
Yes, it's Halloween. Yes, you can wear a Hawaiian shirt. We're leaning into it. However, it might be a little chilly after sunset and the venue is on a rooftop.
Saturday, November 1, 2025
Wedding
3:30 pm - 10:00 pm
1132 Prospect St, La Jolla, CA 92037
Black-tie Optional
Ceremony will be outside on the grass, cocktail hour will be outside on the patio, and then dinner and the reception will be inside.
After Party
Sat, Nov 1, 2025, 10:00 pm - Sun, Nov 2, 2025, 2:00 am
1005 Prospect St, San Diego, CA 92037
Drunk AF
Preston will for sure be there, Court will probably be asleep.
Hotels
Hotel
La Valencia Hotel
This is our wedding venue. Rooms won't be made available online until April 1, 2025. But you can call the hotel directly to book prior to April 1, 2025 and mention the 20% off discount code.
Discount Code - 2025SHAAABE
Hotel
Cormorant Boutique Hotel, La Jolla
This is next to the wedding venue, has valet parking, and a rooftop bar.
Hotel
La Jolla Cove Hotel & Suites
This is a 5 minute walk from the wedding venue, they have valet parking, and a super cute coffee shop called the Parakeet Cafe.
Registry
FAQs
Question
When is the RSVP deadline?
Answer
Court has zero chill, please RSVP as soon as you know if you can or can't make it. But if you love chaos, and hate Court, then I guess May 1.
Question
Can I bring a date?
Answer
Please check your invite for your +1!
Question
Are kids welcome?
Answer
Sadly, in order for us to have the open bar, this event is 21+.
Question
Where should I park?
Answer
La Valencia, Cormorant, and La Jolla Cove Hotel and Suites offers valet parking.
Question
What should I wear?
Answer
Please see our schedule for the dress code. And don't wear white. :)