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We're looking forward to celebrating with you! Please check back for updates as we near our special day!
We're looking forward to celebrating with you! Please check back for updates as we near our special day!
August 30, 2025
Henniker, NH

Nicole & Patrick

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If you have any additional questions other than what is listed here, please feel free to contact us!
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When should I RSVP by?

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Please RSVP no later than May 1, 2025. You can RSVP online or by mailing back the RSVP card that accompanied your invitation. If you do not RSVP in time, we will assume that you are unable to attend. Unfortunately, we will not be able to accommodate you if you RSVP late as we will need to provide our vendors and venue exact guest count by a certain date. Invitations will be sent out well in advance, so please be sure to RSVP as soon as possible!

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Are kids welcome?

Answer

We LOVE your little ones! However, we have decided to keep our wedding and reception adults only with the exception of immediate family which will be indicated on your invitation. We encourage you to use this evening as a date night!

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Can I bring a guest?

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Due to limited capacity, we are only able to accommodate those guests formally invited on your wedding invitation. If you received a +1 they will appear under your name when you RSVP. Thank you for your understanding and please feel free to reach out with any questions!

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Is there a dress code?

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We'd love to see our friends and family dress up with us! We are requesting cocktail attire (semi-formal) for our wedding. We kindly ask that you not wear white, jeans, t-shirts, or flip-flops.

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Where are the ceremony and reception taking place?

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Both the ceremony and reception will be held at Pat's Peak in Henniker, NH. Pending the weather, the reception will be held outdoors in the courtyard. When you arrive, at the entrance you can go up the stairs ahead and then turn left, or you can enter the building on your left and take the elevator to the 2nd floor and proceed outdoors where the ceremony will be held. If the weather is not favorable, we will hold the ceremony indoors on the second floor by the fireplace. If you decide to drive to the venue there is ample parking. If you plan to drink please make sure you are safe and responsible, or have a designated driver; otherwise we will have shuttle buses leaving from the Concord Courtyard Marriott.

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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Please arrive to the venue NO later than 15 minutes before the ceremony; you can arrive as early as 4:30 PM. This will allow time for you to park (unless you are taking the shuttle or have other transportation), and find a seat prior to the ceremony.

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Can I take pictures?

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We are having an "unplugged ceremony" (no phones or cameras). When we look up to see you, we want to see your face instead of your device. The greatest gift you can give us is being fully present as we say "I do". We have hired a professional to capture this moment for us and we promise to share photos as soon as we receive them. After the ceremony, please feel free to take as many photos and videos as you'd like!

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Will there be an open bar?

Answer

Yes! The drinks are on us, but the hangover is on you! Please drink responsibly. If you plan on drinking you are required by NH State Law and our wedding venue to bring a valid form of ID. If you do not bring your ID to the venue then the wonderful bar staff will not be serving you. NO outside alcohol is permitted.

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