F A Q S

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When is the RSVP deadline?

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August 15, 2023

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What if I do not RSVP on time?

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If we do not get an RSVP back by the date in which we have provided, it will be marked as a "No." We will miss you celebrating with us, however we have to provide total guest counts to the venue in the timely manner they have given to us and cannot accept late RSVP's due to this. We hope that you understand!

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Is there a dress code?

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We'd love to see our family and friends dress up with us! We are requesting semi-formal attire for our wedding evening.

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Are there any colors that guests should avoid wearing on the wedding day?

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We kindly ask that you avoid colors traditionally reserved for the bride (i.e., whites, ivories, and creams).

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Can I bring my children to the wedding events?

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Unless a part of the wedding party, to allow guests to relax and enjoy themselves, we have chosen to make our special weekend of events adults only. We thank you for your understanding.

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Can I bring a plus one?

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Yes, if your wedding invitation envelope should state who is all invited. If you get a plus one it will state your name and guest. Please note you cannot invite more than what is written on the envelope.

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Where is the ceremony and reception taking place?

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The ceremony and reception will be held at The Oaks at Duncan Lane, Pala, CA. Each event will be held outdoors, signs will be located on the grounds to assist you in the right direction.

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What happens after the ceremony?

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After the ceremony, the couple will be taking pictures nearby for around an hour. Guests will be directed to the area near the reception for cocktail hour where they will be serving hor'dourves and beverages.

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What time should I arrive?

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The ceremony will begin at 4:00 pm, please arrive at least 30 minutes prior to the ceremony to arrive and find your seat.

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Can I take photos during the ceremony?

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We are having an "unplugged" ceremony (no phones or cameras). The greatest gift you can give us is to be fully present as we say our I do's. We have hired professionals to capture this moment for us so please allow them to do their best work. After the ceremony, feel free to take as many photos and videos as you'd like.

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Will there be an open bar?

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Yes, the drinks are on us, however, this will be a shot-free wedding as we hope this will be a night we will not forget.