No -- we love your kids, but please leave them at home! There will be an open bar and we expect you to help us shut down the dance floor.
"Black tie optional" is less formal than a traditional black tie event, but still an elevated event. The dress code allows guests to choose between formal and semi-formal attire. Men: A tuxedo is preferred, but not required. A dark suit (black, navy, or charcoal) with a tie is also appropriate. Tux rentals: www.theblacktux.com Women: A full-length dress is expected, but a cocktail dress is acceptable. Gown rentals: https://www.renttherunway.com/pdp/shop/black_tie_wedding_dresses/