Frequently Asked Questions

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Q: What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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A: We will update you all with the exact start time of the ceremony as the date gets closer. Plan to arrive at least 15-30 mins early!

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Q: Where is the wedding ceremony and reception going to be?

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A: The wedding ceremony and reception will both be held at the same venue. The ceremony is set to be outside (if weather permits) and the reception will be inside. The venue is William R. Davie Park Pavilion. The address is: 4635 Pineville-Matthews Rd Charlotte NC, 28226

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Q: Will transportation be provided to and from the venue?

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A: The best way to get to the venue is by car, but you can also use lyft or uber to and from the wedding. We would advise everyone from out of town to car pool with someone who has rented a vehicle. Please let someone know well before the wedding if you are in need of a ride.

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Q: What's the best way to get to the venue?

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A: Although we advise everyone to travel in the day before, we know some people may still travel in the day of. For those flying in the day of the wedding; the venue is approximately 28 mins from the Charlotte Douglas International Airport. Advise: Those that are not familiar with the Charlotte area should allow extra time to travel to the wedding venue in order to be on time

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Will there be parking at the venue?

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A: Yes! This is a county park with a great amount of free parking spaces!

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Q: What is the dress code?

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A: The dress code is black tie optional/semi-formal Black tie optional is a formal dress code that is more relaxed but still dressy and elegant. For men this means you can wear a tux if you want, but it's not required. For women you could wear a floor length gown, cocktail dress or a dressy jumpsuit. We ask that NO jeans, sneakers, T-shirts, balls caps, shorts, minidresses or club attire be worn; and please do not wear all white on this day. We suggest wearing dark or neutral colors. Here's a link to help explain this dress code better https://www.theknot.com/content/what-to-wear-formal-black-tie-optional-black-tie-invited

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Q: Have you reserved blocks of rooms at any hotels?

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A: N/A

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Q: Am I allowed to bring a plus one?

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A: You should only bring the plus one that is included in your formal invite and RSVP. Please do not bring any extra guests that the couple does not have knowledge of and have approved of. Space is limited so please respect this request.

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Q: Can I bring my children?

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A: We love children but due to space we are not able to accommodate any children under the age of 13 at our wedding. We have accounted for all kids/teens that will attend.

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Q: What type of food will be served at your wedding?

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A: There will be finger foods served during the cocktail/social hour. Dinner will be a served buffet style with a choice between 2 entrees (a meat OR fish option) with sides. We will have a small vegan dish as well. Please let us know in advance if you have any dietary restrictions as we only know of a few family members that have known restrictions.

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Q: Can we bring gifts to the wedding?

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A: Although your presence at our wedding is a thoughtful enough, we do understand that many people spent time to pick out a special gift for us so yes gifts can be brought to the wedding. If you're from out of town you can also ship your gift via mail; which ever is most convenient for you. There will also be a card box available at the wedding.

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Q: What is the wedding day itinerary?

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A: The wedding day itinerary will be giving in more detail as we get closer to the date. Expect a ceremony, cocktail/social hour followed by dinner and the reception!

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Q: What time will reception end? Is there an after-party?

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A: The reception is expected to end around 9:30 pm. You all are welcomed to a have night out in the Queen City after the reception lol!!

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Q: Am I allowed to take photos at your wedding?

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A: At the reception, yes, but we kindly ask you not to take photos during the wedding ceremony as we are having an unplugged ceremony. Unplugged ceremonies are a way for you all to be less distracted by your phones and more focused on the moment. Also we would like our photographers and videographer to get the best possible shots with no interferences. We will allow photos to be taken as we are about walk down the aisle AFTER being announced as bride and groom for the first time.

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Q: Can I share photos on social media?

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A: Yes, but we ask that you wait until after the wedding is over. Please do not go LIVE at any point of the wedding and be mindful of the pictures/videos you post. Also send us all the pics you can, we'd love to see them! :)

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Q: Will you be streaming the wedding?

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A: No we will not.

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Q: Do you have a wedding hashtag?

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A: Yes! The hashtag for social media (when safe to post) will be…..#TheJacksonsDO It's a play on us both saying "I do" on this day and our names starting with D and O. You get it? Huh? Huh? okay, cool! Lol

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Q: Will there be an open bar?

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A: No, there will be NO alcohol served at our wedding. This also means there will be no alcohol brought inside the venue. We will have several drink choices, but they will be alcohol free. If you have any questions please contact us. *No smoking will be allowed either*

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Q: What health and safety measures will be in place?

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A: Mask are not required but you are welcome to wear them if you like. We will have hand sanitizer available. If you feel ill we ask you to stay home we will understand.

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Q: Where will wedding updates be posted?

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A: Wedding updates will be posted on the website so please be sure to check back occasionally up until the wedding.

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When & where can I RSVP for the wedding?

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A: Although you said yes to the “save the date” you still have to officially RSVP to the wedding. RSVP will be attached to the formal invite that will direct you to the RSVP page on the wedding website and that is where you’ll answer yes or no. IT IS VITAL that you respond. Also, if you know you won’t be in attendance prior to formal invites being sent out PLEASE let us know in advance. Thank you!