Jacob and I met at the Hope Mills clubhouse. Jacob was a prospect and it was my first time ever being in a motorcycle clubhouse. It was an adventure but turned out to be one that would last a lifetime. I saw Jacob and I knew that he was the only one there I was interested in and he seemed like he couldn't even tell there was a girl in the place. He was so busy so it was hard for us to talk and some of the guys realized that I had the hots for him and gave us a hard time. At the end of the night I gave him my phone number and we texted until that could turn into a real conversation. Eventually we got the chance to go on a date and spend some time together. We hung out here and there but made time for each other and it went from strangers to friends, friends to dating, and dating to...well we are getting married!
Jacob and I were friends for about 6 months before we got "serious". We were both young and wanted to make sure that we both had the time and energy to put into a relationship. He was trying hard with the club and that took up a lot of time and commitment alone. The boys got used to seeing me around just so I could see Jacob more. But it worked, we have been dating ever since. We have a beautiful little boy who is now our world. He is more amazing everyday. When I found out I was pregnant I was scared. I had no idea how to be a mommy but Jacob had complete faith in us making it work for Ryeit. I remember the night I told him I was pregnant, I was scared he would be a mess like I was but he picked me up and spun me around and I knew in that moment that he was my best friend and I wanted to spend the rest of my days with him. He took one of the scariest times of my life and made me feel like I was on top of the clouds. We are working together to raise Ryeit up the best we can. He is such a joy and I can't imagine my life without either of them in it! Thank God for little boys!
Jacob ask me to marry him at Ryeit's first birthday party. I had joked with him for months about how badly I wanted to ask him to marry me just because I knew from the moment I looked into those deep blues eyes that I was going to fall in love with him. I just had a feeling, we were meant to be. But he fought me on it tooth and nail that he wanted to ask me and that he would do it in his time. I love him so I let him go and in time he ask me. We talked about it and we both knew that we wanted to get married we just wanted it to be right. Ryeit's first birthday was the first time both of our families were together and I had a feeling that he was going to ask me because we are both close to our families and couldn't imagine them not being there for that. The pictures are super funny. I look like a mess from trying to slip and slide with a one year old and Ryeit had red icing dripping down his chin from cupcakes. Jacob is down on one knee holding baby Dracula, asking me to marry him. How could I say no! Jacob and I are the perfect match. We support each other in our dreams and we let the other know when they need to calm it down. We build each other up and try our best to not let the other down. We are in no means perfect but we are pretty sure we were made for eachother!