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Ryan Ball

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Jamie Sailer

Ryan Ball

and

Jamie Sailer

October 12, 2024

Columbia, SC

How we met

First comes coffee, then comes marriage.....

One day in April of 2021, I was going to meet with old friends. I walked into the room and sat down. Ryan was sitting across from me and for some reason I couldn't shake the feeling of wanting to get to know more about him. Every time I went to look at him he would look away and vice versa. After a few days, and eagerly trying to find him on social media, I finally found him on Facebook. I was the one to message him first. I didn't want to come off too strong so I made up a question and asked, "Hey do you have this person's number?" He replied, "I will try my best to get it for you, how is your day going?" After his reply we got to talking more and more about what we were doing in life. He was in school finishing his bachelor's degree and I was still undecided and what career path I wanted to take. After numerous video calls and texts back and fourth we set up a date to go out with one another. We met at a coffee bar, tried one another's choice of coffee and although the caffeine didn't help with the nerves, I knew that I could be myself around him. We then went to a Mediterranean restaurant and bought so much food and had multiple conversations about our past, our families, and what we want in our future. I honestly didn't want the night to end. As the sun was going down, we walked the path at the riverwalk, jumping on rocks and laughed with one another. As the date was ending, we said our goodbyes and I went home and made sure to message him saying how good of a night I had with him. Not even a week or two later, I was meeting his family. His family welcomed me so quickly. Usually meeting families can be awkward, but I felt right at home. Throughout the first few months of our relationship, Ryan pushed me to go back to school to pursue my dreams while he was pursing his. I made it a priority and he supported me for 2 years. During that 2 years he earned his masters degree and I graduated and got a full time job. Over the years Ryan and I have created a beautiful relationship and wonderful memories. We are one another's best friend. The trips to Chimney Rock, going camping, and fishing in almost every river in the Smokey Mountains are all a part of our story. One thing I wanted to mention about our story is that Ryan and I both share a value for sobriety. It's a vulnerable part of our story. We believe that being sober has given us the life we deserve and helps each other grow in such a beautiful way. We both cannot wait to celebrate our love for one another and are very thrilled to share our happiness with our friends and family!

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Schedule

Saturday, October 12, 2024

The Sailer-Ball Wedding

4:00 pm - 10:00 pm

Twelve Oak Estate
125 Kittal Rd, Lexington, SC 29073

Travel

Hotel

Hilton Garden Inn Columbia/ Harbison

434 Columbiana Drive, Columbia, SC 29212
 8034076640

The reservation cut off date is Wednesday, September 11th, 2024. Can’t wait to celebrate!

Registry

Amazon Registry/Bridal shower

FAQs

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When should I RSVP by?

Answer

Please RSVP by September 12, 2024

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

Answer

The venue is very strict on guests arriving by 3:30 pm. Gates will be closed 15 minutes prior to 4 pm ceremony.

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Is there a dress code?

Answer

We'd love to see our family and friends get dressed up for our big day. Dress code is semi formal attire. Ladies can wear maxi to mid maxi cocktail dresses. What we recommend for men: suit and tie or khakis with a button up with dress shoes. No jeans please! Keep in mind this is an outdoor ceremony.

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Are kids welcome?

Answer

Invitations will be specific and will include names of the children who are invited. However we encourage to use this evening as a "night out" for yourself.

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Where are the ceremony and reception taking place?

Answer

The ceremony and reception will be held on site at Twelve Oak Estate. The ceremony will be outdoors and the reception will be held in the airplane hanger.

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Where is the wedding registry?

Answer

We are so thankful you will be joining us for this celebration. While gifts are not expected, we have options for our friends and family to contribute what you may like to our experiences for our honeymoon in Greece. The experiences we have chosen are listed under the registry column on our website. We can't wait!

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Is there parking available?

Answer

Yes! Parking is located at the venue site. There will be signs directing you on where to park.

RSVP

Please let us know by September 12th. We can wait to celebrate with you!

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