FAQs

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WHEN SHOULD I RSVP BY?

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Please RSVP by FRIDAY, May 23rd, 2025.

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IS THE VENUE INDOOR OR OUTDOOR?

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The ceremony and reception will both take place at Silver Creek Valley Country Club (5460 Country Club Pkwy, San Jose, CA 95138). The ceremony will be held outdoors in a grassy area, while cocktail hour and the reception will be hosted indoors.

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WHAT TIME SHOULD I ARRIVE?

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Our ceremony will begin promptly at 5:00 pm. Since the wedding is on a Friday, please allow extra time for potential traffic. The venue is in a gated community, so you'll need to check in with security, which may cause a brief delay. Please note, once the ceremony begins, entry to the ceremony will be restricted until cocktail hour begins.

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IS THERE A DRESS CODE?

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Dress to impress in your best FORMAL attire 🤍 *We kindly ask that guests avoid wearing white or similar shades to keep them reserved for the bride and groom*

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WHAT COLOR ARE THE BRIDESMAIDS WEARING?

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All of our beautiful bridesmaids will be wearing black.

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CAN I BRING A PLUS ONE?

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We would love to keep our wedding intimate. Only those formally invited on your wedding invitation will be accommodated. If you received a plus-one, they’ll be included when you RSVP.

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ARE CHILDREN INVITED?

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While we love your little ones, this will be an adults-only event, with the exception of children in the bridal party and immediate family. We hope you enjoy this as a well-deserved "night out"!

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WILL THERE BE AN OPEN BAR?

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Yes! The drinks are on us and the hangover is on you so get ready to celebrate! Please arrange transportation from the venue if you plan on drinking. We want all our loved ones to make it home safe.

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I'M TAKING A RIDE-SHARE TO THE VENUE. HOW DO I ARRANGE PICK UP?

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Since the venue is in a gated community, your ride-share driver will need to be cleared at the security gate. Please add "Ralyn and Carlos, Wedding Transportation" in the notes section so they can notify the gate attendant upon arrival.

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DO YOU HAVE A GIFT REGISTRY?

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Your love and support mean everything! If you'd like to give a little extra, we’d truly appreciate contributions to our honeymoon fund or savings for our future home. Thank you so much.

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WHAT IS THE ORDER OF EVENTS?

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CEREMONY: 5:00 PM COCKTAIL HOUR: 6:00 PM DINNER (& SPEECHES): 7:00 PM DANCING (& MONEY DANCE): 8:00 PM LAST CALL FOR ALCOHOL: 10:30 PM GRAND EXIT: 11:00 PM