If your invitation says "and Guest," then yes, if not we would prefer if it was just you.
We love your kids - we really do. But due to the limited number of guests, only the children in the wedding party and those of relatives already notified will be allowed to attend. Here's the bonus... those of you leaving your children at home will be able to enjoy your night off in the company of other adults, who will also be counting themselves blessed to have a few free moments!
No. All wedding events are being held in the same venue. Aren't you glad we spared you those tips?
Cocktail, please. But we want you to feel comfortable, so if those heels are too high or that top button is too tight, let it all hang loose. Dressy casual is fine with us if it means you will be there to share in our joy!