FAQs

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Do I need to know anything about attending a Catholic wedding?

Answer

Well, it's long: about an hour and twenty minutes. If you're not Catholic, just follow along as we sit, stand, kneel, and sing. (There will be programs provided!) When everyone starts to receive the Eucharist, you can either stay in your seat OR come up front and cross your arms over your chest to receive a blessing. We believe that the bread and wine become the body and blood of Christ, so only Catholics may partake. Just enjoy the ceremony and know we are so glad you're with us!

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What is the dress code?

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The dress code is semi-formal. Men should wear suits, sports coats and a dress shirt. Women should wear a dress or jumpsuit.

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Can my children join us at the wedding?

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Due to the length and formality of a Catholic Nuptial Mass, we respectfully request that children not join us for your comfort and theirs. If you need help finding a local babysitter, please let me know.

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Didn’t your Save the Date say the wedding was in Auburn?

Answer

Yes it did! We had a few last minute changes and we are delighted to be having our wedding at St. Ignatius Loyola Parish in Sacramento.

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What is a cocktail reception?

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Our reception will be short: only a couple hours of mingling, light savory and sweet nibbles with some champagne for sipping and toasting. We know everyone will have plans for the own way to ring in the new year afterwards!