Jamie & Alex
Wedding Party
Christina Chiavetta-Stapf
Matron of Honor
Christina and I have known each other for 17 years. We met at my first job at Nina's Custard. She has always been there for me and I am so happy to call her one of my best friends. We have had such great times together and we always have a blast. Whether it's reading books at Eddie Brady's, prank calls, concerts at the Square, celebrating Dyngus Day, Buffalo Goes Gray, Vendy's, going to the Fair, or cow tipping, she has been such a close friend to me. I have also had the opportunity to see her raise two beautiful girls. I'm so happy to call her my Matron of Honor. "A friend is someone who gives you total freedom to be yourself." -Jim Morrison
Eric Koepke
Best Man
Eric and I have been best friends since 6th grade when we got put in to a "Base Group" for the remainder of middle school. This seemingly small action would prove devastating to the education so many students. For the last 20 or so years, many legends have been born and myths created. Whether crashing his go-kart or beating his shins with hockey sticks, he has stuck by my side. In repayment, I am required to reset his shoulder when it falls out of socket which can be... frighteningly frequent. I had the honor of standing as his Best Man and I wouldn't have anybody else stand with me on my wedding day. "After all, I believe that legends and myths are largely made of 'truth...'" -J.R.R. Tolkien
Amanda Hargreaves
Bridesmaid
Amanda and I grew up together. She is the person who encouraged me to play soccer and shared my love of alternative music. We have had so many memories throughout the years... playing tennis, watching Wimbledon, swimming, our shared love of Frank Lloyd Wright, wine nights, riding bikes, Euchre, wine tours, brewery tours, baking cookies, gift exchanges, NYC Trip, Woodcock Brewery, and being my partner in crime with a lot of life experiences. I am so happy to have her stand by side on my special day. She has been there for me throughout my life as such a great friend. "The space within becomes the reality of the building." -Frank Lloyd Wright
Troy Barnes
Groomsman
Troy and I have become very close in recent years as we travel back and forth across the state in a miniature car. I never hesitate to pick him as a partner for games as we share a competitive spirit, though we frequently end up in fierce competition for first place. Whenever I need advice on home repairs or improvements, Troy is my first call. He can take even the smallest idea and convince you to start knocking out walls. Troy puts all of himself into his projects and is a constant inspiration to reach higher. "Regard it as just as desirable to build a chicken house as to build a cathedral." -Frank Lloyd Wright
Beth Barkley
Bridesmaid
Beth has been one of my best friends since kindergarten. We share a love of the Buffalo Bills and will keep rooting for a Super Bowl! We have been through a lot starting with riding a roller coaster to kindergarten all the way to being in her wedding and seeing her have her girls. Rooney and Bailey have also grown up together. We have had a lot of fun throughout the years with Bills games, card nights, dinner and movies, Super Bowls, and celebrating New Years, 4th of July, Dyngus Day, and St. Patrick's Day together. I'm happy to have her in my life and be in my wedding. "The success of every woman should be the inspiration to another. We should raise each other up. Make sure you're very courageous; be strong, be extremely kind, and above all humble." -Serena Williams
Cole Barkley
Groomsman
Cole and I were instant friends as "the outsiders" in the Starpoint group. We've bonded through our mutual love of basketball, 90's music, and Captain & Cokes. He is a die hard Pittsburgh Steelers fan, but then again no one is perfect. We try our best to not hold this against him and slowly turn him into a Bills fan. I look forward to many more Bills games with Beth and Cole, whether at the stadium or in someone's living room with endless nachos and plenty of wine. "Troubles, they may come and go, but good times, they're the gold." -Dave Matthews
Jenine Nowakowski
Bridesmaid
My work bestie! Even though I have known Jenine for the shortest length of time I couldn't picture my day without her in it. She kept me sane throughout our years at Tap. We had a blast working together and sharing our successes, triumphs, hard times, and camaraderie. Being each other's prom dates, talking about Ted Farstens, reading off the Restaurant Week menu, ripping on Riccio, sharing our love of hip hop and Ja Rule...she has made it so fun. We also took a trip to Florida which resulted in a Disney Marathon Day. I am so glad to have her be part of my big day! "Kids don't remember what you teach them. They remember what you are." -Jim Henson
Chris Monaco
Groomsman
Before Jamie, I had never dated anyone with a brother. I did not know what to expect. I'm so lucky to be getting a brother like Chris. He is always up for last minute bonfires where we share some good beer, listen to classic rock, and talk for hours. From summer concerts to eventful kayaking excursions, Chris never fails to bring a little excitement to the ordinary. During a trip to Cleveland, Chris managed to completely blow out his shorts while hurdling a concrete pole. The walk of shame back to the hotel room with his boxers on full display is something I will never forget. "As you go through life, you've got to see the valleys as well as the peaks." -Neil Young
Kate Mahoney
Bridesmaid
Kate is my cousin and we have grown up together. It's always been a blast from the Godfather to the Poop Farm, jamming out to the Red Hot Chili Peppers in the minivan, spending time at Rehoboth Beach, listening to Eminem CDs, the creature on the table, Haight Ashbury, no adults allowed, and just being there for one another throughout the years. Our trips to Disney, Cleveland and San Fran were so much fun. Kate and I have shared many life experiences together. It means a lot to have her stand by my side on my wedding day. I've always considered her to be my closest cousin but also one of my best friends. "A cousin is a little bit of childhood that can never be lost." -Marion C. Garretty
Troy Savigny
Groomsman
Troy and I have known each other since elementary school and have many memories of terrorizing our teachers. We have spent countless hours playing roller hockey, various Frisbee related games, and any other crazy backyard games he comes up with. Troy is the proud father of the coolest kid ever, and I couldn't be happier for him. Hopefully Violet will join my motorcycle gang when she gets her license. "You can discover more about a person in an hour of play than in a year of conversation." -Plato
Reid Lund
Groomsman
To call Reid the life of the party would be an understatement... Reid is the party. We met at the apartment he shared with Troy S. 10 years ago and I knew instantly he was going to be a great addition to our group of friends. Whether discussing movies, music, sports, or TV shows, Reid and I never seem to run out of things to talk about. He'd be my top choice for a road trip partner, if only he could keep his eyes open for more than 20 minutes in the passenger seat. "Get me out into the night-time Four walls won't hold me tonight If this town is just an apple Then let me take a bite" -MJ
Joe Bieron
Officiant
Jamie met Joe while working at Tapestry. Throughout the years they have kept in touch and become good friends, sharing a love of working with students. Joe has joined Alex and Jamie's trivia team. With Joe's arrival they have become an unstoppable force. He is the resident expert in all things literature and history. Joe has always been a source of comedy in conversations and has the best eyewear taste. We are so happy to have him be our officiant on our big day. "Whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority, it is time to pause and reflect." -Mark Twain
Mike Monaco
Father of the Bride
My dad and I are very much alike and I'm okay with that... from making sure the doors are locked, getting upset about how dark it gets during the winter, our phone conversations "hello" "hello" "hello,” weekend trips to Media Play & Record Theatre, "Fast & the Furious" outings, car shows, being the car pro, giving me good taste in music, watching the X-Files, family vacations, and sharing the same sense of humor. He's been such a great father who has always been there. Alex and I have appreciated all the love and support he has given us throughout the years. I have learned a lot about life from him. I am so happy he can walk me down the aisle on my big day! "My father gave me the greatest gift anyone could give another person, he believed in me." -Jim Valvano
Sheila Flanagan
Mother of the Groom
What can I say in this limited space to describe my mother? The woman who stayed up late dozens of times helping me finish school projects the night before they were due. Who took me skiing every Thursday during ski season for years. Who taught me to ride a bike and ice skate. Who got me my first dog. Who made sure my childhood was rich with sports and activities and clubs. Who took me to unbelievable places on vacations and road trips. Who taught me the value of sticking through tough situations. Who powered through cancer like it was the flu. Who showed me that being selfless and willing to tackle undesirable tasks can unlock any door. I guess the only thing that can be said is: Love you Mom!!! "This above all: to thine own self be true." -Bill Shakespeare
Debbie Monaco
Mother of the Bride
My mom has done so much for me throughout my life. I appreciate all the countless hours she took to come to sporting events, academic award ceremonies, letting me have my parties with a "small number of people," making holidays special, and just being a great mom. I have enjoyed our trips to Florida, going to Epcot, taking trips up to IKEA and Swiss Chalet, heading to the Broadway Market bright & early before Easter, and just spending time with her. Alex and I can’t thank her enough for taking care of Roo when needed and being the best to him. We are so fortunate to have her in our lives. I appreciate all her support and help with the wedding. It has meant so much especially with the time she has taken to make things just right. "What I am, you helped me to be."
Larry Moskal
Father of the Groom
Growing up there was always something to look forward to: Weekends with Dad. Sabres games, Sunday morning movies, pizza nights, watching the Braves, coffee after dinner, video games, Borders books, walking down to Blockbuster with $5, ping pong, bike rides, tennis, racquetball, giant foam airplanes, trips to Papa and Grandma's where there were BB Guns and compound bows. Every week I was guaranteed two days of fun. My dad gave me the foundation on which I have built my career and has always been an example to me that hard work and doing what you love will pay off. "Education is the most powerful weapon which you can use to change the world." -Nelson Mandela
Rooney
Ring Bearer
We couldn't imagine our big day without Rooney! Rooney or Roo is our rescue dog who we’ve been fortunate to have as part of our family for 7 years. He brings us so much joy. Roo is a love bug and is a huge fan of naps under a blanket. We love taking him for rides and going to the dog park. Rooney has definitely earned himself many photo ops on Jamie’s Instagram and Facebook. He is so loved and we couldn’t ask for a better dog. “I think dogs are the most amazing creatures; they give unconditional love. For me, they are the role model for being alive.” -Gilda Radner