Kelly & Gregory’s Wedding
Wedding Party
Alex Selmes
Officiant
Kelly and Alex first crossed paths in the spring of 2022. At their very first lunch together, they decided to sign up for an Italian language course, and even started planning a trip to Italy! Just a few months later, in September, they found themselves wandering the streets of Florence, bonding over gelato, pizza, and shopping in Rome. Since then, their friendship has only grown stronger. Kelly admires Alex’s determination, kindness, and fearless spirit; qualities that make her a truly remarkable friend. Alex lives life boldly, with a heart full of generosity, and Kelly feels beyond grateful to call her one of her best friends. Her husband, Alasdair (one of Gregory's groomsmen), is an exceptional person also. Alex and Alasdair's summer backyard pizza parties are weekly get togethers that Kelly and Gregory cherish. Those backyard hangouts and Alex's annual birthday dinner at Mucci's in St. Paul, have allowed the four of them to really create lasting friendships. It means so much that Alex will be officiating Kelly and Gregory’s wedding. Her willingness to take on such a meaningful role is one of the greatest gifts they could ever receive from a friend. Thank you, Alex, for making our wedding day even more special!
Selenia Dunst
Bridesmaid
Kelly and Selenia’s friendship began in 2012 during their undergraduate years at UAB in Birmingham, Alabama. They grew especially close in nursing school, supporting each other through the challenges and triumphs of those busy years. Throughout their twenties, life took them to different states and on countless adventures, yet their bond remained unshakable. They’ve made it a tradition to fly to one another every year, a commitment that has kept their friendship strong and ever-present. Over the years, Selenia has been a constant source of strength and support for Kelly, a true rock and confidante. Today, Selenia is pursuing her graduate degree, and it means the world to Kelly and Gregory to have her and her husband, Aldrin, standing front and center during their celebration. To Kelly, Selenia is more than a friend, she is a soul sister, and their love for one another runs deep.
Kelly Maxwell
Bridesmaid
Kelly M and Kelly K first connected in 2021 when they were both new to Minneapolis and looking to build lasting friendships in the city after Covid. What began as two recent transplants finding common ground quickly blossomed into a genuine and dependable friendship. From dinners in the North Loop to sharing plenty of laughs, and the occasional embarrassing dating story; they supported each other through the ups and downs of settling into a new chapter of life. Kelly M and Kelly K share similar backgrounds in many ways. Kelly M feels like a long lost sister that thankfully showed up a few decades into life. She has a deep understanding and empathy for others (even those she can only try to relate to). That emotional maturity, is a quality that Kelly K is regularly in awe of. Over time, Kelly M’s kindness, loyalty, and fun-loving spirit have made her not only a wonderful friend, but also a big part of what makes Minneapolis feel like home.
Lauren Scott
Bridesmaid
Lauren and Kelly first connected in early 2022, just days before Kelly’s ACL surgery. Their first “girl date” quickly revealed the kind of friend Lauren would be, thoughtful, generous, and full of heart. The day after Kelly's surgery, after knowing Kelly only a couple days, Lauren showed up with Kelly's favorite latte and a breakfast scone, a gesture that spoke volumes about her kindness and warmth. Since then, their bond has only grown stronger. With their shared fiery Aries energy, Kelly and Lauren bring out the best in each other, whether they’re planning adventures, celebrating life’s moments, or simply enjoying time together. Lauren is smart, fun, and deeply thoughtful, with a knack for making every occasion special. Kelly and Gregory feel so grateful to count Lauren and her husband, Eric (one of Gregory’s groomsmen), as cherished friends. Having them both by their side on the wedding day is truly a gift.
Lisa Worthington
Bridesmaid
Kelly and Lisa’s friendship began in the summer of 2022 with a shared love of good food in the Twin Cities. Lisa, a true Minnesota native, has a way of making everyone feel welcome, while also branching out to create lasting friendships with people from all walks of life. As fellow Advanced Practice Providers, Kelly and Lisa share a passion for caring for others, a quality that shines through in Lisa’s generosity and selflessness. She is the friend who will always have your back, offering steady encouragement and unwavering support. Beyond her kindness, Lisa is adventurous, fun-loving, and full of talents, from making homemade pasta to being the most dedicated sister to her twin. Smart, warm, and loyal, Lisa is a treasured friend, and Kelly feels so grateful to have her standing by her side on this special day.
Abby Elstad
Bridesmaid
Kelly and Abby first connected in 2019 before Kelly even moved to Minneapolis, when Abby gave her a tour of what would become her first apartment in the city. Fate (and apartment complexes!) brought them even closer when they both ended up living in the same building at Saint Anthony Main. Over time, they became steadfast friends and reliable confidants, sharing evenings in pajamas, catching up after work, talking through dating adventures, and enjoying meals together. Abby’s vibrant personality, quick wit, and infectious humor make every girl date unforgettable. A closeted DJ, shopping expert, NYC travel enthusiast, and all-around wonderful human being, she brings joy and warmth wherever she goes. Kelly feels so lucky to have Abby by her side, and having her as part of the wedding party is truly essential.
Henry Funk
Groomsman
Henry and Greg met in first grade. They bonded over drawing epic battles in class, then bringing those pencil and paper creations to life during recess. In true summer break fashion, they would stress test the limits of bicycles, trampolines, and tree houses. In high school they went on group backpacking trips deep in to the wilderness of the country's National Parks. Greg is so grateful to have Henry as a friend for all these years, and honored he can be here to celebrate Greg's wedding with Kelly.
John Schwartzbauer
Groomsman
John and Greg both loved World of Warcraft. While they never played together, that spark turned in to a friendship of offline adventures shared. Together they sampled the best that the twin cities brewery scene has to offer. Up until recently, John and Greg would get together with a group of friends to talk, have family style dinners, and share in the collaborative world building and story telling of Dungeons & Dragons. To John, Throm-Ka and thank you for being here on our wedding day.
Luke Schwartzbauer
Groomsman
Luke is a dedicated friend and father. He and Greg met through his brother John, who is also a groomsman. It was at Luke's home that we would gather to visit, break bread, and have a beer to unwind after the week. He's a gifted storyteller whose imagination, humor, and booming laugh bring life to any gathering. He is quick to lend you a hand or an ear. His friendship is a true gift, and we are so grateful for his presence at our celebration!
Eric Scott
Groomsman
Greg is so grateful to have Eric and his wife Lauren here in Minnesota. Originally from Michigan, they now call St. Paul home. Eric's wisdom and smarts come through with humor and humility. Eric finds friends everywhere, and he is always open for those new friendships. His love for his friends and community is always on display, and Greg and Kelly are both so glad to be counted in that group.
Alasdair Selmes
Groomsman
Greg met Alasdair through his wife Alex, who is one of Kelly's dearest friends. Together, the four have weathered the triumphs and tribulations of making it work as millennials. It was the unbiased advice and wise anecdotes from Alex and Alasdair that got Greg and Kelly through their home buying experience with their sanity intact. It is at their home that we gather for summer pizza nights, and wintry holiday parties. Alasdair is the master of humble wisdom, true class, and the outdoor pizza oven. We are so thankful to have him in our everyday lives, and in the biggest day of our lives.