Carmen: We met on Hinge but it took three times. The first time, apparently I ghosted him. (I don't remember this.) The second time, Patrick ghosted me. The third time, I led with the message, "Patrick, come back," and the rest is history. After our first date, I texted Ashley and said "I think I found my husband." Patrick: I remember seeing a notification hit my phone saying "Patrick! Please come back!" after unmatching from Carmen, which was a first for me in dating. After a fun first date getting sushi and some weird white fish we didn't know how to eat, I remember seeing Carmen's beautiful smiling face in light cast from the light poles in the park behind Maitland City Hall and I knew that Carmen was the only woman I wanted to marry.