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Frequently Asked Questions-
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Are kids welcome?

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Yes! Kid Friendly, all ages welcome! But also, if you want a night free of kids, you can pretend we said no and we support you getting childcare, there should be 3 toddlers and one newborn in attendance

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Can I bring a date?

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Please text Ben or Mary if you don't have a plus one listed on your invite! We want people to bring significant people in their lives if its important to them

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

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You bet! We will do our best to accommodate gluten free and vegetarian friends. Please let us know if you have any allergies our kitchen should know about.

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Are there any other events that I should know about around the wedding?

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We will have breakfast at the campsite in the morning before people leave. Both the evening potluck and the morning breakfast will be very casual. Think more friends & family reunion camping vibe and expect to help out around camp for cleanup.

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Is there transportation to and from the hotels to the ceremony?

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Nope! please plan your own transportation, if this is a barrier for you let us know well ahead of time so that we can get our friends that are helping out with logistics to troubleshoot.

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What other logistics should I know

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There's no plans between the ceremonies, we want to sneak away and take a dog walk, and people are invited to spend the time however they please, lots of hikes and walks recommended nearby There's no cell service at the camping location so be sure to save the maps in your phone, we will repeat that at the morning ceremony, but just remember "Scenic Beach State Park" is where it is at, about an hour drive from morning ceremony

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Are dogs invited?

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Honestly, if you know us you know how much we love dogs- it's very hard to say this, but we are worried about dogs wrastling and having fun on the beach being distraction during one of the really rare precious moments of our lives -- we are tucking Levi away and are encouraging friends to get a caregiver for your pups- if not possible, please just know that the canines will need to be in a car during morning ceremony and in a tent during evening ceremony

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