FAQs

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What if I don't RSVP?

Answer

To help us with planning, we kindly ask that you RSVP by the date provided on your formal invitation. If you are having trouble RSVPing, please contact the bride or groom. Unfortunately, if we don't receive your RSVP by the deadline noted on the invitation, we will have to mark you as "not attending". We will miss celebrating with you, but we do need to finalize guest count for the venue and our vendors. We cannot make any exceptions. We hope you understand!

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Can I bring a plus one?

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Our wedding is strictly invitation only. If you have a plus one indicated on your formal invitation, then you are welcome to bring a plus one! Unfortunately, we cannot accommodate other extra guests due to venue capacity.

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When should I arrive?

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We recommend arriving 20-40 minutes before the start of the ceremony to make sure everyone is on time. We kindly ask that if arriving anytime after the ceremony starts, you head to the cocktail hour/reception area to decrease interruptions to the ceremony.

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Can I take pictures during the wedding?

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Our ceremony will be an "unplugged ceremony". This means no phones/devices! We ask that all our guests follow this. Our hired professionals will be taking photos during the entire ceremony and we would like to avoid any phones or devices in the background of said photos. However, we strongly encourage our guests to take pictures/videos during the reception.

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Can I share pictures of your big day on social media?

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We kindly ask that you do not share any photos on social media of the wedding until either Sarah or Josh has had the chance to do so first.

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Is there a dress code?

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We would love to see our family and friends dress up with us! We are requesting semi-formal attire. We recommend wearing something comfortable, yet appropriate. No black tie is required, but please no blue jeans! If you have any questions regarding the attire, feel free to reach out to the bride or groom.

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Are there any colors I should avoid wearing?

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Please refrain from wearing colors traditionally reserved for the bride. This includes white, ivory, or cream colors. Bridesmaids will be wearing Eucalyptus green dresses.

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Do you have a registry? Can I bring a gift?

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Your presence at the wedding is enough and a gift is not necessary. However, if you do wish to gift us something, we do have a registry set up on this site. We would greatly appreciate a contribution towards our dream honeymoon but we do have some physical gift options listed as well.

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What is parking like at the venue?

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There is self-parking at the venue along with Valet parking. Valet parking and drop off at the front entrance on 7th Street and/or Self parking in the Historic Venue 1902 parking lot, entrance on 8th St. Cars left at the venue overnight may not be left in the venue parking lot. All keys in Valet will be returned to the guest or family and cars will be parked on the street adjacent to the venue. If you're staying at the Westin Lake Mary hotel where we have a block of rooms, there is a shuttle service that has complimentary trips to and from the wedding venue. Please see the "Travel" section of our website for more details.