The Best Wedding Venues in Southern Pines, NC

The Best Wedding Venues in Southern Pines, NC

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16 Wedding Venues in Southern Pines, NC

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Carnes Lake Banquet Hall 

5.0

  • Up to 250 guests
  • Raw space
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $1,995

Carnes Lake is an 1800 square foot hall that will be perfect for your wedding and/or reception. It's set on a private, fenced and gated, property outside Lancaster SC at 3548 N Rocky River Rd. The 6 acre lakefront venue will make you smile and breathe a little easier as soon as you arrive. The hall will accommodate around 50 - 75 people inside and room to double that with outdoor seating. Both inside and outside areas have a beautiful lakefront view. Another great feature is ample parking for all you guests. Whether you're in Lancaster, Charlotte, Waxhaw, Monroe or Pageland, Carnes Lake Banquet Hall is perfect.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Flexible event spaces
  • Offers full flexibility in setup and decor
  • Space for a large guest list

Venue considerations

  • No on-site bridal suite
  • Does not have a dance floor
  • Not wheelchair accessible
Carnes Lake Banquet Hall was the perfect venue for our wedding. From the start, communication with Fran was great - she always responded quickly to our questions and requests. The space itself was beautiful, both inside and out, creating a lovely backdrop to celebrate our special day with the exact theme we we’re looking for. As a smaller group, Carnes Lake provided an intimate and cozy setting that really allowed us to enjoy the company of our closest friends and family. We are so grateful to the entire team at Carnes Lake for helping make our wedding day truly perfect.
Paige A., 2 months ago
The Wallace Wedding & Event Venue 

5.0

Wagram, NC
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor

Experience the beauty and elegance of Wallace Venue only minutes away from Pinehurst, Southern Pines, Aberdeen and Raeford, North Carolina. Nestled and surrounded by 160 acres of private land, you and your guests will enjoy magnificent waterfront views while you exchange your wedding vows on the picturesque outdoor patio right at the water’s edge.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides setup and cleanup
  • Unique barn setting
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
  • No in-house catering options
  • Lighting and sound are not included
Lyndsay is easy to work with and it is a beautiful venue for a wedding or any type of event. So glad my daughter and her husband chose this venue for their special day
Angel Christine S., 2 years ago
Greengate Manor And Gardens 

5.0

Sanford, NC
  • Up to 100 guests
  • Raw space
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $4,000

Greengate Manor And Gardens can host weddings & events both indoors (capacity 50) & outdoors (capacity 100). At the heart of the gardens, our 1,500 square foot high-peak pole tent is complete with handcrafted wood flooring and romantic string lighting. Signature features include a custom-built white bench nestled between two magic trees, our classic white colonnades (a timeless ceremony backdrop), a wooden swing above a whimsical fairy garden, our romantic iron gazebo, and the iconic iron Greengate that welcomes guests to this storied property. What began as a stately home nearly a century ago is now a cherished destination for weddings, milestones, and gatherings that turn into lifelong memories. At Greengate Manor And Gardens, history isn’t just preserved, it’s beautifully celebrated.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Multiple event spaces
  • Unique barn setting
  • Offers full flexibility in setup and decor

Venue considerations

  • No all-inclusive dining options
  • Additional event staff required
  • Dance floor not included
My partner and I toured this property for a private event we are hosting later this year! We’ve explored other event venues in the area and I must say Greengate Manor & Gardens really took our breath away. The attention to details is prevalent throughout the property & we got a chance to meet the property manager Michelle who was absolutely delightful & helpful. Some of my favorite features were the high peak tent which sets this venue apart & creates such a luxurious & elegant feel. The blooming gardens and the indoor space available are all well kept and beautifully decorated. We are so thrilled to move forward with booking this space. Additionally, this venue is owned by a lovely couple and you can tell they have put their heart and soul into the details of the venue, it’s rare to find a venue space that has that human touch & warmth and Greengate Manor certainly excels in that respect!
Fifi C., 3 months ago
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The Carolina Barn 

5.0

Spring Lake, NC
  • Up to 300 guests
  • Raw space
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $4,500

Say “I do” at The Carolina Barn, where golden sunsets, and sweeping countryside views create the perfect backdrop for your wedding day. Enjoy elevated indoor and outdoor spaces, thoughtfully designed bridal suites, and the warm hospitality North Carolina is known for, all in one unforgettable destination.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Rustic charm with elegance
  • Provides a dedicated team on-site
  • Offers full flexibility in setup and decor

Venue considerations

  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
  • No all-inclusive dining options
  • Not for you if you don't want a rustic vibe
The Carolina Barn was the perfect venue for our wedding. Their communication was quick and efficient, which made the planning process a breeze. The quality of their work was simply beautiful - they elevated the luxury of the space with thoughtful design and decor. The team helped with everything I asked for, and all of the venue spaces were absolutely gorgeous. My guests wouldn't stop raving about it, and I can confidently say that choosing The Carolina Barn was one of the best decisions we made for our special day.
Taylor S., 3 months ago
The Southern Dream Wedding Venue 

5.0

Gibson, NC
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $5,000

Imagine stepping into a beautifully elegant barn, where rustic charm meets refined sophistication. The Southern Dream venue features high, vaulted ceilings with exposed wooden beams, giving it a warm and inviting atmosphere. Crystal chandeliers hang gracefully, casting a soft, romantic glow over the space. The walls are adorned with vintage-inspired decor, and large windows and doors allow natural light to flood in, highlighting the stunning countryside views. The barn's interior is tastefully decorated with delicate drapery, creating a perfect blend of rustic elegance and timeless beauty. It's the ideal setting for a memorable and enchanting wedding celebration.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides event staff
  • Rustic-chic setting
  • Has onsite accommodations

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • On-site parking not available
  • Not for you if you prefer a more modern aesthetic
Awarded Best of Zola
The Southern Dream Wedding Venue is an exceptional choice for any couple's special day. The venue itself is truly high-end, with a classy and elegant atmosphere featuring huge chandeliers that create a stunning ambiance. As the venue manager, I absolutely adore being able to assist couples in making sure their big day is a DREAM come true. I highly recommend The Southern Dream Wedding Venue to any couple looking for a beautiful, upscale setting for their wedding.
Kayla W., a year ago
Villa Mirabela 

5.0

Fayetteville, NC
  • Up to 175 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor
  • Starts at $8,000

Villa Mirabela is a boutique wedding and event venue equipped to accommodate your special occasion for up to 175 guests. Nestled on 7 acres of picturesque landscape, this European-inspired venue will captivate and delight. We take your vision and curate a timeless experience that brings the most value for your special occasion. The Villa Mirabela team is prepared to make it memorable and stress-free. Your only priority should be celebrating with loved ones.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Natural elegance with open spaces
  • Full catering menu to choose from
  • Provides lighting and sound

Venue considerations

  • No on-site guest accommodations
Awarded Best of Zola
This venue is absolutely stunning in every which way it is absolutely something out of a fairy tale! To be married in such a beautiful place and to celebrate our special moment with our family and such an environment that is made to make you feel like you're in a whole different world. It is literally a unique and beautiful experience in every which way and Maria the owner is such a wonderful person and is there every step of the way to assist and make sure the experience is absolutely flawless! I could not be more grateful for such a beautiful venue and such an amazing person to help make the day something to remember!
Devin, a year ago
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The Catlett Farm On The Cape Fear 

5.0

Fayetteville, NC
  • Up to 150 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $4,200

A Beautiful & Scenic Venue on the banks of the Cape Fear River, convenient to I-95 at the edge of Fayetteville, NC. We are known for our many photo ops throughout the property, our big "wedding" trees for outdoor ceremonies, a cozy venue (think dinner party vibes), and the best staff to help everything run smoothly and cheer you on! Our charming inside Venue has lights, chandeliers, and draping...practically decorated for you. Our seating capacity is 150. Chairs & tables included, choose the Vendors you love, and let us take care of you. Find ALL that is included on our website under our name.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Wheelchair accessible
  • Unique barn setting
  • Private area for the wedding party

Venue considerations

  • No built-in audiovisual options
  • No on-site guest accommodations
  • Does not allow pets
Awarded Best of Zola
The Catlett Farm was the perfect venue for our intimate wedding. The rustic charm of the barn, coupled with its simple elegance, created a stunning backdrop that required minimal decoration. The decor closet was a lifesaver, saving us both time and money. The open houses were incredibly helpful in our planning process. The entire Catlett Farm team was exceptional. Their communication was top-notch, the planning spreadsheet was a valuable tool, and their staff was fantastic to work with. Their professionalism and helpfulness made our entire wedding experience truly unforgettable. Our favorite moment was our private dance at the end of the night. The feeling of pure joy and satisfaction was indescribable. The venue was beautiful, and our taco truck was a huge hit with our guests. We received countless compliments on both.
Amy, a year ago
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Donovan Manor 

5.0

Fuquay-Varina, NC
  • Up to 350 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $4,000

Nestled on 15 breathtaking acres just 10 miles from downtown Raleigh, Donovan Manor is a premier wedding and event venue where timeless elegance meets modern sophistication. Our estate features a stunning Grand Ballroom, beautifully manicured gardens, and thoughtfully designed wedding suites, creating the perfect setting for any celebrations. With both indoor and outdoor event spaces, luxury amenities, and exclusive catering, Donovan Manor offers a seamless experience tailored to your vision. Whether you’re planning an intimate gathering or a grand affair, our dedicated team ensures every detail is flawlessly executed, so you can celebrate with ease and joy.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Caters to out-of-town guests
  • Provides setup and cleanup
  • Has a luxe vibe

Venue considerations

  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available
  • No free parking
  • Does not have a dance floor
Donovan Manor was a dream venue, and we would absolutely recommend getting married here!! The pictures don’t even do it justice. From the first tour, they were so kind and accommodating! The venue itself is so well thought out. It is not only beautiful from the inside out, but the attention to detail and the layout are truly beyond words. The brides suite is spacious, fun, and allows for much more than just getting ready; ie relaxing, dancing, eating and so many photo ops! The guys loved the groom suite! The rose garden is nothing less than stunning! The guests raved about it. Even if we had to do our rain plan, we were excited, because the ballroom is just as breathtaking. We got so many compliments on the beautiful reception (and the chandeliers!!). On top of the venues beauty, the team and owner are so helpful, responsive, and sweet. I felt like they really wanted me to live out my vision, helped answer questions, and made the day go by seamlessly! Even with a million requests from my family and the stress of a possible hurricane coming in- their team was incredible. I can’t thank them enough for truly giving me my dream wedding!
Abby G., 2 months ago
The Parlour At Manns Chapel 

5.0

Chapel Hill, NC
  • Up to 100 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $5,000

With a reimagined chapel, Euro-inspired courtyard, and beautifully landscaped grounds, this dream setting capacity is 100 guests or less. The thoughtful guest list allows you to focus on a highly put-together experience, filling your day with personal touches that leave you and your guests feeling valued and inspired. If this sounds like the perfect way to begin your new life together, we are so glad you're here. The Parlour is the only venue created for the refined, intimate event experience. If you don't believe in obligatory invites, and you value knowing everyone at the table- we're with you. If you prefer styled, more creative details over an "audience," then celebrate small with us at The Parlour, where "small" means well-curated, discerning, and the mark of meaningfulness.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Multiple event spaces
  • Feels like a getaway
  • Flexible event spaces

Venue considerations

  • No on-site guest accommodations
  • Does not provide event staff
  • Does not allow pets
Awarded Best of Zola
The Parlour At Manns Chapel was the perfect venue for our wedding day. From the very beginning, their communication was friendly, fast and efficient - they made the planning process so easy. The venue itself has a charming, cozy garden feel that didn't require a lot of additional decor to make it special. We loved the intimate, welcoming atmosphere and the fact that they had all the vendors we needed as recommendations to make our day seamless. They made our wedding day perfect!
Samuel K., 5 months ago
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The Upchurch 

5.0

Cary, NC
  • Up to 225 guests
  • Select services
  • Starts at $5,500

Combining historic charm with modern amenities, The Upchurch offers a versatile space for weddings. The venue features elegant interiors and beautiful outdoor spaces, providing a sophisticated backdrop for any celebration. Personalized service ensures a unique and unforgettable wedding.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Allows pets
  • Wheelchair accessible
  • Provides a dedicated team on-site

Venue considerations

  • No in-house catering options
  • No on-site guest accommodations
  • Best for events with big guest lists
Awarded Best of Zola
Our wedding at The Upchurch was one of THE best days of our lives and we are so thankful for such a beautiful celebration for our marriage. The venue was absolutely gorgeous, well laid out and a perfect match for us. In addition to the quality of the venue design, the quality of the owner Cara and venue team is exceptional. They make you feel right at home and as so helpful throughout the planning stages. Highly recommend!!
Shelby S., a year ago
Westwood Lodge 
Wadesboro, NC
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Raw space
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $5,000

The world melts away as you drive up our long, gated entrance to the Westwood compound. Sitting on top of a lofty ridge, with unparalleled views, you'll find yourself immediately miles away from the hustle and bustle. Relax, partake, drink in our sumptuous offerings of earth, water, fire and sky. At Westwood there are 4 distinct wedding locations. The front or back lawn of the lodge provide an intimate and regal setting for your event. The Moongate, which symbolizes everlasting love, nestled between The Lodge and The Grange, accomodating 200. Foxtail Lake has a beautiful view of the sunset and also accomodates 200.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Historic touches
  • Has an intimate atmosphere
  • Provides a dedicated team on-site

Venue considerations

  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No all-inclusive dining options
Het Landhuis 
Pittsboro, NC
  • Up to 500 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor

Initially, the 62-acre Het Landhuis Estate was part of a 1,000-acre farm owned by the Henderson family who operated a tanyard in the area, making saddles and other leather items. One day a future bride drove past Het Landhuis; she stopped in the main driveway and asked if she could get married there. That conversation changed the course of the estate, and Het Landhuis had its Grand Opening in 2010. Het Landhuis is not your ordinary location for a wedding; this becomes obvious once you visit the grounds and look at the eight different venues the estate offers. Het Landhuis presents you with a magical setting for your storybook wedding!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • Dressing room available
  • Rustic-chic setting

Venue considerations

  • On-site parking not available
  • Lighting and sound are not included
  • No venue-provided food services
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Simply Divine Events & Lodging, LLC 
Dunn, NC
  • Up to 200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $4,000

The Simply Divine Wedding Experience. Combining the elegance of a bygone era with timeless charm, modern convenience, and sophistication. If you’re planning your big day, getting all the little details right is so important. You need a great location, plenty of space, access to the right facilities and of course, a price that fits your budget, customized to your particular needs.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • Caters to out-of-town guests
  • Provides event staff

Venue considerations

  • Lighting and sound are not included
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Limited cleanup and setup services
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Lavender Oaks Farm 
Chapel Hill, NC
  • Up to 250 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $14,500

Imagine all your favorite people in the most beautiful setting of 60 private acres located less than 5 miles to downtown Chapel Hill, NC, very close to all the hotels, restaurants, only 30 minutes to RDU Airport, and yes, Uber/Lyft and shuttles come to our farm.  We include all your Wedding Planning, a Day of Coordinator, all your décor, tables, chairs, centerpiece items, graphic design services, and we're here every step of the way to bring your wedding vision to life!  Our Barn is 7,000 sq. ft., rustic, yet refined, and includes an elegant and spacious Dressing Suite, a separate modern Log Cabin for a secondary dressing suite, gourmet kitchen, spacious restrooms, and a 1,000 sq ft loft. Enjoy our 3,000 outdoor patio with our stone fireplace, wrought iron gazebo, all overlooking our 4,000 lavender plants. Our covered outdoor Pavilion Barn is a beautiful setting for your ceremony, cocktail hour, or as a rain plan.  We would love the opportunity to make your wedding day spectacular!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • Provides event staff
  • Pets can join the celebration

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you don't want a rustic vibe
  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
  • On-site parking not available

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About wedding venues in Southern Pines, NC

North Carolina offers an impressive wedding venue landscape with everything from historic plantations to rustic barns, elegant urban spaces and coastal retreats. You'll find architectural diversity throughout the state; from colonial-era mansions in Charlotte to converted textile mills in the Triangle region. Mountain venues give you breathtaking panoramic views of the Blue Ridge Mountains that your guests won't forget.

What's the Average Cost for North Carolina Wedding Venues?

Wedding venues in North Carolina typically run between $6,400 and $7,800, making up about 16% of your total wedding budget. That's actually quite reasonable compared to the national average of $6,500-$12,000 or 25% of total costs. For a complete North Carolina wedding you can expect these total costs based on your guest count: A small wedding with 50 guests averages $19,707. With 100 guests you're looking at $32,695. For 150 guests the typical cost reaches $44,906. Larger celebrations with 200 guests average $55,823 while 250 guests pushes to $66,740. A large wedding with 300 guests typically costs $77,657.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in North Carolina?

Alexander Homestead in Charlotte offers ADA-accessible parking and restrooms in a beautiful historic setting with a rustic barn and gorgeous gardens. You'll appreciate the inclusivity without sacrificing style. The Mint Museum features various rooms and terraces that can accommodate different needs, making it a solid choice for accessible events with an artistic backdrop. Nantahala Weddings & Events is fully ADA-compliant while giving you stunning mountain views on a secluded estate. They even have nearby lodging options for your guests.

Which North Carolina Venues Support Remote Participation?

The Barn on New River in West Jefferson gives you a picturesque setting with modern amenities that can be customized for interactive remote elements. Your virtual guests won't miss a thing. River Landing near Wilmington features elegant spaces and grand ballrooms that support technical capabilities for streaming and live Q&A sessions. The Maxwell in Raleigh, with its contemporary design and abundant natural light, adapts beautifully to technology integration for virtual wedding experiences that feel intimate even from afar.

How Much Should I Budget for Wedding Services in North Carolina?

ServiceAverage CostPercentage of Total Budget (150 guests)
Venue$7,08916%
Catering$5,67113%
Flowers$5,54612%
Bar Services$4,53710%
Photographers$4,2669%
Planners$4,0249%
Videographers$3,7688%
Bands/DJs$1,3903%
Cakes/Desserts$9602%
Hair & Makeup$6351%

Where Can Foodies Find Outstanding Wedding Cuisine in North Carolina?

The Farm - A Gathering Place in Candler offers amazing farm-to-table dining with customized menus just west of Asheville. You'll love having multiple ceremony sites to choose from and the convenience of on-site lodging for your guests. The Carolina Inn in Chapel Hill is known for classic Southern cuisine with elegant event spaces right on UNC's campus. Their beautiful outdoor courtyards create a magical setting for your special day. Polanco Venue by Chef Carrasco in Asheville specializes in mixed cuisine with excellent service from experienced staff who can help create your perfect culinary experience.

When Should I Book My North Carolina Wedding Venue?

September is North Carolina's most popular inquiry month for weddings, so you'll need to book earlier if you're planning a fall celebration. Don't wait too long or your dream venue might be taken. Focus your venue tours on spaces that specifically accommodate your guest count to save time and avoid falling in love with locations that won't work for your party size. This targeted approach helps you find the perfect match faster.

North Carolina offers an impressive wedding venue landscape with everything from historic plantations to rustic barns, elegant urban spaces and coastal retreats. You'll find architectural diversity throughout the state; from colonial-era mansions in Charlotte to converted textile mills in the Triangle region. Mountain venues give you breathtaking panoramic views of the Blue Ridge Mountains that your guests won't forget.

What's the Average Cost for North Carolina Wedding Venues?

Wedding venues in North Carolina typically run between $6,400 and $7,800, making up about 16% of your total wedding budget. That's actually quite reasonable compared to the national average of $6,500-$12,000 or 25% of total costs. For a complete North Carolina wedding you can expect these total costs based on your guest count: A small wedding with 50 guests averages $19,707. With 100 guests you're looking at $32,695. For 150 guests the typical cost reaches $44,906. Larger celebrations with 200 guests average $55,823 while 250 guests pushes to $66,740. A large wedding with 300 guests typically costs $77,657.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in North Carolina?

Alexander Homestead in Charlotte offers ADA-accessible parking and restrooms in a beautiful historic setting with a rustic barn and gorgeous gardens. You'll appreciate the inclusivity without sacrificing style. The Mint Museum features various rooms and terraces that can accommodate different needs, making it a solid choice for accessible events with an artistic backdrop. Nantahala Weddings & Events is fully ADA-compliant while giving you stunning mountain views on a secluded estate. They even have nearby lodging options for your guests.

Which North Carolina Venues Support Remote Participation?

The Barn on New River in West Jefferson gives you a picturesque setting with modern amenities that can be customized for interactive remote elements. Your virtual guests won't miss a thing. River Landing near Wilmington features elegant spaces and grand ballrooms that support technical capabilities for streaming and live Q&A sessions. The Maxwell in Raleigh, with its contemporary design and abundant natural light, adapts beautifully to technology integration for virtual wedding experiences that feel intimate even from afar.

How Much Should I Budget for Wedding Services in North Carolina?

ServiceAverage CostPercentage of Total Budget (150 guests)
Venue$7,08916%
Catering$5,67113%
Flowers$5,54612%
Bar Services$4,53710%
Photographers$4,2669%
Planners$4,0249%
Videographers$3,7688%
Bands/DJs$1,3903%
Cakes/Desserts$9602%
Hair & Makeup$6351%

Where Can Foodies Find Outstanding Wedding Cuisine in North Carolina?

The Farm - A Gathering Place in Candler offers amazing farm-to-table dining with customized menus just west of Asheville. You'll love having multiple ceremony sites to choose from and the convenience of on-site lodging for your guests. The Carolina Inn in Chapel Hill is known for classic Southern cuisine with elegant event spaces right on UNC's campus. Their beautiful outdoor courtyards create a magical setting for your special day. Polanco Venue by Chef Carrasco in Asheville specializes in mixed cuisine with excellent service from experienced staff who can help create your perfect culinary experience.

When Should I Book My North Carolina Wedding Venue?

September is North Carolina's most popular inquiry month for weddings, so you'll need to book earlier if you're planning a fall celebration. Don't wait too long or your dream venue might be taken. Focus your venue tours on spaces that specifically accommodate your guest count to save time and avoid falling in love with locations that won't work for your party size. This targeted approach helps you find the perfect match faster.

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